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Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by Faposky95: 1:06pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
. .in addition, marriage was never for quitters, intelligent people... No, only stupid, patient people stay in a marriage till the end ......the 20+ years experienced know this 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by moderatorr: 1:07pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Its not boring, it is when you take your spouse to be an entertainment instead of a real human that they are. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by logicalhumour: 1:07pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Marriage is a waste of time and energy. Marriage will fail you in every single thing it promises you, including loneliness alleviation. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by BirtherOfKings(f): 1:07pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
lack of money and no relationship wit the Holy Spirit HE is perfect at keeping marraiage sweet and helping you overcome challenges You lose your job, instead of you to join watsapp group - https:///EXhnJQawnUZ6PuYlul8qIp so you can get another, u will carry the frustration on ur partner,..why wont it be boring?. |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by Zooposki(f): 1:09pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Truvelisback: You guys don’t marry based on true compatibility. For Nigerian men, they marry cos they feel she is wife material. For the women, they marry based on who has the most resources to take care of a family. 9 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by MrNipplesLover(m): 1:09pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
You people expect too much from this marriage of a thing... Even, dating sometimes gets boring, same as carrying olosho... But the energy comes back when your balls are restored with the bullets after a while... 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by farem: 1:09pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Truvelisback:Faulty foundations! 1.NACKING based 2. MONEY based a lot more. Once these become lacking, inadequate or lost, problems begin These two contribute more than 75% of the problems of modern day marriages 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by Angelfrost(m): 1:10pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
More often than not, it's the lack of space...! Not everyone can thrive in constant or daily contact with someone, no matter how much they love that person. In addition, a lot of people marry for the wrong reasons or without clearly defining what they need in matrimony... For instance, people who marry largely out of physical attraction and sexual needs will seriously get bored of their unions faster than those who marry for more deeper and varied reasons. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by valentineuwakwe(m): 1:10pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Because most married the wrong partners or someone that was recommended for them! 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by Franzinni: 1:10pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
It's a scam 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by Sammie147: 1:11pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Na money be koko I rest my case 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by ednut1(m): 1:11pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Marriage was never an amusement park na. It’s human nature to get bored over time 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by Blitzking: 1:13pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Truvelisback:Give yourself space or go on vacation to a foreign land..let your woman maintain her cleanliness..sexiness and the man his fitness and cleanliness. I have realised that women who play hard to get na them men dey quick tire for expecially when the men eyes open seeing say nothing really dey those women na packaging 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by darkmarky(m): 1:13pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
novia22:are you kind |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by Emmanuel30a: 1:13pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Truvelisback:Ask marriage/marriages, or asks from marriage and marriages...; you don't need to asks from THE ROCK of AGES,let alone hears or receives answers BY or FROM THE ROCK of AGES... Did you wants to asks from marriage or marriage & marriages agencies...?... |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by Farfalla(f): 1:13pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Truvelisback: What do you need love for when you've got logic? 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by Crafteck1: 1:13pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Were they meant to be interesting? You assume say na movie or na video game? 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by Allisgud: 1:14pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
I get tired with woman who doesn't know how to manage,who's mentality is bring it let's blow it,go and bring another one 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by darkmarky(m): 1:14pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
PrettyRX:so true. You smart. Lets get to know each other 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by Bostin(m): 1:14pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Truvelisback:That happens when you married for fantasy then reality set in afterwards. Don't marry for money, benefits , gains , romance , affection but marry for tangible reasons to work together and form a partnership . 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by vickydevoka(m): 1:15pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Truvelisback:Most men got attracted to a lady firstly, based on look secondly based on character. Along the line the woman real self start to reveal itself. Make will no longer be their, her character will start showing up. For the guys , If his finances reduces otilo and if he stops loving her or giving her attention 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by Yankee101: 1:15pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
While dating you were doing everything to please your partner Dates, movies, gifts, flowers, anniversaries, dressing well, smelling well, bathing regularly, grooming etc But you stop after marriage or reduce or stop being innovative 8 Likes |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by wizelink(m): 1:16pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
A good wife can't be boring. You will always be drawn to her even when you have the chance to misbehave. If you truly love her and she does same to you then neither of you will be boring to each other because love wins over everything. It's all depends on the purpose she was drawn to you that led to the marriage in the first place. Some men have one reason or other they want to marry their wives. What is yours? Take time and a find a good wife that will love you in your ups and downs and make sure you are also loveable too. The wife is also a human who desires a good man too. |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by rickleye: 1:16pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
You are two individuals who never grew up together, shared a womb , or household. To add to it - we are in a microwave era where nobody courts the other. 6months dating , let’s get married. Even sibling quarrel and they share the above. Talkless of 2 unique individuals who were brought up differently. Love will only take you so far . Marriage takes work . What I find is that people marry and expect things to work out ! Love doesn’t pay bills. Money does that . Money doesn’t raise kids - love does that. Compatibility - affection or love for most things will help sustain the relationship. If one loves Jazz and the other can’t stand it ! Or one loves to travel and the other loves a quiet life - things will not work out well. What I am saying is - marriage is work ! So when you leave your 9-5job, you have another work at home . The secret is if you love your job … you’ll never work a day in your life cause you both understand each other and it’s natural. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by stevups(m): 1:18pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Always travel from home for sometimes... Far away from your wife. Then come back after six months. The normalcy will be returned 8 Likes |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by Timetravel88: 1:21pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Sharing the same space with a woman over an extended period of time breeds contempt and disdain. This troubling anomaly is called “see finish” in local parlance. Little wonder our fathers from the old days had a separate hut “Obi” from the wives and each wife theirs to contain this pathogen tearing up marriages. By having different huts, the man maintains his dominance, dignity and respect while the woman upholds her privacy, exclusivity and emotional incongruity. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by omooba969(m): 1:23pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Here to read comments. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by lexy2014: 1:25pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Truvelisback: Which marriages? How many marriages are you in that you claim that marriages are getting boring after sometime? How were you relating with your wife before marriage? 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by lexy2014: 1:25pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Timetravel88: Is that your experience as a husband? |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by Unrated900(m): 1:26pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Even the situation in Nigeria this days would make relationships and marriages grows weary Fuel 600 Rice 43k Dollar 800 plus. All this are enough to make marriages and relationships crashed off. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Marriages Get Boring After Sometime? � by onadana: 1:28pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
TemplarLandry: No friendship. |
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