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Re: Japa: Impact On Friendships & Family by madjune(m): 10:51pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
yewit37486: You doubt what? UK is a sh.tty country in my opinion. I can't go there to live for whatever reason(s) |
Re: Japa: Impact On Friendships & Family by yewit37486: 11:25pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
madjune: Hahaha don't let UK people hear you o, lol. I said I doubt if there is any country where the price of groundnut oil and gas (petrol?) has remained almost constant in 20 years. |
Re: Japa: Impact On Friendships & Family by Pandar01: 11:38pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
yewit37486: The against is from a particular region, to a particular man you all call agbado, so what do you call that ? Una mumu too much I swear. You try to cover your foolishness,but it's like a smoke ...you people are too dumb ..tribal bigot calling someone tribal, You will get what you deserve , you people from that region need to leave the affairs of the zoo alone and focus on your Simon ekpas lordship..πππππ |
Re: Japa: Impact On Friendships & Family by madjune(m): 11:48pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
yewit37486: Agreed. I fairly exaggerated but the price of Canola oil has almost been the same. If there's any increase, maybe by few cents, which anyone can afford. |
Re: Japa: Impact On Friendships & Family by yewit37486: 12:02am On Aug 28, 2023 |
madjune: Okay, fair enough. |
Re: Japa: Impact On Friendships & Family by yewit37486: 12:03am On Aug 28, 2023 |
Pandar01: Smh. You clearly have some mental issues, carry on with your illness. 1 Like |
Re: Japa: Impact On Friendships & Family by Pandar01: 12:21am On Aug 28, 2023 |
yewit37486: Pain πππ |
Re: Japa: Impact On Friendships & Family by jimcaddy(m): 1:44am On Aug 28, 2023 |
You see this japaa syndrome is a disgrace to this country. And to think that we are doing nothing to stem the tide shows that nobody wants Nigeria to be better. I've said it, and I'll say it again, Nigerians are the main problem of this country. The government that we all blame is not a robot. It is filled up with Nigerians like me and you who are only concerned about themselves and their families. No one gives two flying fuuuuuckks about anyone in Nigeria. We are a very selfish, corrupt people. And we have refused to do the right thing to make this nation to work. Let everyone keep running away, no problem, since that's all we do, we run away from our problems. The abroad we are running to, do you think that they too don't have their own challenges? Or you think that by some stroke of magic, Nigeria will turn to Canada overnight. The whites we are running to their countries won't come and fix Nigeria for us. I've said it that if every Nigeria moves to Canada and every Canadian move to Nigeria in an exchange, give Nigeria one year. You will see that Canadians will make Nigerian to work, and the Nigerians in Canada will turn Canada back into Nigeria. The problem is not the country, but we the citizens. The say Nigerians decide to have a different mindset about life, that is the very day Nigeria will turn around. But until then, let us keep running away. No wahala. 3 Likes |
Re: Japa: Impact On Friendships & Family by bitingcool: 1:47am On Aug 28, 2023 |
FalseProphet1: @falseprophet1 the great π π π 1 Like |
Re: Japa: Impact On Friendships & Family by omonla10(m): 2:22am On Aug 28, 2023 |
YeyeGbami:I'm not in care but from what I know, most care workers can get to choose the kind of work u wanna do. Some don't eventually do care for one day(doings). Me for instance, it's 2.20am and I'm doing night job. I couldn't even go to nite club even if it was all expense paid cos I don't joke with my nights. Now I do nite 5 times a week. Ive accepted d reality but it's no big deal. U be unskilled labour here o. But u can become anything u want to be easily here and get to choose jobs in d nearest future. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Japa: Impact On Friendships & Family by Gerrard59(m): 4:55am On Aug 28, 2023 |
You read comments page by page from random posters, and one realises they have/had strong convictions for relocating. They have seen results and are glad with their decisions. On the other hand, there are demons like RaptorX, and his cretinous cohorts who spew lies up and down. Again, as Tensa20 and I have preached, no one has lost betting against Nigeria. I am yet to see it happen. |
Re: Japa: Impact On Friendships & Family by Cutehector(m): 6:56am On Aug 28, 2023 |
IbeOkehie:shussh it there.. Many people in nigeria are still doing better than thousands of people in america. We still have homeless people there too..abeg loss. 2 Likes |
Re: Japa: Impact On Friendships & Family by Atk1nson(m): 7:04am On Aug 28, 2023 |
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Re: Japa: Impact On Friendships & Family by IbeOkehie: 10:36am On Aug 28, 2023 |
Cutehector: That's very true. But on average, an unskilled person is more likely to live at a middle class standard in the USA. β¦β450K is not a good reason to forgo the possibilities of living in Anglo-Western countries. Ordinary β¦β450K Also homelessness in the USA is most likely to be caused by physical or mental illness, including drug abuse. Good Luck to Nigerians. |
Re: Japa: Impact On Friendships & Family by Cutehector(m): 11:30am On Aug 28, 2023 |
IbeOkehie:i get you bro. How about people who paid so much to get to u.k and it turned out that they were duped(fake jobs) You also need to factor that in too. I am not saying its bad to japa but travel with a purpose and also make sure the travel agents one is using are genuine agents who wont swindle. Those unskilled workers also have loans they are still paying back in nigeria due to the money they raised and borrowed. So it will take few years for them to even stabilize or begin to start sending money back home. |
Re: Japa: Impact On Friendships & Family by hayatou27: 3:26pm On Aug 28, 2023 |
Story of my life βΉοΈβΉοΈβΉοΈ |
Re: Japa: Impact On Friendships & Family by okewumi: 4:20am On Aug 29, 2023 |
Japa case is like someone they told to live holiness life so tbat he can make heaven but refused. If you say heaven does not exist and you die and discovered heaven exist, what will you do? It is late. You can not come to world and live holy life again to make heaven . But if you live holy life and at the end heaven doesn't exist, it is all well and good., you go to where others go. If you japa and abroad doesn't favour you, you come back and you will bounce back within some years in Nigeria because most are poor. But if you have the opportunity but failed to use it to Japa, your unborn children will abuse u. I have said it in parable |
Re: Japa: Impact On Friendships & Family by Treadway: 9:30am On Aug 30, 2023 |
IbeOkehie:olurotimi, this is the person I said you should link up with. He certainly can't airlift hundreds of people out of naija, but surely he appears capable enough to help just 1 person who has already put one foot through the door by securing a visit visa. I really hope this works out for you all. My work here is done.
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Re: Japa: Impact On Friendships & Family by Treadway: 12:27pm On Aug 30, 2023 |
okewumi:the bolded is so illogical, that it is head spinning. I think you should have just left it at the parable, cos this line further dents your argument deeply. 'Come back to Naija and bounce back within some years'?? Perhaps you don't know, but this basically means you are strengthening the point that it is easier to recover loss, bounce back, gain footing in Nigeria...and this hurts your argument! 'Bounce back within some years because most are poor'?? This is as incoherent as can be. What is the link between bouncing back and how it is because most are poor?! π You for just drop the parable waka, and those who will see the sense in it go still see am.....no need arguing/debating if it isn't your strong point. Cheers. |
Re: Japa: Impact On Friendships & Family by Meerahbel: 2:42pm On Sep 06, 2023 |
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Re: Japa: Impact On Friendships & Family by Rubyjade: 3:39pm On Sep 10, 2023 |
Na true na sammyonal: |
Re: Japa: Impact On Friendships & Family by Rubyjade: 3:40pm On Sep 10, 2023 |
Tire but you have to cut corners a lot to break even. sammyonal: |
Re: Japa: Impact On Friendships & Family by Obierika(m): 2:27pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
Basher8583: You dey mind am? 1 Like |
Re: Japa: Impact On Friendships & Family by ibechris(m): 5:23pm On Sep 11, 2023 |
FalseProphet1: I won't call what u wrote as trash but it is absolutely irritating to see graduates use words like "in the abroad" is either u say "abroad and stop adding "in the" to it. Now,go back read out what u wrote and how does it sound to ur ear? If it sounds good to u so be it but stop writing nonsense. |
Re: Japa: Impact On Friendships & Family by Nicols(m): 5:35pm On Feb 02 |
Pandar01: Awww, such a poor little boy. Pele dear ....I can feel your pain. Guys how do I explain to this miscreant that I am not the cause of his hunger and frustration? |
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