Tetrisbiz:
I never wanted to do this and this is a very embarrassing situation but I need help from nairaland users.

I have an older brother in his early 40s. Since I was a child till this very moment, this person has been a torn on the flesh of my parents and the family in general.

Sometime in 2020, with the help of my elder sister's husband ( the HR) we were able to find a job for him as a supervisor in a factory and then I and my immediate elder brother (another sibling of mine) contributed money and rented an apartment for him in Lagos and then bought some property to furnish the apartment. To our surprise, my elder brother starting forcing his sexual advances on junior female workers and if any of these girls reject his advances he would start threatening the girls that he would get them fired with the help of the HR (My sister's husband). Forunately my sister's husband found out what was going on and rejected my brother's request for the female workers to be sacked. This started a war between my elder brother and my sister and her husband.

My elder brother eventually left that company (note he wasn't fired he LEFT by himself) and went back to the village. When my father heard this he almost collapsed as he knew the trouble that was coming his way.

Since he returned to the village he started assaulting my parents and I had to send money (about 400,000) back to Nigeria for him to rent a flat just so he could leave my parents alone. My brother stayed in that apartment for 3 months then started fighting his landlord and then told his landlord he couldn't stay for the year and demanded some part of his rent back,he took his rent, returned to the village and picked up from where he left by fighting my father ( a very old man). Its so bad that my father sometimes leaves the house (The house that he built as a family house) and stays outside for hours before returning home.

Please do we have restraining order laws in Nigeria and is there a particular police division in the Nigerian police or legal system that can be used to address an issue such as this?

I'm tired and I'm considering taking a drastic and extremely aggressive decision to resolve this situation once and for all.

He needs to see a psychiatrist

I know some one who was even worst than your brother... He ended up killing his father, not for long he ran mad... I think he need a phycologists.... That is what he need a therapy... I suggest u try it cuz that his attitude can be caused by jealousy or depression.... No first born wants to be fed by the junior ones... That is the pride of a man...

kingthreat:
It is like there's a spirit that wants to use your brother to be a torture to his family members. Please take a drastic action involving the police. Let him be given a restraining order and if that order is broken, he goes to detention. Simple. From the way you are talking, it is obvious your elder brother is into drugs. Please don't bother talking reason to him. People that are into drugs and naturally violent tend to want to bring down anyone close to them. Thank your stars you are out of the country.

Nonsense! Na people like you dey immediately believe tales of disappearing dicks and all.

femu:
■ He needs to see a psychiatrist

What magic will a psychiatrist do for a 40-year-old bully and sexual deviant?

Kobojunkie:
Nonsense! Na people like you dey immediately believe tales of disappearing dicks and all.

This troll rodent again

kingthreat:
■ This troll rodent again

Look who's talking!

Kobojunkie:
Look who's talking!

Yes I insist, the rodent of a troll. Oga believes he is the wisest man on Earth.

He want to kill your father before his time. You guys should do something fast.....he won't succeed in terminating dad's life prematurely. He blames him for his present predicament, falsely.

It's also because he's not yet married and he's thinking his life is over....instead of him to try to impress his dad, he's looking for the elderly man to curse him.
Those are the signs of NOT raising up one's child in the way of The Lord.