mariahAngel:


Your mum hung up on you? Hahaha
Then, you have to find a way to put an end to the problem.

I mean like..she ended the call.

Ikemoore08:
I mean like..she ended the call.

Okay.
Whenever your wife starts her abuse, make yourself unavailable.

mariahAngel:


Omg! She even hits you. 😲



Would you type these if it were the other way around?
I saw how you avoided where he stated his so-called wife hits him.

She's clearly on the wrong track and I'm not supporting her
She needs help and not condemnation
Where she's always remorseful, apologizing and refusing to leave her husband is where I based my judgement
There's a battle she needs to overcome so she can have a blissful marriage
As you can see the husband is not strong on his words as well which is why he keeps forgiving her
He also acknowledged that he's a good woman
So from all I could deduce, I think there's more reason why they should still stick together than the other way round
If it was a relationship I know what to type

Ikemoore08:

Yes honestly we both sincerely needs a kid, infact we need it like no tomorrow..I'm 28 nd she's 25.
She always wishe we have kids... but we are trying our best as we hope on God.. we are medically OK..
Her sister told me she will outgrown it,she's always apologise. Even as I'm trying this ,she has sent another apology to my WhatsApp but the fear of repeating it again is my concern...
I can tell ,we love each other somuch..that people even mistaken us as brother and sis..you hardly known we are husband and wife, because there's this resemblance in our face and skine colour..
Honestly we love each other so much, I just pray age stop all this name calling..it's really affecting my mental and emotional health.

Mariahangel read this and maybe you would understand why she's emotionally unstable

IconicR:
Mariahangel read this and maybe you would understand why she's emotionally unstable

If it's about looking for a child, I don't think they've been married long enough to have cause to worry that much.
Anyways, I pray they resolve their issues sha.

For how long have u been giving her that chance?
How can u call some body who almost insult you everyday good?
She said she is ashame of u.. Does it mean u are not responsibe or what?. From this statement there are other things you are not telling us. How can a woman insult u everyday and u can't do anything about it.
Or does she has anger issue and u didn't spot the red flag or she just develop the character of recent.
Well it is high time u tell ur wife you are the man of the house, you don't have exchange word with her or beat her but you can make it known to her that she has cross her boundaries and u will not take it likely with her.
My man their is problem from you that you are not telling us or maybe u just decide to be a simp..
Try and take the lead in ur family both financially and in all aspect..

Ikemoore08:

Advice me

Money change so many people both male and female.. For she to say' she is ashame of him means money might be involved or he is irresponsibe..

mariahAngel:


Mute issues, as in, you'd rather stay silent when she's insulting you or what?

How can not "seeing enough money" be her reason to insult you? It does not make any sense.

Ikemoore08:
My wife insult me @any sight of provocation.

Please I need advice.
My wife is usually the first to insult and call me all sorts of name when we gave issues. I have complained severally to her mum and dad about this and she has promised to stop. Funny enough, she usually come back to apologise after like 2 or 3 days later.
The last issues we had, she said I'm such a shameless man and that she has lost all the respect she has for me.
She a good girl anyways, but this attitude of always been the first to insult and call me name's even when I may just be mute because that's just my best way of expressing my anger.
She's currently begging for forgiveness but I have made up my mind to return her to parents tomorrow for them to give her some advice.. nd if she must come back to my house, she must promised never to insult me again else, the marriage will be over and we go our separate ways..
Advice me🙏

baba start to dey woo your wife. I beg o!. When last you buy suya or slippers no be nacking alone. For secondary school you no dey toast. When she is angry, start to they do house chore she go know say. You done they prepare for singlehood. Please reduce complaining.

Very soon she go begin they insult you for public or disrespect you in front of your friends and family.

And when una don get children na then your life go tumble.. she likely fit slap you in front of your kids and neighbors out of anger and nothing go happen.

There is a old Japanese saying that goes “you cannot take back the stroke of the sword nor can you take back the word of mouth”


One day you will unleash all this passive aggression on her and on that day the whole world will call you a woman beater or an abusive man.


And from your story you claim that your business hasn’t been going well so you usually borrow from here.

Make I tell you today, listen carefully

Women are not biological designed to be providers. Don’t get me wrong they will provide for their kids and occasionally for their man but when you turn her to branch then she self go money branch.

50/50 equality no day amongst genders.

Best you send her back to her parent and tell them that you’re begin to consider divorce to save your mental health.

If everybody see say you serious and you’ve had enough then they will begin to amend their ways but first let her go chill for her parent house for two weeks.

You self use that opportunity to build your business.

GanagiBitrus:
Most women become insulting when there is an underlying issue or stressor - lack of money, no kids, infidelity, unfulfilled career...

.Well summarised.Thank God I only like my wife nothing like love.If she decide to go that her business she married herself out of desperation.