Taylor90:
Women do it too

Men should reciprocate

Zee0007:
Let them give him a job with a handsome pay check. If he rejects it, then we can conclude that he needs to be flogged.

Nice2023:
I have written about this behavior here on two occasions and I am not in any way surprised at the menace currently being practised by these lazy men.

There is always a way to live in this country,during ur 20's,work like ur life depends on it. Save and invest so that,when u start having families,u can be able to sort ur family out.

Another thing that is killing most families these days is how some men like marring liabilities as wives and feel great about it.

How can u make it when ur salary is 100k and ur wife isn't doing anything for a living,not even WAEC certificate and u come here to tell us that,the govt is not helping matters even when u have refused to help urself.

Joblessness could increase the number of lazy men out there,keep consoling them but there is no food for lazy men.

Nice2023:
I have written about this behavior here on two occasions and I am not in any way surprised at the menace currently being practised by these lazy men.

There is always a way to live in this country,during ur 20's,work like ur life depends on it. Save and invest so that,when u start having families,u can be able to sort ur family out.

Another thing that is killing most families these days is how some men like marring liabilities as wives and feel great about it.

How can u make it when ur salary is 100k and ur wife isn't doing anything for a living,not even WAEC certificate and u come here to tell us that,the govt is not helping matters even when u have refused to help urself.

Joblessness could increase the number of lazy men out there,keep consoling them but there is no food for lazy men.

Darlingme:
Exactly.
And it's unfortunate, when some lazy men are previllage to marry a hard working woman, they turn the whole responsibilities on her.

Wodu89:
His spirit is dead inside. He needs motivation. I've met several people in this situation during my counselling sessions. The work of men is extremely hard, and it goes deeply beyond hardworking or being lazy. It goes deeper than the soul into the spirit.

What I can advice the woman is to take what he needs to him to revive his spirit.

In such a case, preachings that can revive his spirit and soul. She should be playing very good scripture based teachings at home to revive his spirit.

He's dead internally and revival can't take place if there's nothing to bring him back to life.


Ezekiel 37:13-15



If he listens to good preachings at home for sic months, he'll find his lost zeal.

Nice2023:



Let me give u am example.
There was a time my younger brothers friend followed and he was to drop at a junction before mine.

In the course of our discussion,he told me he was planning to marry,and me being me,I advised him never to marry a woman that is not doing anything at all because the guy works in place thatbis great and has future.
I wasn't surprised he told my brother everything which he too advised him further never to try it.

Do u know this guy married a liability,I mean a non contributing wife,his income has depleted badly that,he now beg and live basically on loan,just immediately his wife gave birth.

If u go to his house,he would be begging u for money because he got it all wrong. There were girl in his level and those above his level In the office but left there and got hooked with liability...now his father that depend him can no longer get anything from him anymore.

What a life.

Darlingme:
Sad. People failed to understand that when hunger begins to strick the home, love and affection from both couple will depreciate.

Nice2023:



That is why I keep telling intending couples,that love alone is not enough.

For any marriage to work...both the man and woman must play a vital part.

Darlingme:
Honestly things are really getting crazy with the nature of story that spring forth everyday. I was in counseling session with a woman days ago and I lack what to adviced.

What can you advise in a situation where the husband refused to go out to get a job nor engage in any form of business or do anything to provide for his home? He always complain and turn down any job suggestion from his wife, thereby watching her do all the struggles all alone?
He stays back at home and wait for what his wife's beings?
What kind of situation is this?
Are they men out there who really practice this kind of lifestyle?
What would you advise such a wife?
Is this enough reason for a woman to cheat?

Darlingme:
Honestly things are really getting crazy with the nature of story that spring forth everyday. I was in counseling session with a woman days ago and I lack what to adviced.

What can you advise in a situation where the husband refused to go out to get a job nor engage in any form of business or do anything to provide for his home? He always complain and turn down any job suggestion from his wife, thereby watching her do all the struggles all alone?
He stays back at home and wait for what his wife's beings?
What kind of situation is this?
Are they men out there who really practice this kind of lifestyle?
What would you advise such a wife?
Is this enough reason for a woman to cheat?

Darlingme:
Pls, it's a serious issue here. Men are wired to be in charge. That's how God made it. When you reverse it, it's against God's original plan and it doesn't always go well.

Darlingme:
Honestly things are really getting crazy with the nature of story that spring forth everyday. I was in counseling session with a woman days ago and I lack what to adviced.

What can you advise in a situation where the husband refused to go out to get a job nor engage in any form of business or do anything to provide for his home? He always complain and turn down any job suggestion from his wife, thereby watching her do all the struggles all alone?
He stays back at home and wait for what his wife's beings?
What kind of situation is this?
Are they men out there who really practice this kind of lifestyle?
What would you advise such a wife?
Is this enough reason for a woman to cheat?

Taylor90:
Women do it too

Men should reciprocate

Darlingme:
Pls, it's a serious issue here. Men are wired to be in charge. That's how God made it. When you reverse it, it's against God's original plan and it doesn't always go well.