Good day guys, I really don't understand what's happening to my love life.

So, I don't know whether to call it a problem or is that I've been meeting the wrong people?

Whenever I meet a lady, they seem to like me a lot, especially for the first few months or one year, or thereabout - But as time goes on, They always tell me that they feel inferior to me. That they don't deserve me!

I still don't get it - Note that I've tried severally to make them understand that I don't see them the way they think they're - But they keep telling me that i'm way above their level or standard - That they just don't match up with me in anyway.

My marriage of 3 years has equally crashed because of this - To me, I see myself as just an average guy who lives a simple life, but to them, even my simplicity is too sophisticated for them. Yes, I have connections, I have people as friends at different levels - But I always make sure that I place a great value on whoever I'm dating, but this issue keeps repeating itself.

The only times I didn't experience this was when I dated a philippine girl, a South African single mom, and one time that I dated an American lady who was equally a single mom - But any Nigerian lady that i've ever been involved with, has always told me that I'm way above their league.

The most painful one is my marriage that crashed, I really don't know what to do, I didn't dream of being a single dad or that my child be raised outside marriage.

Please kindly share your advice, thanks!

Funny.

turner201:
Good day guys, I really don't understand what's happening to my love life.

So, I don't know whether to call it a problem or is that I've been meeting the wrong people?

Whenever I meet a lady, they seem to like me a lot, especially for the first few months or one year, or thereabout - But as time goes on, They always tell me that they feel inferior to me. That they don't deserve me!

I still don't get it - Note that I've tried severally to make them understand that I don't see them the way they think they're - But they keep telling me that i'm way above their level or standard - That they just don't match up with me in anyway.

My marriage of 3 years has equally crashed because of this - To me, I see myself as just an average guy who lives a simple life, but to them, even my simplicity is too sophisticated for them. Yes, I have connections, I have people as friends at different levels - But I always make sure that I place a great value on whoever I'm dating, but this issue keeps repeating itself.

The only times I didn't experience this was when I dated a philippine girl, a South African single mom, and one time that I dated an American lady who was equally a single mom - But any Nigerian lady that i've ever been involved with, has always told me that I'm way above their league.

The most painful one is my marriage that crashed, I really don't know what to do, I didn't dream of being a single dad or that my child be raised outside marriage.

Please kindly share your advice, thanks!

Maybe you're too strict but you don't seem to see it that way.

Women don't like men that are too strict.

turner201:
Good day guys, I really don't understand what's happening to my love life.

So, I don't know whether to call it a problem or is that I've been meeting the wrong people?

Whenever I meet a lady, they seem to like me a lot, especially for the first few months or one year, or thereabout - But as time goes on, They always tell me that they feel inferior to me. That they don't deserve me!

I still don't get it - Note that I've tried severally to make them understand that I don't see them the way they think they're - But they keep telling me that i'm way above their level or standard - That they just don't match up with me in anyway.

My marriage of 3 years has equally crashed because of this - To me, I see myself as just an average guy who lives a simple life, but to them, even my simplicity is too sophisticated for them. Yes, I have connections, I have people as friends at different levels - But I always make sure that I place a great value on whoever I'm dating, but this issue keeps repeating itself.

The only times I didn't experience this was when I dated a philippine girl, a South African single mom, and one time that I dated an American lady who was equally a single mom - But any Nigerian lady that i've ever been involved with, has always told me that I'm way above their league.

The most painful one is my marriage that crashed, I really don't know what to do, I didn't dream of being a single dad or that my child be raised outside marriage.

Please kindly share your advice, thanks!

OP, seek the face of God, this is deeper than u can ever think.

turner201:
Good day guys, I really don't understand what's happening to my love life.

So, I don't know whether to call it a problem or is that I've been meeting the wrong people?

Whenever I meet a lady, they seem to like me a lot, especially for the first few months or one year, or thereabout - But as time goes on, They always tell me that they feel inferior to me. That they don't deserve me!

I still don't get it - Note that I've tried severally to make them understand that I don't see them the way they think they're - But they keep telling me that i'm way above their level or standard - That they just don't match up with me in anyway.

My marriage of 3 years has equally crashed because of this - To me, I see myself as just an average guy who lives a simple life, but to them, even my simplicity is too sophisticated for them. Yes, I have connections, I have people as friends at different levels - But I always make sure that I place a great value on whoever I'm dating, but this issue keeps repeating itself.

The only times I didn't experience this was when I dated a philippine girl, a South African single mom, and one time that I dated an American lady who was equally a single mom - But any Nigerian lady that i've ever been involved with, has always told me that I'm way above their league.

The most painful one is my marriage that crashed, I really don't know what to do, I didn't dream of being a single dad or that my child be raised outside marriage.

Please kindly share your advice, thanks!

No mortal can ever have answers to this!
OP, seek the face of God, this is deeper than u can ever think.

turner201:


The only times I didn't experience this was when I dated a philippine girl, a South African single mom, and one time that I dated an American lady who was equally a single mom - But any Nigerian lady that i've ever been involved with, has always told me that I'm way above their league.

The most painful one is my marriage that crashed, I really don't know what to do, I didn't dream of being a single dad or that my child be raised outside marriage.

Please kindly share your advice, thanks!

At the bolded, rejoice brother. You set your bar so high, don't settle for mediocrity
On a serious note, have you checked your attitude?
Are you domineering?
Do you nag?
Do you find faults in petty things?
Only someone close to you can tell you truths about the above questions.
Seek solutions, there isn't a problem with a solution.

Arrrrrrrh

I am curious to know, how do you treat a woman? I mean how do you express your love to a woman?

turner201:
Good day guys, I really don't understand what's happening to my love life.

So, I don't know whether to call it a problem or is that I've been meeting the wrong people?

Whenever I meet a lady, they seem to like me a lot, especially for the first few months or one year, or thereabout - But as time goes on, They always tell me that they feel inferior to me. That they don't deserve me!

I still don't get it - Note that I've tried severally to make them understand that I don't see them the way they think they're - But they keep telling me that i'm way above their level or standard - That they just don't match up with me in anyway.

My marriage of 3 years has equally crashed because of this - To me, I see myself as just an average guy who lives a simple life, but to them, even my simplicity is too sophisticated for them. Yes, I have connections, I have people as friends at different levels - But I always make sure that I place a great value on whoever I'm dating, but this issue keeps repeating itself.

The only times I didn't experience this was when I dated a philippine girl, a South African single mom, and one time that I dated an American lady who was equally a single mom - But any Nigerian lady that i've ever been involved with, has always told me that I'm way above their league.

The most painful one is my marriage that crashed, I really don't know what to do, I didn't dream of being a single dad or that my child be raised outside marriage.

Please kindly share your advice, thanks!

Very funny, are u more connected and influential than ur politicians and celebrities? Yet women die to be with them. Guy is either they have all been speaking ironically to u in order not to hurt ur ego, that is may be they later found out that u are inferior to them or better still check ursef spiritually

gaius01:
Arrrrrrrh

I am curious to know, how do you treat a woman? I mean how do you express your love to a woman?

I do my best, Outing, I buy gifts, I try as much as I can to care for their needs, even extending it to the family and friends too. So I don't know what else to do.

Bro, all these explanations yet no evidence.
You're neither here nor there. I don't understand

Kingosytex:


At the bolded, rejoice brother. You set your bar so high, don't settle for mediocrity
On a serious note, have you checked your attitude?
Are you domineering?

I'm not sure i have that domineering attitude, because i try as much as possible to make sure my woman has a freewill around me.

MSN1:

OP, seek the face of God, this is deeper than u can ever think.

Everything is spiritual to you guys
I don give up

Kingosytex:

Everything is spiritual to you guys
I don give up

U just answered ur question!
Tell me ONE thing that is done in physical without the approval of the Spiritual realm?
Tell me one thing that is wrong with OP based on what he explained to us?

turner201:


I do my best, Outing, I buy gifts, I try as much as I can to care for their needs, even extending it to the family and friends too. So I don't know what else to do.

Three things;

1. You might be doing too much, trying to be good and nice.

2. Your partners might feel guilty when they see how good and safe harm you are and they might not be reciprocating such kind if gesture.

3. You might need to pray and find the root of the problem.

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gaius01:


Three things;

1. You might be doing too much, trying to be good and nice.

2. Your partners might feel guilty when they see how good and safe harm you are and they might not be reciprocating such kind if gesture.

3. You might need to pray and find the root of the problem.

Thank you so much for.

turner201:
Good day guys, I really don't understand what's happening to my love life.

So, I don't know whether to call it a problem or is that I've been meeting the wrong people?

Whenever I meet a lady, they seem to like me a lot, especially for the first few months or one year, or thereabout - But as time goes on, They always tell me that they feel inferior to me. That they don't deserve me!

I still don't get it - Note that I've tried severally to make them understand that I don't see them the way they think they're - But they keep telling me that i'm way above their level or standard - That they just don't match up with me in anyway.

My marriage of 3 years has equally crashed because of this - To me, I see myself as just an average guy who lives a simple life, but to them, even my simplicity is too sophisticated for them. Yes, I have connections, I have people as friends at different levels - But I always make sure that I place a great value on whoever I'm dating, but this issue keeps repeating itself.

The only times I didn't experience this was when I dated a philippine girl, a South African single mom, and one time that I dated an American lady who was equally a single mom - But any Nigerian lady that i've ever been involved with, has always told me that I'm way above their league.

The most painful one is my marriage that crashed, I really don't know what to do, I didn't dream of being a single dad or that my child be raised outside marriage.

Please kindly share your advice, thanks!

Nigeria girls are useless know that and know peace!!!!. You can never satisfy them. There will always be complain....

Do the opposite of everything you've been doing and know. Imagine you know nothing and always ask before you make a move or say hey I intend to do abc, what do you think?

turner201:

The most painful one is my marriage that crashed

Sorry for the marriage crash, life goes on.
Please give me your ex wife's number. Single moms need "love" too.

Are you a perfectionist?

jflower06:
Are you a perfectionist?

Yeah, kind of.

Women will not feel comfortable with you if you are a perfectionist. They will always find it difficult to please you and this will surely lead to frustration and they might loose their self confidence around you

turner201:
Good day guys, I really don't understand what's happening to my love life.

So, I don't know whether to call it a problem or is that I've been meeting the wrong people?

Whenever I meet a lady, they seem to like me a lot, especially for the first few months or one year, or thereabout - But as time goes on, They always tell me that they feel inferior to me. That they don't deserve me!

I still don't get it - Note that I've tried severally to make them understand that I don't see them the way they think they're - But they keep telling me that i'm way above their level or standard - That they just don't match up with me in anyway.

My marriage of 3 years has equally crashed because of this - To me, I see myself as just an average guy who lives a simple life, but to them, even my simplicity is too sophisticated for them. Yes, I have connections, I have people as friends at different levels - But I always make sure that I place a great value on whoever I'm dating, but this issue keeps repeating itself.

The only times I didn't experience this was when I dated a philippine girl, a South African single mom, and one time that I dated an American lady who was equally a single mom - But any Nigerian lady that i've ever been involved with, has always told me that I'm way above their league.

The most painful one is my marriage that crashed, I really don't know what to do, I didn't dream of being a single dad or that my child be raised outside marriage.

Please kindly share your advice, thanks!

Sorry Abt ur marriage dat crashed sir,,,,, sir can I get a little token from u??

Anytin can go a long way,,, would so much appreciate it u can help me wit any sir,, tanks in advance sir🥺🥺🥺🙏

Hope you are not a misogynist or Red Piller because no woman for people like that. Check yourself and close your eyes let me pray for you