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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by okerekingsley90: 10:31am On Sep 09, 2023 |
Astar007: Bad guy . 2 Likes |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by tosinjay(m): 10:32am On Sep 09, 2023 |
I like your spirit jare, this Tinubu news no even help matter sef |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Love800(m): 10:33am On Sep 09, 2023 |
I dont know whether u were the last person i quoted on dis sweden issue b4. But anyways i want to just ask dis. What travelling visa or route can i use to enta sweden What kind of jobs are there? Am planning becoming a teacher once i get there. Pls whats ur take on dis. Astar007: |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by iammolise(m): 10:34am On Sep 09, 2023 |
Maybe the vivid imagination you long for is the very reason for your depression, the only way out of depression is for one to accept reality and take things in one's stride always, you can still see those TikTok jakpa videos and not get depressed, just get rid of the impression it makes on you and watch like the everyday skit videos we watch. Lastly my broda you're not the only one, we are all in this rut together, we gather dey, don't carry the weight of nigeria in your head, it's not healthy. In Addition: try visualization technic, might seem like a 'merry dance' but will help. 8 Likes |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by ConfidentialDoc: 10:35am On Sep 09, 2023 |
pansophist: It's really sad. It wasn't this bad in the early 2000s |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Love800(m): 10:35am On Sep 09, 2023 |
Abeg dey one corner Nbv1: 4 Likes |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Astar007: 10:37am On Sep 09, 2023 |
Love800: Bro honestly I don't know much, my own came as a surprise even to me...I met her on Facebook three months later she came to lagos, we do court marriage for ikoyi submit d marriage certificate na so dem give me visa, we didn't pay a dime brother for the visa....when u reach Sweden u go wonder if God swear for nigeria or na Devil create nigeria..u must go to a language school here first and learn Swedish when u come before u think of work...work plenty 27 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Nobody: 10:37am On Sep 09, 2023 |
Japa if u get the opportunity abeg. 4 Likes |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by ConfidentialDoc: 10:38am On Sep 09, 2023 |
MuMuOnBail: You're an asshole. But at least you made me laugh You're on point Sha... |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Love800(m): 10:41am On Sep 09, 2023 |
Hmm Isolated means nothing to me Boring means nothing to me Expensive is what i will consider in all u said. I prefer a loneliness quality life to enjoyment, lively and corrupt life pansophist: 15 Likes |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by onlyboyson(m): 10:42am On Sep 09, 2023 |
Then you japa silently |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Newton2024: 10:43am On Sep 09, 2023 |
Ge0grapher:I'm in your shoes and so I can relate. Please remember me if it clicks for you first. 2 Likes |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by spiritedtete: 10:43am On Sep 09, 2023 |
All that glitters are not Gold bro... you will come to terms with cons: Racism, loneliness(you can be married with children and still be lonely), slaving, police oppression... anxiety and depression. And you will never be rich if you don't have a special talent. (Standard of living is very high small pay check big taxes and bills) Prons: Jobs, beautiful environments.. clean people (the are all hypocrite) . Security, good infrastructures you will feel it more if you grow up in Nigeria. You will crave home honestly. Personally I regret Japa despite the fact that I have been almost everywhere. I wish I stayed back in Nigeria. However because I wanted a good passport for my children it is still no regret. (I am living very well mind you... very good apartment for an avarage rich person will live in...children attend of one of the most expensive schools around and I live very comfortably) but I still regret leaving Nigeria. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by emmaitive(m): 10:43am On Sep 09, 2023 |
Guy I dey your shoe too. so i can relate, though my own jakpa is on, probably early next year. i pray we all make it, as it is our dream 1 Like |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by SeniorMan715(m): 10:44am On Sep 09, 2023 |
Astar007:Make Una connect me to white wife nau bikonu 1 Like |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Henry22(m): 10:44am On Sep 09, 2023 |
After voting uselessness this one wants to run 3 Likes |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by akslink: 10:45am On Sep 09, 2023 |
Ge0grapher: |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by emmaitive(m): 10:45am On Sep 09, 2023 |
Mummyimbecile:abeg make una put pictures make e dey encourage us small say our day dey come 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Plight21(f): 10:46am On Sep 09, 2023 |
I know the grass isn't always greener at the other side. However, international exposure is good. It's nice to go out of your country. I don't know the lies they've sold to us about Canada but coming here to read news about that country weakens me. I think it also depends on who you're and What you want ... Atleast, you go still find what to do over there unless you're lazy. Isn't easy to be a Nigerian without having money. It's hell and depressing. Just thinking of how to get some money to starts the processing and proceed for my master's program.. I don't think there's a country that will give you 100% of eveything you desire. If 9ja is good, why are we seeing Japa as the escape route ... It's disastrous 10 Likes |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Love800(m): 10:52am On Sep 09, 2023 |
What reason made u left sweden? Am asking so i can also learn. Tank u MuMuOnBail: |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by JASONjnr(m): 10:55am On Sep 09, 2023 |
Astar007: You fit give me hint on how you met your white wife? Which app? |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by edgecution(m): 10:56am On Sep 09, 2023 |
Ge0grapher: I pray you get treatment for your depression. Ironically a lot of Americans especially ladies will give anything to relocate from United States. Most of them hate it here. They don't believe when they see the desperation of Africans especially Nigerians to come over. 5 Likes |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Love800(m): 10:57am On Sep 09, 2023 |
Is the language school in nigeria or sweden? Astar007: |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Nobody: 11:02am On Sep 09, 2023 |
franchasofficia: Though you weren't referring to me, I have been encouraged nonetheless. I have completely cut off from Nigeria. No parties, wedding, gatherings, street chats, office discussions, completely--to my wife's dismay (I only do my responsibility in za oza room, and play with my kids). The depression is real, deny it as much as you may. Waiting for positive assessment from Vetassess. I have ielts already. Baba God run Aussi for me. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Chetas81(m): 11:02am On Sep 09, 2023 |
Ge0grapher:YOU GUYS BUILD HELL AS NIGERIA, NOW YOU'RE LOOKING FOR COUNTRY LIKE HEAVEN,TO LIVE, THE CONTRIBUTION YOU LACK HERE IN NIGERIA, YOU DID NOT BOTHER ABOUT IT, BUT LOOKING FOR WHERE YOU CAN SERVE AS SLAVE TO THOSE WHO DO NOT LIKE YOUR COLOUR 🦍 4 Likes |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Astar007: 11:05am On Sep 09, 2023 |
JASONjnr: |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Astar007: 11:06am On Sep 09, 2023 |
Love800: U will attend one in Sweden.. u can also be using duolingo app for now to learn the basics |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by sokeril: 11:08am On Sep 09, 2023 |
pansophist:My mentor😎 I love you sir. |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Mummiesboy: 11:11am On Sep 09, 2023 |
Sirchiboy: 1 Like |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Nobody: 11:13am On Sep 09, 2023 |
Love800: With you all the way. You took that out of my head. |
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Ugwueke11(m): 11:13am On Sep 09, 2023 |
If i no japa wetin i gain, i am one of the guards in this travel section, we dont sleep we wait day and night 4 japa thread 4 Likes 1 Share |
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