I was casually having a convo with my babe, and she brought up this issue of some dude renting a shop for his girl, another dude buying iphone for his girl in their dating/courting stage. I'm not against all these. But I outrightly told her im not forking out 600k for any reason to someone I'm "dating" (even if I have the money), that i can only give what i can feel comfortable parting with, whether I see a future with them or not because of my experience with women and what I've heard in respect of this issue. She said its poor mans mentality. Am i being nostalgic, reckful, overreacting, or just poor?

You were too forward, even if you can’t do it you should have put it in a more subtle manner

The FTC on this thread shouldn't be taken serious....Cuz it's very obvious he has lost one bolt and nut each in his head

Op,na man you be abeg.......No need to delay....... A man should be able to speak his mind anytime any day twice on every SIT-AT-HOME day......

These bannies must be taught lessons...That the world doesn't revolve around their "PURRY"

We move!!!

6ixVille:
I was casually having a convo with my babe, and she brought up this issue of some dude renting a shop for his girl, another dude buying iphone for his girl in their dating/courting stage. I'm not against all these. But I outrightly told her im not forking out 600k for any reason to someone I'm "dating" (even if I have the money), that i can only give what i can feel comfortable parting with, whether I see a future with them or not because of my experience with women and what I've heard in respect of this issue. She said its poor mans mentality. Am i being nostalgic, reckful, overreacting, or just poor?

What happened to her brothers, why does she want to put such hefty sum of burden on you, use your head not your heart, girlfriend of today can be an ex of tomorrow, don't do something you will regret.

Even if you did such for her, if she breaks up with you, you can't escape the infamous saying " What have you done for me" it's one of this thing men can't avoid be wise.

6ixVille:
I was casually having a convo with my babe, and she brought up this issue of some dude renting a shop for his girl, another dude buying iphone for his girl in their dating/courting stage. I'm not against all these. But I outrightly told her im not forking out 600k for any reason to someone I'm "dating" (even if I have the money), that i can only give what i can feel comfortable parting with, whether I see a future with them or not because of my experience with women and what I've heard in respect of this issue. She said its poor mans mentality. Am i being nostalgic, reckful, overreacting, or just poor?

You're dwelling with a parasite and she's priming you up to feed on your finance.

You gave an unapologetic gbas gbos response.

6ixVille:
I was casually having a convo with my babe, and she brought up this issue of some dude renting a rightshop for his girl, another dude buying iphone for his girl in their dating/courting stage. I'm not against all these. But I outrightly told her im not forking out 600k for any reason to someone I'm "dating" (even if I have the money), that i can only give what i can feel comfortable parting with, whether I see a future with them or not because of my experience with women and what I've heard in respect of this issue. She said its poor mans mentality. Am i being nostalgic, reckful, overreacting, or just poor?

My brother you are right, set the record clear from the start before things fall apart later.
It's not your duty to become her father sake of courtship. Only give what you can afford to forget easily cos these ladies ain't loyal.
To avoid gimme back what I bought you

Too subtle?, she weren't too subtle when she was blabbering abt what others did for dia babe, werent too subtle when she said its poor man's mentality..but I should be subtle when its time to set things str8 loud and clear, right there and then? I hear u

Namdeenero:
You were too forward, even if you can’t do it you should have put it in a more subtle manner

The entitlement is crazy ds days

Sonnobax15:

The FTC on this thread shouldn't be taken serious....Cuz it's very obvious he has lost one bolt and nut each in his head

Op,na man you be abeg.......No need to delay....... A man should be able to speak his mind anytime any day twice on every SIT-AT-HOME day......

These bannies must be taught lessons...That the world doesn't revolve around their "PURRY"

6ixVille:
I was casually having a convo with my babe, and she brought up this issue of some dude renting a shop for his girl, another dude buying iphone for his girl in their dating/courting stage. I'm not against all these. But I outrightly told her im not forking out 600k for any reason to someone I'm "dating" (even if I have the money), that i can only give what i can feel comfortable parting with, whether I see a future with them or not because of my experience with women and what I've heard in respect of this issue. She said its poor mans mentality. Am i being nostalgic, reckful, overreacting, or just poor?

She is playing on your Ego as a Man...Be firm with your decision even if she lives your life,stick to it..

Go to the nearest busstop, in every 10 minutes you will count more than 20 girls prettier than that your babe...
No let woman do you this thing wey I dey think so..let her go and date those guys buying thier gfs iphones..

At bolded.. I asked her if one baba olowo ask for her hand in marriage..she say she no fit leave. I juss laff in my mind.

FManager:


What happened to her brothers, why does she want to put such hefty sum of burden on you, use your head not your heart, girlfriend of today can be an ex of tomorrow, don't do something you will regret.

please get another gf that one don leave u since

6ixVille:
I was casually having a convo with my babe, and she brought up this issue of some dude renting a shop for his girl, another dude buying iphone for his girl in their dating/courting stage. I'm not against all these. But I outrightly told her im not forking out 600k for any reason to someone I'm "dating" (even if I have the money), that i can only give what i can feel comfortable parting with, whether I see a future with them or not because of my experience with women and what I've heard in respect of this issue. She said its poor mans mentality. Am i being nostalgic, reckful, overreacting, or just poor?

Tell her i said she's a thief......
where do u pple meet all these type of women from seff??....
The effontry to demand for money they've never worked for in their life is just irritating.... as in ...on top of what??.... pvssy wey other men they enter........

Namdeenero:
You were too forward, even if you can’t do it you should have put it in a more subtle manner

...

Never tell a girl what you cannot do for her
..rather tell her what you can do for her.

For example;

- Tell her you can let her go if she wants to go.

- Tell her you can love her till eternity if her body count is below 2.

- Tell her she occupies major part of your heart cos she get weight.

- Tell her you can choose her over porridge beans if the beans comes with no bread.

Tell her to give you 600k

Broke niccaz cry too much...
Stop crying and find money..Abi no be your mates dey rent houses and buy cars for bannies....You know how much men dey throwaway on top runs girls for just a night without remose?!There are bigger problems in life my friend,tackle them and leave finnese for people wey get to waste.

SonofGod231:
Broke niccaz cry too much...
Stop crying and find money..Abi no be your mates dey rent houses and buy cars for bannies....You know how much men dey throwaway on top runs girls for just a night without remose?!There are bigger problems in life my friend,tackle them and leave finnese for people wey get to waste.

Please check for your brain well, something is really stopping it from analysing this situation, it's not everything you will put your baseless mouth.

6ixVille:
At bolded.. I asked her if one baba olowo ask for her hand in marriage..she say she no fit leave. I juss laff in my mind.

If she's insisting tell her to source 80% of the funds she requesting, if she can't do this let not disturb you further, if you know your worth and I believe your the bread winner, if she starts giving you attitude send her ass home and find another lady even if it's paid escort to pretend do so she will have sense by force.

FManager:


Please check for your brain well, something is really stopping it from analysing this situation, it's not everything you will put your baseless mouth.

Nothing mentioned there seems to stand out besides you being a shallow loser who spends most of your free time crying on Nairaland.

SonofGod231:

Nothing mentioned there seems to stand out besides you being a shallow loser who spends most of your free time crying on Nairaland.

Awww, sorry 😔 don't cry , it will alright

FManager:


Awww, sorry 😔 don't cry , it will alright

Fvckin mooron. Your life will not get better by just smiling and pretending it was. Go and get a life. Punk

6ixVille:
I was casually having a convo with my babe, and she brought up this issue of some dude renting a shop for his girl, another dude buying iphone for his girl in their dating/courting stage. I'm not against all these. But I outrightly told her im not forking out 600k for any reason to someone I'm "dating" (even if I have the money), that i can only give what i can feel comfortable parting with, whether I see a future with them or not because of my experience with women and what I've heard in respect of this issue. She said its poor mans mentality. Am i being nostalgic, reckful, overreacting, or just poor?

You did well with your response to her questions and statements

She wanted to know if you are a mugu or a wise man

Now that she has seen that you are a wise man, she will adjust her thinking anytime she wants to discuss with you

If she can cope fine and if she can't cope, she knows what to do

Namdeenero:
You were too forward, even if you can’t do it you should have put it in a more subtle manner

I love the way he heat it straight on the head

You must let people know what you are capable of so that they too can know your ability

The more you manage people or tolerate nonsense all in the way not to hurt people

You hurt yourself the more, yet they will still not be satisfied with you

6ixVille:
I was casually having a convo with my babe, and she brought up this issue of some dude renting a shop for his girl, another dude buying iphone for his girl in their dating/courting stage. I'm not against all these. But I outrightly told her im not forking out 600k for any reason to someone I'm "dating" (even if I have the money), that i can only give what i can feel comfortable parting with, whether I see a future with them or not because of my experience with women and what I've heard in respect of this issue. She said its poor mans mentality. Am i being nostalgic, reckful, overreacting, or just poor?

There’s nothing wrong with spending any amount of money on people you care about or want to help as long as you could afford it. Being able to afford it is an objective stance while feeling comfortable is subjective. A stingy persons comfort zone is very different to a generous person’s comfort zone.

Your girlfriend however is rude and manipulative and you should ask her how much she’s spent on her family and friends before she talks about what other men do for other women.

SonofGod231:
Broke niccaz cry too much...
Stop crying and find money..Abi no be your mates dey rent houses and buy cars for bannies....You know how much men dey throwaway on top runs girls for just a night without remose?!There are bigger problems in life my friend,tackle them and leave finnese for people wey get to waste.

Everyone must not go the herd mentality, some persons can actually fhiyfor themselves.

6ixVille:
I was casually having a convo with my babe, and she brought up this issue of some dude renting a shop for his girl, another dude buying iphone for his girl in their dating/courting stage. I'm not against all these. But I outrightly told her im not forking out 600k for any reason to someone I'm "dating" (even if I have the money), that i can only give what i can feel comfortable parting with, whether I see a future with them or not because of my experience with women and what I've heard in respect of this issue. She said its poor mans mentality. Am i being nostalgic, reckful, overreacting, or just poor?

You should have never even gone there. Just change the topic. That way, she will never know whether you’re capable or not.

Right now she already know you’re not capable and might start weighing her options to collect prick code fly to raise that money.

ExudeLoveToAll:


Everyone must not go the herd mentality, some persons can actually fhiyfor themselves.

Can you'll fvckoff.. Low status men have nothing better to do than maintain someone else's ego.

SonofGod231:
Broke niccaz cry too much...
Stop crying and find money..Abi no be your mates dey rent houses and buy cars for bannies....You know how much men dey throwaway on top runs girls for just a night without remose?!There are bigger problems in life my friend,tackle them and leave finnese for people wey get to waste.

Even if you're a simp, try to reason maturely in public, except you're a kid, you can continue rambling.

Wotoporiously speaking

You did nothing wrong in hitting the nail on the head my brother, ride on nothing do you.

SonofGod231:

Can you'll fvckoff.. Low status men have nothing better to do than maintain someone else's ego.

Continue going low, you can rub yourself in the mud that's your business. Gutter language is your identity, use the badge judiciously