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Re: Married Men Can Still Have Female Best Friend? by slimyem: 10:11am On Oct 12, 2011 |
walcolm:seconded! |
Re: Married Men Can Still Have Female Best Friend? by ceah(m): 10:12am On Oct 12, 2011 |
I have 2 female best friends and we have No hidden agenda. One is married and at first The husband hated me, lol! But eventually he has come to love me like a brother, it's better not to have them else like they say 'trouble sleep yanga go wake am, wetin you dey Find, wahala', ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Married Men Can Still Have Female Best Friend? by atasteve: 10:12am On Oct 12, 2011 |
Selecting other best friends outside your spouse is writing letter to BIG PROBLEM. Flee all appearances of evil. |
Re: Married Men Can Still Have Female Best Friend? by xynerise: 10:23am On Oct 12, 2011 |
iyatrustee:thats d power of xynerise. ![]() |
Re: Married Men Can Still Have Female Best Friend? by maclatunji: 10:38am On Oct 12, 2011 |
xynerise: Later, you will say you have problems. Very inappropriate post, you should know better! There are some things you just don't play with, this is one of them. |
Re: Married Men Can Still Have Female Best Friend? by aribitoye(m): 10:42am On Oct 12, 2011 |
i have a female who is my bestfriend,my wife knows abt her,and my she doesnt complain abt it.akuna matata! |
Re: Married Men Can Still Have Female Best Friend? by BabaAra2(m): 10:43am On Oct 12, 2011 |
Once you are married, you wife or husband becomes your best friend. It is best for union you limit going out with friends either male or female. |
Re: Married Men Can Still Have Female Best Friend? by Nayah(f): 10:50am On Oct 12, 2011 |
Why not?? I mean getting married doesn't mean being in prison! I prefer knowing her best friend especially if you think this is a threat, but actually I think we should respect the past of each partner to live him a bit space and continue having a social life, of course we have to fix limits but let's try to trust in our partner |
Re: Married Men Can Still Have Female Best Friend? by comotdere(m): 10:55am On Oct 12, 2011 |
Yes something is wrong with it and everything is wrong when the female friend is a married woman too. Be you a guy or a lady, you are suppose to withdraw from such friendship. The withdrawal may not be sudden but it must be made. |
Re: Married Men Can Still Have Female Best Friend? by Igosun: 11:42am On Oct 12, 2011 |
If it's just friend no prob, i hope your wife knows her too. |
Re: Married Men Can Still Have Female Best Friend? by harakiri(m): 12:05pm On Oct 12, 2011 |
anonymous6: The hypocrisy and double talk of women never fails to amaze me. So now that it's a married man involved, it's "risky" for him to have a lady as a best friend. These are the same women that see "nothing wrong" in a lady keeping male friends or a married woman having a guy as a friend/best friend. No wahala. |
Re: Married Men Can Still Have Female Best Friend? by splitnaija(m): 12:29pm On Oct 12, 2011 |
Nothing wrong. I sure need one to "confide in" just in case madam is indisposed. |
Re: Married Men Can Still Have Female Best Friend? by mimi234: 12:31pm On Oct 12, 2011 |
It depends, If the girl in question was your best friend prior to your marriage then the girl should then become a 'family-friend' to both you an your wife not just your best friend. But i do believe such friendships is just asking for trouble, mehnnn, Plus having a best friend will require you to invest time and energy into that friendship if shes a girl then a lot your time and energy will be going towards your girl best friend and no wife would like to see their husbands spending that amount of time and energy on another girl. Think wisely. |
Re: Married Men Can Still Have Female Best Friend? by Ranoscky(m): 12:57pm On Oct 12, 2011 |
To be honest, I dont think Rano can have a female best friend O! Omo, something must hapun shaaaaa ni. |
Re: Married Men Can Still Have Female Best Friend? by Nobody: 12:58pm On Oct 12, 2011 |
Yup Yup YuP! My Wife gave me the Green light to have Female best Frnds -- Nothing is wrong wiv It! ![]() ![]() |
Re: Married Men Can Still Have Female Best Friend? by Nayah(f): 1:00pm On Oct 12, 2011 |
Ranoscky:How are you?? at least you're honest ![]() |
Re: Married Men Can Still Have Female Best Friend? by Ikroberts: 1:29pm On Oct 12, 2011 |
why not, if can control your self do it, is a bad thing. |
Re: Married Men Can Still Have Female Best Friend? by Myaboo(f): 1:43pm On Oct 12, 2011 |
No, I don't think it's a good idea cos there will be a lot of jealousy going on especially if you and your b-friend are really close. it will jus get confusing later down d line between d both of you and it will just cause problems in your married life, but only you know what's best for you. ![]() |
Re: Married Men Can Still Have Female Best Friend? by Pennywise(m): 1:50pm On Oct 12, 2011 |
Not a good idea, I have come to find (again and again). Unless, . . . . . |
Re: Married Men Can Still Have Female Best Friend? by Pennywise(m): 2:00pm On Oct 12, 2011 |
Initially things may start out quite innocently-exchanging ideas, make jokes. Then there is the occasional courtesy complements when she dons a fitting dress. This goes on to what I call appreciative compliment. Thereafter you just want to get your hands on what lies beneath. Why not. She is a woman afterall. You do it that one time. Then again and again etc. Yes dejavu-there we go again with all the good, the bad and the ugly of a full fledged amorous affair in your hand. |
Re: Married Men Can Still Have Female Best Friend? by Nobody: 2:36pm On Oct 12, 2011 |
It is only FOOLS dat give excuses for wrongdoings! IF UR ONE den u can reply my post,FOOL!! ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Married Men Can Still Have Female Best Friend? by anonymous6(f): 3:05pm On Oct 12, 2011 |
harakiri: I don't know what you are talking about and what I said is not a double standard cause I did mention that it isn't ok for a married women with a male friend unless he is g-ay(but that isn't common with Nigerians) & it is not ok for married men to have female best friends either unless it is his sister and female cousin. Sorry but that is the truth, plus this thread is about married men, so whats your point. |
Re: Married Men Can Still Have Female Best Friend? by jumie(f): 3:28pm On Oct 12, 2011 |
@ Poster, What is your definition of "best friend"? i suppose it should mean someone whom you like/appreciate/cherish above every other. Why cant you make your wife that person? Is the lady in question also married or single? For a married man having a female best friend is not only very risky, but it is one of the most demoting things you can do to your wife. How will your wife feel knowing that she has a female "rival" whom you share your cares, concerns etc with. It's not just an unwise idea, but the truth is that your marriage will only suffer. There is nothing wrong with having a male close pal whom is also preferably married and of like-minds with you. The wives could also become friends this way and everyone is happy. Having a female best friend for a married man is the beginning of the downfall of his marriage. |
Re: Married Men Can Still Have Female Best Friend? by felifeli: 3:46pm On Oct 12, 2011 |
Yes absolutely , but he will soon become an (un)-married man sha ! ![]() |
Re: Married Men Can Still Have Female Best Friend? by xynerise: 3:50pm On Oct 12, 2011 |
jumie:ok. |
Re: Married Men Can Still Have Female Best Friend? by mummy3(f): 4:02pm On Oct 12, 2011 |
xynerise: He or she knows, He's just trying to say that women cant be your best friend if you are not buoyant enough to cater for their request. ![]() woman + cash = best friend |
Re: Married Men Can Still Have Female Best Friend? by Exponental(m): 5:07pm On Oct 12, 2011 |
Very posible! My friend @ schl dn was d bestman 4 d groom on his girl-friend's (just friends) wedding. They are still friends till date, though, limited now. |
Re: Married Men Can Still Have Female Best Friend? by kurus: 6:54pm On Oct 12, 2011 |
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Re: Married Men Can Still Have Female Best Friend? by kokoye(m): 7:17pm On Oct 12, 2011 |
no! |
Re: Married Men Can Still Have Female Best Friend? by ronkebp(f): 7:24pm On Oct 12, 2011 |
My husband shall not have a female best friend, except me, thus says MOI. |
Re: Married Men Can Still Have Female Best Friend? by xynerise: 7:37pm On Oct 12, 2011 |
ronkebp:or what? ![]() |
Re: Married Men Can Still Have Female Best Friend? by ronkebp(f): 7:44pm On Oct 12, 2011 |
xynerise: You don't want to find out. ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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