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Re: Why Are Some Single Ladies So Comfortable Dating Married Men? by daddyQ: 4:47pm On Aug 09, 2023
This is the latest norms,not just Nigeria but all countries, our generation are really facing hardship,the easiest means for most ladies to get some change for their needs is to hang around married men coz those married men gat some money to spend with less drama or even careless if the lady in question is dating 100 guys,na the society wey we dey live now be that
Re: Why Are Some Single Ladies So Comfortable Dating Married Men? by MICVOCT(m): 4:53pm On Aug 09, 2023
LexNuel:
For a married man, sometimes its not about sleeping with the single lady. Sometimes its just about companionship and having someone who makes you feel good or feel like a man.

When you've been married for a while with multiple kids, marriage begins to lose meaning if care is not taken.

If conscious effort is not made by both parties to make the marriage interesting, then either party will look for something outside to make him/ her happy or feel good. It could be working extra hours, flexing outside with friends, or getting a side chick or sugar boy.

The most important thing is, you're doing that because you're trying to fill a hole in your marriage which could be emotional, sexual, social, mental, physical, etc.

To stop cheating, find out what hole you're trying to fix, and communicate with your partner, so he/she can fill that hole for you instead of looking for a third party.

Note: Your spouse might not probably meet all your needs especially as the marriage progresses. Know this and know peace.

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Re: Why Are Some Single Ladies So Comfortable Dating Married Men? by Elkidz: 4:57pm On Aug 09, 2023
DenreleDave:
This is a billion dollars question in my mind. It is now a norm for single ladies to compete with a married woman for her husband. They know the man is married with or without kids but our single ladies see it as a normal thing and the society has also ignorantly or unconsciously accepted it as a norm.

This makes me think again that a man doesn't instigate cheating on his wife, he is only tempted by another lady who is greedy jealous and envious about her fellow woman that is married to a man. Yes, men don't have the intention to cheat, we are only enticed by the greedy single ladies whose intention is to frustrate their fellow ladies and to fulfil their greedy needs.

Single men rarely mess with a married woman because when the society finds out, it will bring a heavy backlash on the married woman, the society won't stop reminding her that she cheated on her husband with a single guy but the society normalized a single lady for sleeping with a married man.

Many guys are still single because the single ladies are busy devicing how to get a married man on her bed to fulfil her greed. Many of we single guys are stranded because we can't approach married women as we respect the sanctity and vow of their marriage


My question is; Why do single ladies love to sleep with married men?

Marrying 100 wives does not stop an adulterous man from being adulterous.
Polygamy is not a guarantee to faithfulness in marriage.
I'm ta saying this cos of those who're saying men are polygamous in nature.

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Re: Why Are Some Single Ladies So Comfortable Dating Married Men? by highchief1: 4:58pm On Aug 09, 2023
MrBrownJay1:


you may "feel" you aint throwing your marriage/family under the bus but thats exactly what you would be doing (the minute you get caught).
caught by who?Na foolish woman Dey leave em husband say e cheat on am
Re: Why Are Some Single Ladies So Comfortable Dating Married Men? by medd422: 4:58pm On Aug 09, 2023
Money
Re: Why Are Some Single Ladies So Comfortable Dating Married Men? by Blackgurl247(f): 4:59pm On Aug 09, 2023
Money Money and Money
Re: Why Are Some Single Ladies So Comfortable Dating Married Men? by achimendy(m): 5:01pm On Aug 09, 2023
DenreleDave:
This is a billion dollars question in my mind. It is now a norm for single ladies to compete with a married woman for her husband. They know the man is married with or without kids but our single ladies see it as a normal thing and the society has also ignorantly or unconsciously accepted it as a norm.

This makes me think again that a man doesn't instigate cheating on his wife, he is only tempted by another lady who is greedy jealous and envious about her fellow woman that is married to a man. Yes, men don't have the intention to cheat, we are only enticed by the greedy single ladies whose intention is to frustrate their fellow ladies and to fulfil their greedy needs.

Single men rarely mess with a married woman because when the society finds out, it will bring a heavy backlash on the married woman, the society won't stop reminding her that she cheated on her husband with a single guy but the society normalized a single lady for sleeping with a married man.

Many guys are still single because the single ladies are busy devicing how to get a married man on her bed to fulfil her greed. Many of we single guys are stranded because we can't approach married women as we respect the sanctity and vow of their marriage


My question is; Why do single ladies love to sleep with married men?




It's real simple, without married men single ladies will die of starvation.
Re: Why Are Some Single Ladies So Comfortable Dating Married Men? by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:08pm On Aug 09, 2023
highchief1:
caught by who?Na foolish woman Dey leave em husband say e cheat on am

- some women stay in such miserable marriage out of desperation, until they get infected with STDs and/or deadly diseases
- others simply divorce their husband and leave with the kids
- a few will simply poison the randy husband, cry crocodile tears at his funerals before taking over all his properties.
Re: Why Are Some Single Ladies So Comfortable Dating Married Men? by highchief1: 5:14pm On Aug 09, 2023
MrBrownJay1:


- some women stay in such miserable marriage out of desperation, until they get infected with STDs and/or deadly diseases
- others simply divorce their husband and leave with the kids
- a few will simply poison the randy husband, cry crocodile tears at his funerals before taking over all his properties.
bros make I hear word.how many years u Dey?will u tell u sister to leave his husband because she caught him with a girl?even a pastor won’t give any one such a foolish counsel.Std from where condom no Dey,if std sef come treatment no Dey.Why una Dey do like say std na end of the world?are u healthier than ppl that have had or has std?ask ur doctor std and bp which one don send ppl to great beyond pass.Na careful we Dey Dey we no Dey fear
Re: Why Are Some Single Ladies So Comfortable Dating Married Men? by Aarenasbaba(m): 5:14pm On Aug 09, 2023
Who no want better thing
Re: Why Are Some Single Ladies So Comfortable Dating Married Men? by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:19pm On Aug 09, 2023
highchief1:
bros make I hear word.how many years u Dey?will u tell u sister to leave his husband because she caught him with a girl?even a pastor won’t give any one such a foolish counsel.Std from where condom no Dey,if std sef come treatment no Dey.Why una Dey do like say std na end of the world?are u healthier than ppl that have had or has std?ask ur doctor std and bp which one don send ppl to great beyond pass.Na careful we Dey Dey we no Dey fear

pastors are deluded religious people who pretend to be holy but would be fucking your own wife behind close doors.
come on bro, if my sister was married to a man who knowingly cheats on her, i would advise her ON THE SPOT to leave that evil man. a divorced sister is better than a dead sister. majority of these cheating men catch diseases that they knowingly pass on to their wives...

here is just one of such cheating husband infecting his wife.... here: https://www.nairaland.com/7796685/herpes
Re: Why Are Some Single Ladies So Comfortable Dating Married Men? by Exceed15: 5:31pm On Aug 09, 2023
Because some of the married men have been chased out by their nagging/toxic wives into the arms of another woman
Re: Why Are Some Single Ladies So Comfortable Dating Married Men? by highchief1: 5:33pm On Aug 09, 2023
MrBrownJay1:


pastors are deluded religious people who pretend to be holy but would be fucking your own wife behind close doors.
come on bro, if my sister was married to a man who knowingly cheats on her, i would advise her ON THE SPOT to leave that evil man. a divorced sister is better than a dead sister. majority of these cheating men catch diseases that they knowingly pass on to their wives...

here is just one of such cheating husband infecting his wife.... here: https://www.nairaland.com/7796685/herpes
theres no truth in u.just kuku tell ur sisters not to marry at all.because the man that will not cheat on them,God has not created him o.I’m not a hypocrite I won’t tell u I haven’t or won’t cheat on my wife.The game has rules.no Dey tell me of std and death u no fit use that one scare me.Visit the nearest morgue around u take inventory with the attendants and see how many ppl der died if STDs.Long life na God hand it has Nthg to do with recklessness.my brother driver when no Dey drink or smoke died of kidney failure.I know pll when Dey drink Dey smoke like chimney when stl Dey ball.If u begin fear to live life ppl when don die kuku go better pass u.my advise is to always be careful.Ppl are dying everyday wetin be std.Accident has killed more Nigerians than HIV go and verify

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Re: Why Are Some Single Ladies So Comfortable Dating Married Men? by sheriffindy(m): 5:48pm On Aug 09, 2023
Such uncouthness...

Nothing Jovial about you



Jovialjune1:



Try not to be unfortunate when trying to interfere in what doesnt concern you, it is for your best interest.
Re: Why Are Some Single Ladies So Comfortable Dating Married Men? by Emdebby2: 6:17pm On Aug 09, 2023
Candidlady:
Why are married men so comfortable dating single ladies undecided
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Re: Why Are Some Single Ladies So Comfortable Dating Married Men? by Emdebby2: 6:18pm On Aug 09, 2023
Let the single ladies breathe 🤣
Re: Why Are Some Single Ladies So Comfortable Dating Married Men? by godofuck231: 6:52pm On Aug 09, 2023
When men become scarce the struggle for the natural resources becomes hostile
Re: Why Are Some Single Ladies So Comfortable Dating Married Men? by sheriffindy(m): 7:09pm On Aug 09, 2023
You're already the unfortunate one when you first interfered in Denrele's comments without him involving you..so what's your P with me interfering in yours?

Do not throw stones if you live in a glass house.

As you no get manners, you no get sense too?
Jovialjune1:



Try not to be unfortunate when trying to interfere in what doesnt concern you, it is for your best interest.

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Re: Why Are Some Single Ladies So Comfortable Dating Married Men? by Sleekfingers: 7:38pm On Aug 09, 2023
1Sharon:



You guys need to make your mind up.

Do you cheat because a woman seduced you or because your wife isn't attractive anymore or because you're polygamous in nature?


I can't be eating rice everyday. I like varieties.
Re: Why Are Some Single Ladies So Comfortable Dating Married Men? by Error401: 8:04pm On Aug 09, 2023
If you accept to date a married man, it shows your level of moral decadence. A man wont force you to open your legs.

MrBrownJay1:


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so married men who go after single women are not greedy abi? they are both part of the problem, but sadly, these single women didnt have vows with anyone thus i cant blame a single woman for accepting to date a married man MORE THAN i would fully blame a married man cheating on his wife with these lost women. majority of these single women are there because of the handouts, the gifts, the knowledge that this man will only come to see her once or twice a week etc (without taking on the marital duties such as cooking/cleaning etc for that man), while this man is willing to throw his whole MARRIAGE/FAMILY under the bus, just because of some toto.

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Re: Why Are Some Single Ladies So Comfortable Dating Married Men? by isabi2lof: 8:18pm On Aug 09, 2023
If the married men stick to their wives, will they die undecided ,

Was it not here , a married man is sharing love and infection to his wife ..

Continue blaming single ladies and exonerate the mumu married men frolicking around them ..

Unfortunately, majority of them can't do without cheating on their wives...

Everytime they'll be shifting the goal post , the ladies should say no bla bla bla , must the married men ask them out

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Re: Why Are Some Single Ladies So Comfortable Dating Married Men? by cowtail: 8:21pm On Aug 09, 2023
DenreleDave:
This is a billion dollars question in my mind. It is now a norm for single ladies to compete with a married woman for her husband. They know the man is married with or without kids but our single ladies see it as a normal thing and the society has also ignorantly or unconsciously accepted it as a norm.

This makes me think again that a man doesn't instigate cheating on his wife, he is only tempted by another lady who is greedy jealous and envious about her fellow woman that is married to a man. Yes, men don't have the intention to cheat, we are only enticed by the greedy single ladies whose intention is to frustrate their fellow ladies and to fulfil their greedy needs.

Single men rarely mess with a married woman because when the society finds out, it will bring a heavy backlash on the married woman, the society won't stop reminding her that she cheated on her husband with a single guy but the society normalized a single lady for sleeping with a married man.

Many guys are still single because the single ladies are busy devicing how to get a married man on her bed to fulfil her greed. Many of we single guys are stranded because we can't approach married women as we respect the sanctity and vow of their marriage


My question is; Why do single ladies love to sleep with married men?
wetin concern you?
Re: Why Are Some Single Ladies So Comfortable Dating Married Men? by mkbessman(m): 8:45pm On Aug 09, 2023
DenreleDave:
This is a billion dollars question in my mind. It is now a norm for single ladies to compete with a married woman for her husband. They know the man is married with or without kids but our single ladies see it as a normal thing and the society has also ignorantly or unconsciously accepted it as a norm.

This makes me think again that a man doesn't instigate cheating on his wife, he is only tempted by another lady who is greedy jealous and envious about her fellow woman that is married to a man. Yes, men don't have the intention to cheat, we are only enticed by the greedy single ladies whose intention is to frustrate their fellow ladies and to fulfil their greedy needs.

Single men rarely mess with a married woman because when the society finds out, it will bring a heavy backlash on the married woman, the society won't stop reminding her that she cheated on her husband with a single guy but the society normalized a single lady for sleeping with a married man.

Many guys are still single because the single ladies are busy devicing how to get a married man on her bed to fulfil her greed. Many of we single guys are stranded because we can't approach married women as we respect the sanctity and vow of their marriage


My question is; Why do single ladies love to sleep with married men?


Let me come from the Bible. When Adam listened to the wife and ate the fruit God didn’t call the wife. God called him directly. God didn’t answer eve until Adam ate that fruit. So men have a greater share of the blame mostly.

In my opinion I’d say the men should be held responsible mostly. For instance, if every guy decides not to cheat on his partner, now tell me; where will the single ladies cheat?

If all boyfriends stick to their girlfriends then where will the cheating come from?
I’ve seen guys who overcome seduction. Do you agree with me that everything lies on the man. If he doesn’t consent it, it won’t happen at all.


In summary; men go after women; women also flaunt themselves to attract men as well.

So if a man goes after a woman, he intends doing it. If he’s also seduced he also intends to do it because at that point of seduction some men still resist it. So everything revolves round the man.
Re: Why Are Some Single Ladies So Comfortable Dating Married Men? by AfonjaPriest: 9:52pm On Aug 09, 2023
After reading Proverbs 6:32, I hope you'll not want to be looking stupid, sitting down with adultery.
Re: Why Are Some Single Ladies So Comfortable Dating Married Men? by 43Ronin: 1:54am On Aug 10, 2023
MrBrownJay1:


bro, i cant blame a broke and hungry woman for falling to a man enticing her with what she needs/desires... it happens everyday in poor countries. a man with money can easily get any woman he desires in a poor country, because as they say:" a hungry person is not a FREE person". these women would be enticed whether that man is MARRIED, HER GRANDPA AGEMATE or even THE BIGGEST DEVIL ON EARTH. are these single women right? probably not, but then so is being lazy/hungry/homeless or broke.

AGAIN, as both should be blamed, i put more emphasis on the husband who is "cheating" on his wife while these single women aint cheating on anybody... no matter how many of these women says NO, that man's character is rotten and he will cheat regardless (even if it is with a donkey).
bro the single ladies are cheating on their BF or fiancé and they are not poor. I worked in a bank, some of my colleagues(women) earning 300k per month still dey fúck married men. one of my close paddi wey get serious BF been dey fúck one governor only pikin(married man) she get house for osapa as we dey talk. Its a combination of greed & lust. Even the bible warns mothers not to prostitute their daughters lest the country fall into whoredom.
Re: Why Are Some Single Ladies So Comfortable Dating Married Men? by Elidrisy20: 5:39am On Aug 10, 2023
Na them sabi f@@ck pass cool
Re: Why Are Some Single Ladies So Comfortable Dating Married Men? by Eagba(m): 5:40am On Aug 10, 2023
Veecruz:


Look at natural temptations, they come in once in a while and they are often momentary and overcomable. In the past, it used to be one girl/woman that just suddenly rose up to disrupt your regular life and living. But today, it is waves and waves of attack. The bible told us but people never listen to God, so more casualties.

Anyway, everyone has heard about God and the bible and how He can help but... their garden or their grave, theirs to choose.
bro if you're seeing wave and wave of temptations, it's your mindset. Simple!
No carry your repudiated mind and class am in generalization. Some people go months on months without seeing temptations
Re: Why Are Some Single Ladies So Comfortable Dating Married Men? by endyjc: 6:50am On Aug 10, 2023
Diligently read all comments on this topic and I've reached a conclusion.
Nairaland has officially been taken over by GenZs.

Yeah! You better believe me.
The ideology behind the comments on this post suggest very high level of naivety and lack of experience.
But you boys and girls shouldn't worry.
Just come back here 10years later and try to comprehend the absurdity of your comments.
Especially the young deluded self righteous acting boys who out of lack of capacity (money), condemn men who have extramarital affairs.

It's a phase young man. You are currently at the most financially vulnerable stage of your life where finances is very limited.
As you get older and acquire more wealth, then you would be in a better position to validate your stance on infidelity.

The reason why men cheat is NOT necessarily because they don't love their wives or they wish to abandon their families.
Men cheat because they can and they enjoy it. Simple!


As for the females, there's very little you can do to change the natural order of things.
Women are naturally attracted to power, money and men who command respect.
Unfortunately, this class of men do not belong to the bachelors club.
So go figure.

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Re: Why Are Some Single Ladies So Comfortable Dating Married Men? by LionTiger(m): 6:58am On Aug 10, 2023
Candidlady:
Why are married men so comfortable dating single ladies undecided
Stealing their freshness. And in many cases stealing their glory and leaving them empty.
Re: Why Are Some Single Ladies So Comfortable Dating Married Men? by luskysylver(m): 7:46am On Aug 10, 2023
why do some married men go after single ladies? This should be ur question.
Re: Why Are Some Single Ladies So Comfortable Dating Married Men? by Chi111(m): 9:20am On Aug 10, 2023
A typical Nigeria girl is a money monger, she can even befriend pig as far as money is involve/coming out. Lucky ones get million single guys while unlucky ones always meet with broke guys, then find solece in married men.

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