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Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by Myrepublic(m): 1:22pm On Aug 22, 2023
Zigzagman:


so all men should marry poorer women?
Na personality sha.. I know of a family,that the woman was already a C.E.O before she met her man.. Infact she met the man ,when he went to do I.T in her company.. Na so the woman toast am.. You need to come and see how the woman respect him till date.. I have never seen couple loving each other like these two,in this our present day society. Some women get better heart o,while some na idiots too..

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Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by Houseofglam7(f): 1:22pm On Aug 22, 2023
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Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by restlessfingers: 1:22pm On Aug 22, 2023
It's important to avoid making sweeping generalizations, as relationship issues can affect individuals regardless of their career status. However, some theories suggest that the demands of high-status careers can sometimes lead to challenges in maintaining work-life balance, communication, and shared responsibilities in a marriage. Every relationship is unique, so it's essential to consider various factors before drawing conclusions.

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Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by Dexy4yah(m): 1:25pm On Aug 22, 2023
One thing you should know is that.... you can't control a woman that is richer than you.


And the worst mistake any man can do is to marry a woman that controls you.... your own is finish

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Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by Angelfrost(m): 1:27pm On Aug 22, 2023
sylve11:
Well, that question is not for me. I am in no competition with no one.

If my partner like make she become president of Nigeria, it won't do any issues on me.

I go even happy for her sef. undecided cool

As in... Less stress on my mental and financial health.
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by ednut1(m): 1:30pm On Aug 22, 2023
Once someone is successful whether man or woman the behaviour is the same. What a dependent broke woman will tolerate. A woman with mean will not.

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Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by sportivation(m): 1:35pm On Aug 22, 2023
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Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by 4ormidable(m): 1:36pm On Aug 22, 2023
"No one can talk about true love if they have no idea what it's like to share life with a woman."

You should have peace in your hearts from one another.

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Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by israelmao(m): 1:36pm On Aug 22, 2023
It is all hinge on maturity,understanding and above all fear of God.A woman who lacks these even if she is not high career woman will frustrate you as a man,

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Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by Benwallt(m): 1:36pm On Aug 22, 2023
Who are you asking? Your post should come with the names of ppl you are asking.
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by Hassanmaye(m): 1:38pm On Aug 22, 2023
talented321:
When starting mariage don't start with a woman who is richer than you''
Why?
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by talented321: 1:41pm On Aug 22, 2023
When going into marriage don't start with a woman who is far richer than you EXCEPT you are also rich or doing well and not a simp''
Hassanmaye:

Why?
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by Fortune118005(m): 1:49pm On Aug 22, 2023
ideamonster:
The potential threat the career of a woman can cause to her marriage especially if her husband isn’t as successful as she is has always been a point of discussion. Moreover, some single men are even afraid to marry a woman who is successful in their chosen career than them. Some believe that the norm is husbands “should” hold higher job status relative to their wives. When this norm is violated, and wives hold the higher status job, negative consequences can follow: Women are more likely to be targets of husbands’ aggression, and the risk for divorce increases.

Question
is it a crime for a woman to succeed in her chosen field or earn more?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eUrng-mfZpQ
It is not a bad thing for a woman to be successful in her career than her husband, but will the woman be submissive and humble to the man? Will the woman respect, love and be loyal to rhe man? That is the important aspect that men consider!
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by Kobojunkie: 1:50pm On Aug 22, 2023
erai30:
If a woman truly loves you her money will be yours in the marriage, just make her happy and comfortable with you.
Stop that foolishness! If you wish for your partner to share in financial aspects of relationship, make that known upfront. How can her hard-earned money be yours when she is not your slave? undecided

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Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by Hassanmaye(m): 1:56pm On Aug 22, 2023
Persephone1:
The problem isn't always with the women but the men. grin
Will you shut...
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by AntiTerrorist: 1:56pm On Aug 22, 2023
Exceed15:
I do not have issue with my wife richer than me. We are not in a competition. What I have problem with is when she's trying to be the man in the marriage.
It not about you but about women but there are exception though. When a woman has money, she would attempt to assume the head of the house. If she has more money, she will think she needs no man.

How many rich and famous women are married?

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Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by Hassanmaye(m): 1:58pm On Aug 22, 2023
talented321:
When going into marriage don't start with a woman who is far richer than you EXCEPT you are also rich or doing well and not a simp''
Right now I want to marry from a rich family but my salary is just 70k, Omo I don't want to Miss this opportunity. I just want to know the problem, is it ego? See finish or what
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by Kobojunkie: 1:59pm On Aug 22, 2023
AntiTerrorist:
■ It not about you but about women but there are exception though. When a woman has money, she would attempt to assume the head of the house. If she has more money, she will think she needs no man.
■How many rich and famous women are married?
1. Isn't the reason the man attempts the same title the fact that he too has money and his woman supposedly doesn't. What is wrong with the woman attempting the very same when she too has money?. undecided

2. You mean in the world you live in, women who have money don't get married? undecided
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by EconomistXplain: 2:00pm On Aug 22, 2023
pansophist:
When it comes to romantic relationships, always go with biological reality, instead of social reality.

Biological reality would be a man marrying a woman he can take care of, is taller than and younger than her, a woman that will appreciate the experience he can give her, etc.

If you are a vulcanizer man shooting for a wealthy female banker, then you're conforming to social reality, and it hardly works.

For example, if you have 5k naira and want to feed for the whole day, it's foolish to go and eat in KFC. Buying something to cook or a roadside buka will give you more value for your money.

Let the richer women be with men that are richer than them, and you should be with a woman that in her reality, you're a catch. It's the law of relativity.

No de do pass yourself.

very true....women marry only class and not the man
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by EconomistXplain: 2:01pm On Aug 22, 2023
Hassanmaye:

Right now I want to marry from a rich family but my salary is just 70k, Omo I don't want to Miss this opportunity. I just want to know the problem, is it ego? See finish or what


sh will only want u i sh is old...women marry class and not the man
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by Karleb(m): 2:06pm On Aug 22, 2023
I remember when one agba one Twitter asked if women wanted to be richer than their husbands, majority said no. They prefer to their husband to be richer.
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by Styluss: 2:06pm On Aug 22, 2023
I just lost one, its very difficult dating one of them. She was sweet but the relationship was tiring because we hardly see and it felt like I am the only one who wnats it

ideamonster:
The potential threat the career of a woman can cause to her marriage especially if her husband isn’t as successful as she is has always been a point of discussion. Moreover, some single men are even afraid to marry a woman who is successful in their chosen career than them. Some believe that the norm is husbands “should” hold higher job status relative to their wives. When this norm is violated, and wives hold the higher status job, negative consequences can follow: Women are more likely to be targets of husbands’ aggression, and the risk for divorce increases.

Question
is it a crime for a woman to succeed in her chosen field or earn more?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eUrng-mfZpQ
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by stanisbaratheon: 2:11pm On Aug 22, 2023
Why should it be a crime for a woman to succeed in her chosen field or earn more than her husband. ? I don't understand.

If my wife earns more then it's fine. Or would anyone prefer their wife to be paid less than what she's worth? I don't get it.

For me it's not a problem.
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by bonnyhope: 2:12pm On Aug 22, 2023
pansophist:
When it comes to romantic relationships, always go with biological reality, instead of social reality.

Biological reality would be a man marrying a woman he can take care of, is taller than and younger than her, a woman that will appreciate the experience he can give her, etc.

If you are a vulcanizer man shooting for a wealthy female banker, then you're conforming to social reality, and it hardly works.

For example, if you have 5k naira and want to feed for the whole day, it's foolish to go and eat in KFC. Buying something to cook or a roadside buka will give you more value for your money.

Let the richer women be with men that are richer than them, and you should be with a woman that in her reality, you're a catch. It's the law of relativity.

No de do pass yourself.

On point
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by Kobojunkie: 2:12pm On Aug 22, 2023
Styluss:
I just lost one, its very difficult dating one of them. She was sweet but the relationship was tiring because we hardly see and it felt like I am the only one who wnats it
Probably because it was exactly that, you wanting the relationship more than she did. How is she to blame for that? undecided
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by sharpwriter(m): 2:12pm On Aug 22, 2023
Myrepublic:
Na personality sha.. I know of a family,that the woman was already a C.E.O before she met her man.. Infact she met the man ,when he went to do I.T in her company.. Na so the woman toast am.. You need to come and see how the woman respect him till date.. I have never seen couple loving each other like these two,in this our present day society. Some women get better heart o,while some na idiots too..
You are right about some ... but this CEO of yours maybe don see shege for men hand for past, and she dey look for husband desperately and had also been advised to be humble. And then this man she married also shows that he is a good man coz if na some, dem go don manipulate how to take all her properties and render her useless pretending to love her. Life sometimes no suppose hard.

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Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by Styluss: 2:14pm On Aug 22, 2023
lol, Mostly my fault. She is richer, I am busier

Kobojunkie:
Probably because it was exactly that, you wanting the relationship more than she did. How is she to blame for that? undecided
Re: Why Do High-status Career Women Seem To Have Problems With Their Marriage? by Kobojunkie: 2:19pm On Aug 22, 2023
Styluss:
lol, Mostly my fault. She is richer, I am busier
I thought you said she was the one who didn't really have time for the relationship as much as you had? Or was it more that your schedules didn't align well? undecided

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