saphiere:
Statistic shows that 99.999% of rape cases in the world are carried out by men. What does that tells you?

You have moved from cheating to rape and statistics. It's like something is paining you with men.

OK. Let's go to statistics. Can you tell us why, according to DNA statistics, over 60% of children born in marriages are not fathered by husbands? Who impregnated the wives with those babies?👶👶🍼

writetopoker:
Because free things are sweeter

just like free money from guys to girls

ruffDiamond:
egbon, leave story, there is no such thing as innocent 98% ,na very big lie!!!!!

Speak for yourself

The main problem is not even making the mistake of sleeping with your house maid .

The main problem is discovering that she's far sweeter , juicier and tighter than your wife .

BreconHills:


While accepting that it is completely wrong for men yo sleep with househelps from a moral as well as religious point of view - here are a few ideas. These ideas are based on consensual sex and not rape or undue influence.

1. Men who want to be taken care of and respected have increased affinity with their househelps. This affinity may or may not lead to consensual sex especially where the wive is a career woman and the man's work means he has flexible work hours - this simple biology and human dynamics.

2. Many women underestimate their househelps and do not realize that these are in cases fully grown women who may also have sexual desires.

3. Wives may not be attentive to the dressing of their househelps. Those hand me downs and wrapper in the evening may look local and uncouth to the wife but they may be sexy to a man.

4. Uneducated women use a lot more non verbal communication, eyes, body movements, gestures to make up for language deficiencies - these may be regarded by men as sexual cues which they respond to. If your househelp always puts her hand on her head while talking to your husband - understand what this does to her anatomy. It could be harmless, it could subconscious or conscious signalling.

5. At the heart of many men is a desire for primal and " basic instinct" encounters which don't need dinner dates or "staging" - just raw basic instinct encounters based on hormones and dopamine. It happens. For some Wives such desires are disrespectful.

In conclusion, men need to understand the cycle of attraction and cut it out before it is too late. Wives need to also be self aware and stop regarding sex as a prize that has to be earned or won. If all this is done, then pray because human nature is flawed.

This piece does not cover men who are sexual perverts, rapists, abusers or sexually incontinent. It also does not cover women who are careless, lackadaisical or with low sex drives - these are a seperate set of accidents waiting to happen. My contribution is focused on unintended and unplanned accidents.

wow! You sir, is an intelligent fellow. Leaned from this.

saphiere:
lalasticlala ishilove seun justwise Dominique nlfpmod rule 2

Madam answer what he asked before reporting him. Why do women Bleep their gatemen, driver??

Lol.
What a funny question.

MimiSheWrote:
Most men are explorers in nature and most house Helps are unexplored/barely explored.

Do the math.

This analogy is Satanic .

Meaning say Mungo Park must discover River Niger

Skyview01:


Its in the past. My kids are all grown and no more househelp for me.

u are not covered in this convo then

Chinny024:


All this just for sex?..🤔🤔🤔🤔.

What are the husband duties then?

Women desires are insatiable, is just like using a small cup of water to fill a deep well. If you are sincere you will agree I am saying the truth.

Goodlady:
Cos they v lust

Hello sweetheart

Zonefree:
A house help that treats Oga better than the wife is worth sharing the gbola with.

A house help will cook for your husband, serve him, wash his clothes, clean his shoes, sweep his bedroom, dress his bed and you think Oga is foolish not to compensate her with his gbola in a magnificent way

Men are naturally benevolent. No sane man should allow his wife stops him from finding the love of his life.

so rape and adultery is compensation.a lot of married women have unknowingly married mad men.no wonder depressed and cranky married women full everywhere.imagine cooking and cleaning for an adulterous man almost all the days of your married life.tufiaaa

OBTOREPA:
Is simply because they are not born again.

born again, you just allowed the British colony book called holy bible, to deceived you,job and Abraham story from the Bible won't allow black African citizen to see front

Beause they never saw her as their daughter or sister.

It is very painful when the protector becomes the predator.

Worst of all She calls him Father(Daddy)

Zonefree:
A house help that treats Oga better than the wife is worth sharing the gbola with.

A house help will cook for your husband, serve him, wash his clothes, clean his shoes, sweep his bedroom, dress his bed and you think Oga is foolish not to compensate her with his gbola in a magnificent way

Men are naturally benevolent. No sane man should allow his wife stops him from finding the love of his life.

Hahahahahahahaha

Zonefree:
A house help that treats Oga better than the wife is worth sharing the gbola with.

A house help will cook for your husband, serve him, wash his clothes, clean his shoes, sweep his bedroom, dress his bed and you think Oga is foolish not to compensate her with his gbola in a magnificent way

Men are naturally benevolent. No sane man should allow his wife stops him from finding the love of his life.

Ohh o. Meaning wife's are suppose to be maids. So demeaning.

saphiere:
A house help that disrespects her madam should be treated like the on on front page thread.

Madam disrespected her self by not standing up to her responsibility, but house help is there to compensate sha.

Tallesty1:
It's not just men. When you delegate all your responsibilities within your family (with the exception of intimacy, of course) to someone else, that person essentially becomes your partner's partner.

Marriage goes much deeper than what many people think.

Remember the story of Joseph in Egypt when the king placed him in charge of his household?

That's right; the king's wife was so attracted to Joseph that she tried to rape him.

I'm not justifying their actions, but when a maid cooks, serves, cleans, and takes care of the man and the kids, etc., she ends up assuming more of a wife's role than that of a maid.

You're essentially delegating your position to her, and if she's good at it, she might as well do it wholeheartedly.

If I were a judge, I'd rule that the husband cheated on his maid with the wife, not the other way around, as she's fulfilling more of the traditional wife's duties for him than the actual wife.

So the bolded are qualities of a wife

Na mumu men,I never see yansh wey go sweet pass my wife yansh

I hope you not pregnant for your oga? Nah questión i ask!

saphiere:
Stories of men sleeping with their house helps and even impregnating them is not new to us.
Why do men indulge in such act?
If you must cheat as you men do saying it's men's nature to cheat. If you must cheat why should it be the househelp?

please I need answers

First principles, my friends. Read Marcus Aurelius. Of each particular thing ask: what is it in itself? What is its nature? What does he do, this unnamed man you debate about?

This man covets. That's his nature. And how do we begin to covet, my friends? Do we seek out things to covet?

We begin by coveting what we see every day!

PS: A gift for you if you can figure out which movie the explanation above is based upon.

izonborn098:
If ur husband happen to sleep with ur house help then their is something in the maid that u don't get..
Why do women Bleep gate man and neighbor?

Even underage house girls , most of them are just community dogs

Osobi32:
When the house help cares more than the wife, when the house help shows more love than the wife, when the house help is always present attending to his needs even without him telling her what to do..... Madam it becomes natural for the man to start seeing the beauty in her.

What can you say of minors , children under the age of 10yrs 🥱.

This topic isn't even a new thing , same men that sleeps with their biological daugthers , no wonder , they do deport most of them , immediately they step their feet outside the country .

Make una dey take am with womanizing.

saphiere:
Stories of men sleeping with their house helps and even impregnating them is not new to us.
Why do men indulge in such act?
If you must cheat as you men do saying it's men's nature to cheat. If you must cheat why should it be the househelp?

please I need answers

Nothing in this world justify such actions, the most painful part of it , is them sleeping with minors .

Like the wife will maltreat her in the morning and afternoon, then the horsebandit will come at night to pound same innocent child .

I now see the reasons why my dad , doesn't want any of us to stay with anybody.

I just pity people that are still giving birth to kids that they can't comfortably take care of ,

Some of them will just become a sex tool in the hands of Oga and animal in the hands of Madam all in the name of being a housemaid.

I pray to live long for my children, this world is full of evil .

I heard of one yesterday, she just put to birth and the husband is already sleeping with the maid , a girl of 13yrs . I was like , if it was the woman's child , and someone is sexually abusing her daughter , would she have kept mute , of course, some mumu women are every ready to keep mute.

I'm a lady but I will say large percent of Nigeria women are gullible , while larger percent of men are shameless.

You wondered why they're been deported from UK and the likes. I can't even vouch for them , same thing happens here and they get away with it.

God bless Oyinbo law.

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Most men with low libido and small dick size truly don't take advantage. As a matter of fact, they are very shy. [/quot
Hmmmmmmmm tori wowo

Woman are attracted by power , wealth and afluence , men are ocular, they are moved by what they see

saphiere:
Stories of men sleeping with their house helps and even impregnating them is not new to us.
Why do men indulge in such act?
If you must cheat as you men do saying it's men's nature to cheat. If you must cheat why should it be the househelp?

please I need answers

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If the desired is not available, the available becomes the desired.

The same reason madam sleeps with the driver or gateman.

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Cheap and easy

moneyissweet:
Na mumu men,I never see yansh wey go sweet pass my wife yansh

Hmmm! Confession time.
You must have done a lot of sampling (seeing) to arrive at that conclusion.
Well done!!

Boldideas:


Continue speaking English.

Are you guilty ?

Because is very close to each other

LACK OF SELF CONTROL .
YIELDING TO DEVIL'S DEMANDS.

BUT DO YOU KNOW WHAT IF FEELS LIKE WHEN A BEAUTIFUL TEENAGER COMES TO ASK YOU QUESTION while tying Only towel ?

I DON'T SUPPORT EVIL THOUGH BUT LADIES SHOULD CONTINUE TO LOOK HOT FOR THEIR HUSBAND.