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Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by TimT: 8:20am On Sep 17, 2023 |
TrainPark:Hey God.. shey dis one go marry so? The "Mother" isn't she someone's daughter? And how Nd why should your mother be Influencial in both your life as a man and also her husband (your father's) life? Or do u think the last remaining good woman is a man's mother? God help us with all these strong head men |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by XYZo: 8:21am On Sep 17, 2023 |
I discoverer that allowing women to also contribute their money or invest it in the home or on you helps strengthen their bond with you. Ask around , many men who does everything in the house and forbids their women spend on them or the home lose at last. Because women thinking is different , they will only see you as a father figure. They will respect that you have the money but bro, they may not be totally committed. Alow her also spend on you or the home,women don't like to lose on monetary investment, their heart will be with you, once they also feel that sense of commitment towards you or the home. Run a check, you hardy see women who spend on a guy, dump the guy, simply because their heart is in ther investment. But they can easily dump a guy who sent them through school and paid all ther bills for another guy who they spend on . Think am sparogatively 1 Like |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by Paramount01(m): 8:22am On Sep 17, 2023 |
nedekid: Let me pack my load and go,don't come and kill me with responsibility knowing fully well we both work and earn 1 Like |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by henidord3: 8:23am On Sep 17, 2023 |
So true never allow it |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by tyinfinity: 8:23am On Sep 17, 2023 |
This post is from another obituary obidients follower. |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by TemmyT002(m): 8:30am On Sep 17, 2023 |
She will always remind you. Dont let it happen 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by Paramount01(m): 8:30am On Sep 17, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: In these dispensations, even if the man pay all the bills just as I am doing in my house the woman will still say I am not a slave in your house you can't dictate everything for me simple because you pay the bills,why not just share the bill and she do what she has been doing before Woman don't pay bills ,woman don't pay house rents, yet you work, what did you now spend your money on? 1 Like |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by zoghys: 8:30am On Sep 17, 2023 |
[quote author=lailo post=125840500] No to paying house rent? No to paying school fees, right? No to feeding the family, definitely? No to building the house, of course? No to buying the family car, sure? Then what financial contribution a woman who earns, is then going to do in the home? [/quote Do has it pleases you, ire oooo. |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by wany(f): 8:31am On Sep 17, 2023 |
franchasofficia:Will they listen ,I doubt rather they are very comfortable been broke and demanding respect , who is going to respect your broke ass 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by kayperry: 8:34am On Sep 17, 2023 |
hardon1: You are right to an extent, to you 2.5m is a small fraction But to a typical naija woman she is a landlady by "entitlement" and "cost", one is enough to make a woman misbehave talk more of two maybe naa day you or other siblings go to that house to sleepover and your elder brother forget to inform her ahead e go hear am Lets be objective bro, how many naija women are reasonable ?? esp. when it involves bills 1 Like |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by kayperry: 8:57am On Sep 17, 2023 |
Iamzik: One thing i have come to realize is that the biggest problem of Marriage in modern times is *EXPECTATIONs* People go into marriages with silly Expectations without Arrangement, We Naija "MEN" most times spoil these women too much such that we make them shirk reality .. you dated a girl and all through you never allowed her to spend her money on any outing but suddenly you expect her to contribute to marriage no be juju be that I think r/ship will be a lot better if people match their expectations with arrangements 2 Likes |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by Prenonjebose: 9:01am On Sep 17, 2023 |
House rent! It's best for men to take care of that. Some guys here think it's so simple and comfortable to allow their wives to pay house rent. Don't pray, consider or wish for it to happen. Just do your best to handle the rent. She can support with other things in the home, like feeding and sundry expenses. This can be understood in terms of helpmate. |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by Paramount01(m): 9:03am On Sep 17, 2023 |
dkidd: No big deal, |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by samally: 9:07am On Sep 17, 2023 |
Entitle Man, Aka 50:50 A wise woman should avoid men like you bcus you will manipulate her by taking up the responsibilities that’s meant for you Confusing her with cheap words,but the good things is a woman is always a woman she will show you Instead of you telling her to pay rent,Let her know, the rent money is a loan and make sure you pay back..this is the best way to earn woman respect TimT: |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by TimT: 9:11am On Sep 17, 2023 |
samally:Marry first.. then come back Nd make noise |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by samally: 9:23am On Sep 17, 2023 |
Close to a decade and half… Marriage is a nature and you can’t cheat nature Gender role is not not interchangeable in marriage but can be flex… Young man take your eye off woman money TimT: |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by freemanq(m): 9:25am On Sep 17, 2023 |
Animal talking |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by josephevergreen(m): 9:32am On Sep 17, 2023 |
Op i will not totally blame you for the post because I don't know what you re passing through or have pass through to make you arrive tp this conclusion..but i must say that what works for mr A there is no guarantee that it will work for mr B. So stick to what works f0r you🙌🙌👌 Above all either married or single please no let money finished for your hand. Dm for your tiles and accessories 👇 07040313049 |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by vickydevoka(m): 10:10am On Sep 17, 2023 |
TimT:"I and my wife receives same salary and I love cooking as a man, I sometimes clean since I'm always at home. But I pay everything and she uses her money to buy human hair and build house for her parent, feed her siblings. " Said by a mumu man. If you and your wife don't have a financial structure and not open to your income , please divorce her immediately. Stop all this rubbish of I'm a man of the house , she will insult me. If she insults u , insult her simple. 1 Like |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by LARRYOBRAIN(m): 10:14am On Sep 17, 2023 |
Rubbish, anybody can pay rent as long there is understanding in the family. |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by zoeymikey(f): 10:30am On Sep 17, 2023 |
Chai.
Sorry.
Hmmmmn. |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by TimT: 10:32am On Sep 17, 2023 |
samally:Wow... married for almost 2 decades and you don't trust your wife... Sorry... I sure don't wish for such marriage... "Marriage is nature.. Gender role is nature "... See what a so-called married man is saying... So in your absence your wife can't head the house..? In your inability, your wife can't support you? All because of gender role... I won't say I pity your marriage, but I heavily doubt if you marry for love or you marry because "Time don reach to marry" Have a nice Sunday... |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by ogbe88(m): 11:00am On Sep 17, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:At times i don't know if u are well. |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by Bluffly: 11:26am On Sep 17, 2023 |
KingAzubuike:That is how you get it wrong. My marriage is almost 20 years if you care to know, my wife and I do things together. I am not autocratic or looking for points to prove. My leadership is not about romancing my ego. We do not allow our misunderstanding to degenerate because we both know that the success of our partnership is both our responsibility. 1 Like |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by Father4all: 11:53am On Sep 17, 2023 |
Don't allow them to feed you too 1 Like |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by Mypeople2(m): 12:07pm On Sep 17, 2023 |
Ogbenison1:Some times I just pity men.This is one of the reasons why we have a lot of widows...They are just killing my gender with a lot of responsibilities . Please it is your marriage.If you really married your friend why can't you help him ? Are you not one, why are you in competition with each other ? |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by samally: 12:17pm On Sep 17, 2023 |
Take your eye off woman money, incase you loan money from your girlfriend/fiancé do yourself a needful and payback Save this quote for future reference Happy Sunday to you TimT: |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by TimT: 12:41pm On Sep 17, 2023 |
samally:It's rubbish let a wife "loan" a husband to pay rent for house they both stay... I repeat. Marry who loves you to avoid everything to be transactional... Happy Sunday to you too.... |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by Kobojunkie: 1:35pm On Sep 17, 2023 |
Paramount01:That is commonsense since we are no longer in the stone ages when slavery was accepted norm. Now women see and know that slavery is not the best and not fit for humans. So, anyone entering a master-submission marriage is setting himself up for failure since the times have changed. 2. Women don't pay bills because men still enter into relationships with them under an agreement that exempts them from doing so. It is that simple.if you want a woman who pays bills , not only should you select a partner who will but also ensure you choose a marriage agreement that matches. All these illogical whining about how women don't pay bills--- same women paid their bills before you came into the picture though --- is nothing but useless whining. |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by Paramount01(m): 1:56pm On Sep 17, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: With this your second point, I now know why we have a lot of single mothers out there, continue,I started payments I can't continue you want me to continue, you we cater for |
Re: Never Allow Your Wife To Pay Rent. by kwasoly(m): 3:04pm On Sep 17, 2023 |
Imredeemed: This one no talk anything oh, if you can't go further next time kindly desist from posting |
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