Rubyjade:
Apart from wasting one's time if it falls apart, the unsatisfied tensions and all, not to talk of the risk of traveling to visit the person. God forbid one dies via accident on their way to visit what will you tell your maker?

When you are so sexually frustrated who will be there to deliver you? D love at the other side of the phone? Mtcheeeew.

P.S, If you've known your partner before distance came in between fine and Good. That works atleast you know him or her.

But social media distance relationships are Scams(might work 4 few). Not to talk of so many psychos on the lose waiting for an unsuspecting victim.
So reason it well before you enter a time wasting venture in d guise of a distance relationship.

saphiere:
Nigerian men have turned relationship to sex-satisfying scheme.
They go into relationship with the intend to have sex.
The most annoying part is the rape part.

saphiere:
Nigerian men have turned relationship to sex-satisfying scheme.
They go into relationship with the intend to have sex.
The most annoying part is the rape part.

Johnnyposh:
This is very true man,I’m just 26 years now,I regret starting the relationship cos I later impregnated her and I married her cos of the love I have for her,but I forgot that I’m not emotionally and financially ready and now with us having our daughter that will turn to 2 years Old in November,I can’t cater for them well and I’m very guilty,man you don’t know how I do cry every night cos I can’t take care of my family well,I regret it so bad.

ifeachoonyeka6:
You nailed it,I am a victim, after dating for six years, married for five years,A pastor still collect my wife after all and resources to make it work.

Obaaderemi2:
This is one of the most sensible opinions ever on nairaland. This thread can save thousands of lives if studied and followed.

You are in a relationship where your partner cheats or shames you without remorse and you are still holding on thinking they would change or that time will heal you, you are playing with your mental and physical health.
That relationship can send you to hell if there's actually something like hell. Even if they don't cheat again it's not because of you. It's because of the last person they cheated with. They're satisfied with the either the physical or emotional content. Or with both and they're laughing at you behind your back.

It's more complicated if it happens after marriage and children are involved. But still, think about yourself!

saphiere:
Nigerian men have turned relationship to sex-satisfying scheme.
They go into relationship with the intend to have sex.
The most annoying part is the rape part.

Dshocker:


Apparently relationship counsellors are the people that has the worst form of relationship 🤣🤣🤣

Who hears you out now, might think your relationship is smooth sailing 🤣🤣🤣

BoldBrainz:
A thread created on August 11th is just hitting the front page and the comments are still on the first page. Evidence to show that the entire content is useless.

Johnnyposh:
This is very true man,I’m just 26 years now,I regret starting the relationship cos I later impregnated her and I married her cos of the love I have for her,but I forgot that I’m not emotionally and financially ready and now with us having our daughter that will turn to 2 years Old in November,I can’t cater for them well and I’m very guilty,man you don’t know how I do cry every night cos I can’t take care of my family well,I regret it so bad.

saphiere:
Nigerian men have turned relationship to sex-satisfying scheme.
They go into relationship with the intend to have sex.
The most annoying part is the rape part.

Isony:
[color=#990000][/color]my own case, I impregnated and married her, have 2yr beautiful daughter and another pregnancy now, have a good job and living fine but I don't feel like I love her.

BabaIbo:
Relationship is not mathematics to be honest, no be wetin you fit just calculate on but still you need to be smart and wise not to fall into the wrong hands.

The lady I'm dating came at an unexpected time, she came at a time I was trying to start something with another lady.
She has made me realize that most often people search for love or relationship the wrong way.

Thank God for life!

Tajbol4splend:
Many believe they can't live a meaningful life without a romantic partner, therefore falling into the wrong hands out of desperation

BoldBrainz:
A thread created on August 11th is just hitting the front page and the comments are still on the first page. Evidence to show that the entire content is useless.