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Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:27pm On Aug 09, 2023
GO0DHardDick:
Dear women,
Some of you lack sense. A young man says let's have a date, let's meet in a public place, you responded you don't have transport, Send me money to come and meet you. Are you not ashamed of yourself? Any girl that tells you she doesn't have transport, do the needful and avoid her like plague.

Women, the way you package yourself that's how they will carry you. A young man asked for a date and wishes to send you transport fare, asked him for what? Tell him not to embarrass you that you can transport yourself! By this you're letting him know you're not cheap. Only Poor broke and cheap girls without worth and value asked men for transport fare

- so all women out there (that you are interested in) must have extra money to go around the city meeting guys that are interested IN HER?!
- so because you want to get to know someone, she must have transport money to meet you? aint you the one who wants to invite her? why dont you give her the money for bus fare, et voila?!
- life is about being REAL/HONEST and not pretend to be who you are not.... if a man decides he wants to meet you, then simply let him know that he should arrange for it himself as you are not buoyant to spend your hard earned cash on total strangers.

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Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by Nonexisting1: 5:31pm On Aug 09, 2023
Brother, you are wasting previous time flogging dead horses. As you were typing, some foolish vaginarians were also busy typing send me t-fare to simps. You really think they have shame? A gender that fuccked snake long before man knew what dick was meant for.

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Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by GoodRocks: 5:55pm On Aug 09, 2023
MrBrownJay1:


- so all women out there (that you are interested in) must have extra money to go around the city meeting guys that are interested IN HER?!
- so because you want to get to know someone, she must have transport money to meet you? aint you the one who wants to invite her? why dont you give her the money for bus fare, et voila?!
- life is about being REAL/HONEST and not pretend to be who you are not.... if a man decides he wants to meet you, then simply let him know that he should arrange for it himself as you are not buoyant to spend your hard earned cash on total strangers.


We ain't talking about Poor broke girls in this category. However a poor broke girl who cannot afford her own transport fare has no business entering a relationship let alone talking about marriage, because if she eventually does , she'll automatically become a parasite and a liability to the man.

Advice them to get a job and work not entering a relationship

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Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by ExudeLoveToAll: 6:09pm On Aug 09, 2023
Puss360:
Lols wahala for who dey find fu:ck.... You want to fu:ck you no get money...

Who initiated the meeting?? If it's the guy, then he has to send transport and it must cover to and fro...

You tell babe, make Una meet...
She no get transport...
You no send transport...
Babe no come... She rest back...


Instead of you to rest, you say lai lai, you come online dey rant....

If no be fu:ck you dey find, why body come dey pepper you...

And you talented321, what do you mean by "Normal" in Ur post grin grin


To call complete your bolded statement If it's the girl she has to send money for Tfare to him I guess? Critical to skills isn't common


Adults kids wishing to stay in the kids zone forever, continue.

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Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:12pm On Aug 09, 2023
GO0DHardDick:
We ain't talking about Poor broke girls in this category. However a poor broke girl who cannot afford her own transport fare has no business entering a relationship let alone talking about marriage, because if she eventually does , she'll automatically become a parasite and a liability to the man.

Advice them to get a job and work not entering a relationship

bro, many women out there...
- have a job and are saving their money for better things than to spend it on every single men that wants to get to know them.
- have an income but, after taking care of their responsibilities, they have no extra money to frivolously spend.
- can seek to enter a r/ship without having to spend a dime (same with men)
- understand the "mechanic" of dating.... YOU approached her, YOU wanna get to know her, YOU invited her for a date, but now you expect this woman to spend extra money FOR YOU?! here is a clue, why dont you go hang out close to where she resides so that you dont make plans on other people's finances?


BTW it seems you dont understand the mechanic of dating: YOU invite someone, therefore you choose where to meet and YOU pay for it. if you want the babe to go dutch then YOU tell her beforehands. et voila!
if the babe says she has no extra money for transport then you can either A) send her a Uber (not money) to pick her up B) ask her how much is the bus from her place to meetup place OR C) ignore/disregard the babe.

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Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by ExudeLoveToAll: 6:19pm On Aug 09, 2023
Zigzagman:
OP, save yourself the embarrassment and stop dating students.

If she's a student, where do you expect her to get money to come on the date? Not with the current cost of transportation

Just take a listen to this conversation on who pays on the first date and hear what they have to say


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IhvLmz8F7NM


Students on the dating pool are not only females, males are also included but the male students in most cases don't exude such trait. Meaning that it is not because they are students that's why they exhibit those traits, working class ladies also tend to exude that traits too.


In synopsis, it may be as a result of ideals inherently inculcated in the life of a child from infancy as well as the desire to summount the vicissitudes that has enveloped our territorial precinct.
Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by Chioma4eva(f): 6:22pm On Aug 09, 2023
Hmmm this is why it is important to always go for your class cos honestly wtf is all this.

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Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by Puss360(f): 7:18pm On Aug 09, 2023
ExudeLoveToAll:



To call complete your bolded statement If it's the girl she has to send money for Tfare to him I guess? Critical to skills isn't common


Adults kids wishing to stay in the kids zone forever, continue.
Y'all think you are doing gal a favour by dating her?
If I need a guy, and I tell him to come, if he says no tfair, I'll send him.. no big deal...
Not every reasoning is kids thinking

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Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by Puss360(f): 7:19pm On Aug 09, 2023
DonBenny77:

Is it always about Bleep. That's all y'all got to offe these days
If it's not about that, then why is he pained?

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Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by Sprinklepee: 8:41pm On Aug 09, 2023
Puss360:
Lols wahala for who dey find fu:ck.... You want to fu:ck you no get money...

Who initiated the meeting?? If it's the guy, then he has to send transport and it must cover to and fro...

You tell babe, make Una meet...
She no get transport...
You no send transport...
Babe no come... She rest back...
Instead of you to rest, you say lai lai, you come online dey rant....

If no be fu:ck you dey find, why body come dey pepper you...

And you talented321, what do you mean by "Normal" in Ur post grin grin
op you even read the post at all?
Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by GoodRocks: 8:55pm On Aug 09, 2023
MrBrownJay1:


bro, many women out there...
- have a job and are saving their money for better things than to spend it on every single men that wants to get to know them.
- have an income but, after taking care of their responsibilities, they have no extra money to frivolously spend.
- can seek to enter a r/ship without having to spend a dime (same with men)
- understand the "mechanic" of dating.... YOU approached her, YOU wanna get to know her, YOU invited her for a date, but now you expect this woman to spend extra money FOR YOU?! here is a clue, why dont you go hang out close to where she resides so that you dont make plans on other people's finances?


BTW it seems you dont understand the mechanic of dating: YOU invite someone, therefore you choose where to meet and YOU pay for it. if you want the babe to go dutch then YOU tell her beforehands. et voila!
if the babe says she has no extra money for transport then you can either A) send her a Uber (not money) to pick her up B) ask her how much is the bus from her place to meetup place OR C) ignore/disregard the babe.


So it's the guy that doesn't want to save his money? Ok the guy should be the one spending his money frivolously? So he doesn't have responsibilities?

Dude, if a girl cannot afford her own transport fare, let her forget about relationship let alone marriage. She should remain single in her father's house bro.

Any girl that asked for transport money is a useless girl - pastor Mrs okonkwo

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Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by GoodRocks: 8:58pm On Aug 09, 2023
Chioma4eva:
Hmmm this is why it is important to always go for your class cos honestly wtf is all this.

I drive my car to a date, I expect you to also drive your own car to the date too, not begging and telling the guy you don't have transport money. So what class are you talking about? poor broke girls are quick to use the phrase class knowing fully well they're so poor and broke

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Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by Chioma4eva(f): 9:17pm On Aug 09, 2023
GO0DHardDick:


I drive my car to a date, I expect you to also drive your own car to the date too, not begging and telling the guy you don't have transport money. So what class are you talking about? poor broke girls are quick to use the phrase class knowing fully well they're so poor and broke
We are saying the same thing! Go after car owner girls like yourself and stop going for broke ass girls that can't afford even Uber. Let the rich date/marry the Rich and poor date/marry the poor. Don't come everytime crying Nigerian girls this, Nigerian girls that when you know the solution already. It's sickening.

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Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by mayorofyentown(m): 9:22pm On Aug 09, 2023
talented321:
But u like and need the knack too''
What happened to my own my money?
What then do you risk for the relationship when u can't provide as little as 1k, 5h or 2h to visit me?
make una do marry abeg.
Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by Error401: 9:27pm On Aug 09, 2023
You are worthless if you have this ideology! How will a man respect you if you show how valueless you are? No one is ready to marry a liability if you cant shoulder a minor bill for so secure a future for your own self.

Puss360:
Lols wahala for who dey find fu:ck.... You want to fu:ck you no get money...

Who initiated the meeting?? If it's the guy, then he has to send transport and it must cover to and fro...

You tell babe, make Una meet...
She no get transport...
You no send transport...
Babe no come... She rest back...
Instead of you to rest, you say lai lai, you come online dey rant....

If no be fu:ck you dey find, why body come dey pepper you...

And you talented321, what do you mean by "Normal" in Ur post grin grin

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Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:33pm On Aug 09, 2023
GO0DHardDick:
So it's the guy that doesn't want to save his money? Ok the guy should be the one spending his money frivolously? So he doesn't have responsibilities?

Dude, if a girl cannot afford her own transport fare, let her forget about relationship let alone marriage. She should remain single in her father's house bro.

Any girl that asked for transport money is a useless girl - pastor Mrs okonkwo

bro, you cannot walk up to someone, try to get to know them and automatically expect that stranger to spend their own money to meet you (especially if they are not really interested in you). yes, some women may have the money and others may not....and thats ok. if you 1st wanna invite someone on a date them make sure you accommodate them and tell them exactly what you want from them etc.

so if you want her to pay for her own Tfare then tell her from the get go, and if she doesnt have/want to then so be it. no big deal!

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Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by Puss360(f): 10:17pm On Aug 09, 2023
Error401:
You are worthless if you have this ideology! How will a man respect you if you show how valueless you are? No one is ready to marry a liability if you cant shoulder a minor bill for so secure a future for your own self.

Sorry, but I never told you I was looking for a husband....
And besides, the endpoint of a woman's life isn't to "Finally" get married....
So why are you pained?...

By the way, you also are worthless

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Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by Error401: 10:49pm On Aug 09, 2023
Lol, you dont have to be married, you can choose to be one of the evening newspapers on here.

Puss360:

Sorry, but I never told you I was looking for a husband....
And besides, the endpoint of a woman's life isn't to "Finally" get married....
So why are you pained?...

By the way, you also are worthless
Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by Puss360(f): 11:04pm On Aug 09, 2023
Error401:
Lol, you dont have to be married, you can choose to be one of the evening newspapers on here.

If at this age, you still believe that life will be better after getting married, then you have a long way to go....
Current President of Taiwan, is a Spinster, and according to you, "an evening newspaper"...
But I'm very sure, she's better than you "a morning fresh newspaper"...

Stop being delusional... Not everybody is ready to carry the baggage of family responsibility...
Goodnight..

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Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by GoodRocks: 6:11am On Aug 10, 2023
Chioma4eva:
We are saying the same thing! Go after car owner girls like yourself and stop going for broke ass girls that can't afford even Uber. Let the rich date/marry the Rich and poor date/marry the poor. Don't come everytime crying Nigerian girls this, Nigerian girls that when you know the solution already. It's sickening.


Sadly we all know a poor broke ass Nigerian girl wishes and dreams to marry a rich man, whereby classifying a poor broke guy who's obviously in the same category as her as not her type and class. Isn't that stupidity?

Direct your message to your gender, those poor ass broke girls should stick to their kinds, not longing for a rich man Which they know it's impossible!

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Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by GoodRocks: 6:17am On Aug 10, 2023
MrBrownJay1:


bro, you cannot walk up to someone, try to get to know them and automatically expect that stranger to spend their own money to meet you (especially if they are not really interested in you). yes, some women may have the money and others may not....and thats ok. if you 1st wanna invite someone on a date them make sure you accommodate them and tell them exactly what you want from them etc.

so if you want her to pay for her own Tfare then tell her from the get go, and if she doesnt have/want to then so be it. no big deal!

Ok, so it is the guy that should spend his own money on the stranger? Dude I can bet my balls that girls must have eaten your money very well before. You don't need to tell a girl to pay her own transport fare. Common sense should tell her this.

Dude, it's a date for god's sake not an avenue for her to manipulate the guy and try to play smart. Haven't you seen situations where a (SIMP) guy sends a girl money for transport fare and the girl ended up blocking the guy thinking she's smart or has cashed out?

Omo bro, no need for the long write up, a Poor broke girl who cannot afford her own transport fare has NO business entering a relationship at all, let alone talking about marriage

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Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by Sammy101111(m): 6:20am On Aug 10, 2023
A broke girl is a devil casket .she will manipulate anyone to move ahead to survive instead of working . Because all I know is that woman way never see food chop no fit for relationship.So when you know this ladies Sapa Level you move on time before she decay you the man with Sapa

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Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by GoodRocks: 6:23am On Aug 10, 2023
Sammy101111:
A broke girl is a devil casket .she will manipulate anyone to move ahead to survive instead of working . Because all I know is that woman way never see food chop no fit for relationship.So when you know this ladies Sapa Level you move on time before she decay you the man with Sapa

Aswear Comrade, Exactly my point!

A poor broke girl has no business being in a relationship let alone talking about marriage. If not, the guy go see shege pro Max because the werey go use billings kee the man.
Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by SmartODINO: 7:11am On Aug 10, 2023
Puss360:
Lols wahala for who dey find fu:ck.... You want to fu:ck you no get money...

Who initiated the meeting?? If it's the guy, then he has to send transport and it must cover to and fro...

You tell babe, make Una meet...
She no get transport...
You no send transport...
Babe no come... She rest back...

Instead of you to rest, you say lai lai, you come online dey rant....


It's not always about f**k. Sometimes, one's seeking for a companion.
How much be olosho self !!

If no be fu:ck you dey find, why body come dey pepper you...

And you talented321, what do you mean by "Normal" in Ur post grin grin
Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by Originalsly: 7:53am On Aug 10, 2023
Girls are diplomatic. Did the friendship meet the level where you can ask her out for a date? If yes ... then you should know she will need transport fare. If no ... then she thinks you are very stupid to ask her out and she'll try to make you pay for being stupid. These are the girls that ask for tfare... and will only show up if it's to dinner ... may likely bring along a friend ... and order the most expensive dishes and wines.

Some guys get their ego bruised when babes do this .... and instead of simply moving on .... would jump on SM and be bitching. This transgender thing is no joke.... guys transgendering and don't even know.

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Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by kakaaa77: 8:01am On Aug 10, 2023
that is some serious advice you just drop' but the wig in their head will not let it pass through
Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by diogo23: 8:05am On Aug 10, 2023
Xenry:
The man's duty is to protect and provide. If he decides to send her the transport money, why should that be a problem? After all, he was the one that asked for a date.
See them here shameless people

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Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by LarryCork: 8:17am On Aug 10, 2023
GO0DHardDick:
Dear women,

Some of you lack sense. A young man says let's have a date, let's meet in a public place, you responded you don't have transport, Send me money to come and meet you. Are you not ashamed of yourself? Any girl that tells you she doesn't have transport, do the needful and avoid her like plague.

Women, the way you package yourself that's how they will carry you. A young man asked for a date and wishes to send you transport fare, asked him for what? Tell him not to embarrass you that you can transport yourself! By this you're letting him know you're not cheap. Only Poor broke and cheap girls without worth and value asked men for transport fare

brother are u sayin yor sister lak commmon sensse coz she nigerian?....is she lightskin sir? (no oofeinse) angry
Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by motionarena: 8:21am On Aug 10, 2023
GO0DHardDick:
Dear women,

Some of you lack sense. A young man says let's have a date, let's meet in a public place, you responded you don't have transport, Send me money to come and meet you. Are you not ashamed of yourself? Any girl that tells you she doesn't have transport, do the needful and avoid her like plague.

Women, the way you package yourself that's how they will carry you. A young man asked for a date and wishes to send you transport fare, asked him for what? Tell him not to embarrass you that you can transport yourself! By this you're letting him know you're not cheap. Only Poor broke and cheap girls without worth and value asked men for transport fare

Mumu.
When u will be dating student, where do u want money to come from.

If you cannot carry financial burden leave dem for guys who can.

You will come online to start crying.
Find a decent working class girl to share bills with.

When I date girls in school I know what am going into.

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Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by GoodRocks: 8:25am On Aug 10, 2023
LarryCork:


brother are u sayin yor sister lak commmon sensse coz she nigerian?....is she lightskin sir? (no oofeinse) angry

Dude, I'm not the cause of your frustration
Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by GoodRocks: 8:27am On Aug 10, 2023
motionarena:


Mumu.
When u will be dating student, where do u want money to come from.

You will come online to start crying.
Find a working class girl to share bills with.

When I date girls in school I know what am going into.


Perhaps you misread the post!

Read the post carefully, this time around read it slowly for proper understanding. Na working class girls dey bills pass. Those ones will rather diè than to spend their own money. So WTF are you saying?

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Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by GoodRocks: 8:28am On Aug 10, 2023
diogo23:

See them here shameless people

Comrade you'll know a SIMP when you see them. Their comments is something else.

He is a SIMP and should be ignored

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