"experience the world"! did she say that??
After your odometer don read 180,000.00 Km you go begin find buyer?

Keep experiencing the world dey blame "wrong timing"

According to Flavour "ihe kwu oto ga-adakwa"



Gush! am crude. lmao

My experience is a bit like inky's,I was 20 and he 26 and an only child,he wanted to get married immediately,I wasn't ready and my folks would have objected,his folks put so much pressure on him,he eventually married a girl his parents hooked him up with,he was a nice man but the timing was so wrong,I guess it wasn't meant to be.

slimyem:

and what makes you assume or opine that my decisions were imprudent?your opinion of me or my life is baseless my dear.you do not know JACK about it.dont even go there!
experiencing the world?yes,i have and i'm not done and i wont be until i'm old and grey.deal with that!

Don't worry keep experiencing the world till you are old and grey by yourself in a nursing home. You think good men will somehow wait on you to come back from experiencing the world. If a thread like this does not teach young girls a lesson, I don't know what will.

Let me use this hypothetical to make you understand your own story. You are, say 24 or 25, and dating a man of your dreams. But because you want to experience the world you let him go so that you can experience the world. After experiencing the so called world and now have high mileage you will now, say at age 32 or 33, say that you let go of that guy because it was the wrong time.

So it follows that what made the timing wrong for you was because you wanted to experience the world at that time of letting him go. Women like you will now be spending countless nights in night vigils praying for a husband.

Princek12:

Don't worry keep experiencing the world till you are old and grey by yourself in a nursing home. You think good men will somehow wait on you to come back from experiencing the world. If a thread like this does not teach young girls a lesson, I don't know what will.

Let me use this hypothetical to make you understand your own story. You are, say 24 or 25, and dating a man of your dreams. But because you want to experience the world you let him go so that you can experience the world. After experiencing the so called world and now have high mileage you will now, say at age 32 or 33, say that you let go of that guy because it was the wrong time.

So it follows that what made the timing wrong for you was because you wanted to experience the world at that time of letting him go. Women like you will now be spending countless nights in night vigils praying for a husband.

No mind her. She wan sell her car yet she wan drive am from lagos reach Kano 32 times.
Boys dey find tire rubber not "experiencing the world" tokumbo

And this post has quickly deviated from what the whole point is all about. Some men on here have such huge egos that they refuse to talk about the issue at hand without letting it get in the way. What is all this talk about getting old all by oneself at the nursing home or who's feeling regret? The difference between making something happen between a man and a woman is timing. What is wrong with people here bikonu? Jeez!

chika98:

And this post has quickly deviated from what the whole point is all about. Some men on here have such huge egos that they refuse to talk about the issue at hand without letting it get in the way. What is all this talk about getting old all by oneself at the nursing home or who's feeling regret? The difference between making something happen between a man and a woman is timing. What is wrong with people here bikonu? Jeez!

Daftie 

So watchu expect? You actually expected guys to come here and tell you how their cinderilla story didnt end with the happily-ever-after clause because of "wrong timing" and "experiencing the world" ? c'mon mehn, "the right guy at the wrong time" is as crappy as "wrong guy loving you right" . You guys probably listen to Celin Dion alot.
In an unambigous term, the Poster was simply telling you that at that phase of her life, one brother wasnt just enough! she wasn't ready to be held down by one bros when there are a million cutie-hunchy guys throwing green light at her  She don dey regret as time no too dey her side. Simples! Now you dig? 

Mine was due to relocation reasons I had made up my mind about my move to a different country before we even met,Most ironic thing is we lived five minutes apart from each other and we had never ever bumped into each other before.

Princek12:

Don't worry keep experiencing the world till you are old and grey by yourself in a nursing home. You think good men will somehow wait on you to come back from experiencing the world. If a thread like this does not teach young girls a lesson, I don't know what will.

Let me use this hypothetical to make you understand your own story. You are, say 24 or 25, and dating a man of your dreams. But because you want to experience the world you let him go so that you can experience the world. After experiencing the so called world and now have high mileage you will now, say at age 32 or 33, say that you let go of that guy because it was the wrong time.

So it follows that what made the timing wrong for you was because you wanted to experience the world at that time of letting him go. Women like you will now be spending countless nights in night vigils praying for a husband.

as usual, unfounded opinions!
Keep assuming and propounding your theories of what you think i was or will be.it still doest count.i'm done arguing with you.

27naira:

"experience the world"! did she say that??

yes,i said it!are you dead already??

27naira:

In an unambigous term, the Poster was simply telling you that at that phase of her life, one brother wasnt just enough! she wasn't ready to be held down by one bros when there are a million cutie-hunchy guys throwing green light at her  She don dey regret as time no too dey her side. Simples! Now you dig? 

i didnt know you were such a good word-analyst.you have done well.now,clap for yourself!

Truth hurts

Methinks Prince12 has said it all!! Fact is the Truth Hurts.

Men dis is gettin intrestin

>>> i'm in such xperience rite now and i bet u it's not easy, just keep the faith and i guess everythinq will turn around for your own good by God grace,

slimyem: Ever been in a situation where you found someone you liked who liked you in return but because of one reason or the other you couldnt date or get serious?
It might be that one party is in another relationship or going through a tough period and as such cannot commit to anything serious at that period.
It might also be a situation where one party was too young or one party had been terribly heartbroken and had been drained of all energy needed to make a relationship work.
Mine was a guy a had a 2-year relationship with.was about 4 years older and was asking for too much.seriously,he was everything a woman would want in a man but i wasnt just ready then.i needed to see and experience the world.if i just met him now,he would have been the MAN!he was the right person at the wrong time.
Now,share your experiences!

So the guy don commot? He don leave ur life already? Abi u still one experience the world?

Amaka G29: Right person, Wrong time, Life might be trying to tell you something, so listen,
If the seemingly right person appears and things don't go well, it's probably because something far worse would happen if you two got together. Life has a way of putting you where you need to be. Think about every ex you have (some have to think more than others). Those people are your exes because at one point you THOUGHT he/she was the right person at the right time, but I bet you wish something had gone wrong earlier than it did so that your feelings were spared.

That being said, there are really nice guys across oceans that I sometimes wonder about, (Daydreaming)

Very, Very True.

notabarbie:
So the guy don commot? He don leave ur life already? Abi u still one experience the world?

mister or whatever,when you can read and understand,come back to ask your question again with sense!
Now,bounce!

yomz1e: in Words of  Maya Angelou: When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, or to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or even spiritually. They may seem like a godsend to you, and they are. They are there for a reason,you need them to be.Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.Sometimes they die, Sometimes they just walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand.What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilleed; their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on.[/i]

My expereince was crazy and i promise my self never to love again.  The girl tore my heart into shreds! blew me away like the wind and and never gave a damn about my feelings.  few months later she was asking for a 2nd chance, butthen i had moved on, so I can say wrong person wrong time, and now at the right time i found the right person and we celebrated our annivessary recently, but still not inlove, heartless yes i know, but its best that way because in life nothing is guaranteed

touching

kponkish:

Oh oh! now she's begining to reason in my direction now dat the rite person is in one's imagination, yet she told me earlier my opinion was not needed here. women nd dier fish brain self!

hahahaha,fish brain,my brother.

Princek12:
Eya to all this women who are languishing in nostalgia. They were younger and did not appreciate the good men they had, but now they are older and are now wishing they could turn back the hands of time. Unfortunately, it does not happen like that.

This thread should hopefully show the young girls out there, who are with good men as we speak, not to end up being like this girls who are now regretting letting go of the good guys they once had. These girls are now trying to console themselves by saying that they met "the right person at the wrong time." Give me a break. I know that what I just said does not apply to all of the women, but I am damn sure it affects a substantial portion of the women who are sharing their experiences here.

remember no one eats his/her cake and have it back...

Yes. Still thinking about him after 10 years

Nymphnode:
Happened to me years back. Traveled out and before I returned my woman had lost her virginity. I returned with an engagement ring but my friend had ringed her engine already. She is still roaming the street and already  above 30. Still visit her once in a while when I need someone skilled with the mouth organ

correct guy!

Btzzk:
Now you want the guy to come and pick the leftover, after when you have sell yourself to many men that did not appreciate what you get. that's not going to happen.

lol

voodoo85:
Yes. Still thinking about him after 10 years

wow