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Re: What Is The Disadvantage Of Dating You by DonroxyII: 9:37pm On Sep 26, 2023

ahnie:
I m particularly unattentive when someone is asking me questions.
I tend to act as if I m not hearing the person.i do that on purpose.

I talk less and always in a bit of hurry to leave a particular environment as soon as I can.

I easily gets tired of someone/something dunno why I quickly lost interest?

Love!!!!I don't love no matter what,but you will get lots of care from me,that's if you're deserving of it .

You must have been heart-broken before or been scared by news of close related anyway .. Your attitude is your "defense Guard" to Avoid being Hustled ....

Most of you that love uncontrollable always put up many characters as Shield 🛡 😒 to Avoid Being Hustled So You can see the BS & take Off before it consumes Your Heart cheesy

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Re: What Is The Disadvantage Of Dating You by Rinoxy: 9:39pm On Sep 26, 2023

LINSAR:
No sex till marriage, I don't fornicate.

If you have nothing doing to earn a living, I can't be fending for you like your father.

I pay less attention to physical attributes. I might not even notice you made a new hair. Your wig, makeup and nails don't do a thing on me.

You must know how to pray and have patience. Dating a believer is different from dating Pablo Richie the yahoo boy.

If I'm talking angrily, don't touch me or hit me.

Regarding your last paragraph, you really need to work on yourself. Anger is not a thing to hold on to or be proud of.

Re: What Is The Disadvantage Of Dating You by DonroxyII: 9:43pm On Sep 26, 2023

ukaface:
I don’t have disadvantage

Overyhyping, Except Say Sh.it no dey ya Bowel ... No human is perfect ...

Re: What Is The Disadvantage Of Dating You by Silentgroper(m): 9:45pm On Sep 26, 2023

nesgeeek:
I won't have ur time. Because I'm always thinking about anything that brings legal money. also I don't know how to talk too much, Many Ladies like guys who can communicate with them for up to an hour. I only talk when needed.

lol ..

they call it gist..

I"m bad at that too .... To them, they don't want you take a break, just keep talking...

It get nauseating eventually...

Re: What Is The Disadvantage Of Dating You by Silentgroper(m): 9:51pm On Sep 26, 2023

udemzyudex:
You go crave for attention tire.
I dey forget say I dey relationship sometimes.

Olohun!!!

😁😁😁😁

Re: What Is The Disadvantage Of Dating You by Dauphine(f): 9:54pm On Sep 26, 2023

From reading your comments, we can already see you’re disadvantage personified 🤮

UncleKoboko:
I fine
I dey serve God
I can say that I'm a fair-good person (because I don't usually dish to others what I won't like to be served)
I get some changed for pocket
I decent and I nor dey sleep around
I nor dey cheat and doesn't tolerate cheating
When you're with me, you have to be completely in and no monkey - branching

Re: What Is The Disadvantage Of Dating You by Squirrel1(m): 10:05pm On Sep 26, 2023

maasoap:

Sorry. I know that this could be correct in children but for an adult, I'm not sure

it's called osteomalacia in adults and it can be corrected via braces n operation. But I'm too broke to afford such.

I fell pain on my knee, back and waist when I walk long distance.. cry

The funny part is I never had it when I as a kid, it came from knw where n I'm the only child with it in my house. cry

Re: What Is The Disadvantage Of Dating You by justli: 10:13pm On Sep 26, 2023

DrAda:
I get bored easily. I have unique thoughts on aliens, life, Christianity etc which I can't express fully because many may think that I am weird or worse mad.

I'm in interested in listening to your views on the subject. We can talk outside of the platform

Re: What Is The Disadvantage Of Dating You by Silentgroper(m): 10:13pm On Sep 26, 2023

maasoap:

Stingy and a cheat? I don't think the two go along well together at all.

if he has the pretty boy good looks, then the two might actually go along well together 😟🤨

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Re: What Is The Disadvantage Of Dating You by DrAda(f): 10:32pm On Sep 26, 2023

maasoap:

It would be interesting to know what your thoughts are on those subjects, you would be amazed to discover that a lot of people bottled up many things just to conform to what the society is used to. I'm one of them.

It's really a pity

Re: What Is The Disadvantage Of Dating You by UncleKoboko: 10:37pm On Sep 26, 2023

Dauphine:
From reading your comments, we can already see you’re disadvantage personified 🤮

What's your bodycount?
Are you proud of it?
Will you like your daughters to be like you?
Will you like you sons to marry someone like you?

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Re: What Is The Disadvantage Of Dating You by Holluwhakemmy(f): 10:42pm On Sep 26, 2023

UncleKoboko:
For me,
If you're a girl and you've been ran through by different men, I CAN NEVER IN THIS LIFE VALUE OR RATE YOU, ESPECIALLY IF I WANT A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP.
But if it's a short term or catch Cruise and you're okay with it, I might not mind.

MY FIRST TASK THE MOMENT I START FALLING IN LOVE IS TO DIG YOUR PAST AND I CAN SPEND A FORTUNE IN DOING IT...
Like what there to value, cherish and respect in something that has been used and dumped and passed around by multiple players?

I know some mumus and pained oloshos will quote me and asked, "are you a virgin yourself" ?
Well, it's none of your business and I have said what I said.
I can never even pay a full bride price on a girl that's not a virgin.
Bride price is a TRADITIONAL thing and for virgin girls.
I WILL SPEND 100M ON A WEDDING IF THE CASH DEY, BUT U SEE THAT BRIDE PRICE, I WILL NEVER PAY IT IN FULL EVEN IF NA 10K.
The best thing I can do is divide her bride price by her bodycount.
If her bride price is 100k and her bodycount is 10, I will only pay 100k/10 = 10k.
That's what she and her parents deserve for raising a shameless loose SLÚT.

and the shameless loose SLÚT will finally becomes your wife and mother of your future children.

Re: What Is The Disadvantage Of Dating You by zoeymikey(f): 10:51pm On Sep 26, 2023

Ekundayokan:
what are the disadvantages of dating you?

Re: What Is The Disadvantage Of Dating You by zoeymikey(f): 10:53pm On Sep 26, 2023

Make una date me oo. I'm single and ready to mingle. I'm a cool headed baby.

Re: What Is The Disadvantage Of Dating You by CelestineNelson: 10:56pm On Sep 26, 2023

Silentgroper:
What is courtship??

What is dating

🤦🤦🤦🤦

You don't understand the sociology of and contextual use of words that is why you think that both words suggest the same meaning...etymologically speaking no two words have the same meaning.

Courtship ...People who are ready for marriage. Like you do for 6 months No sex, No kissing, no romancing, no private place meetup, done under the watch of a counselor and the fear of your Creator in preparation for marriage.
Your parents are aware of it.

Dating is the corrupt version of courtship where you all engage to satisfy your carnal desires, urges, and the like.
How many of these criminals can inform their pastors or parents that they are dating at the secondary school level? How many university students who are dating fellow students are ready for marriage on campus? With all the heavy immoral activities that go on in school in the name of dating ...95% of relationships end at the school gate. They jump from one guy/girl to another in the name of dating ...they spend years wasting their time and destiny with the wrong guy/girl because the purpose of dating is not always clearly defined aside from sexual benefits and other related short-term goals

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Re: What Is The Disadvantage Of Dating You by Nobody: 11:10pm On Sep 26, 2023

The disadvantages of dating me are as follows:
* I am very difficult to deceive/manipulate ( many relationships thrive on manipulations and constant mind games ) So you may not have that with me, and this may make you feel you are having an unconventional dating experience, different from what you were expecting.

* I do not tolerate sexual immorality before our wedding vows have been said (many ladies will not be able to cope but I don't flinch, and wouldn't be compromising to suite any of their desires) Kisses are the most we can go for. Light kisses, mind you. If it was before I gave my life a turn around, I would have been banging you several times every week. Old things are passed away.
I may not accept your advances, however subtle you make them look , as a lady who intends to date me with the hope of getting married someday once I find out that you have slept with more than one guy. I'd loose interest and I'll let you know immediately, so as not to deceive you and waste your valuable time. Some wicked men will allow you become" lord of the rings " if you know what I mean. Why not just let her know and let her go in time.
One body count max, or I go for a bonafide virgin (both anal and vag*nal virgin) Yes, they are out there.

Last but not the least,
* I monitor your online presence, without you even knowing I'm doing so. I don't condone you video calling the opposite gender when I'm with you in the house or at a bar, diner or wherever. It means you have something nursing for the dude . cheesy

That's all.

I think to the so-called " woke ones " and the " feminists" the affore-mentioned and highlighted reasons of mine will certainly feel as a disadvantage of dating me.

Anyways, I am not even ready to settle down for a marriage at the moment, so, I don't feel I need to bother if these so-called disadvantages reduce my chances of securing the kind of woman (I'm referring to physical endowments now) that I would want to end up marrying.

I'll definitely find the one that suits me, in good time. God willing.

Re: What Is The Disadvantage Of Dating You by zoeymikey(f): 11:13pm On Sep 26, 2023

Adeyinka90:
Am a guy who don't Iike sex..I might not even ask for sex from you for a whole year dating you

Come and date me oo.
We're compatible.

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Re: What Is The Disadvantage Of Dating You by hardon1(m): 11:14pm On Sep 26, 2023

Omoawoke2:
I am wicked

Yes you read that right, I’m a wicked man

Laugh won Kee me here grin

Re: What Is The Disadvantage Of Dating You by 1Sharon(f): 11:17pm On Sep 26, 2023

Jackiedemie:
Fornication is my Red flag

Same here. Heaven is the goal.

Re: What Is The Disadvantage Of Dating You by Nobody: 11:21pm On Sep 26, 2023

zoeymikey:

Come and date me oo.
We're compatible.

Hey...I like your down-to-earth comment to that guy.
Thanks for not having pride or ego.
You seem cheerful. cheesy

Wait...Was it not you I started following this morning...yes, it is you...I remembered the moniker

You're simple and just yourself, so far. That's if you're really a female and you're actually keeping it real and not faking it.

I hope you end up with a good guy that you'll fall in love with.

Re: What Is The Disadvantage Of Dating You by zoeymikey(f): 11:34pm On Sep 26, 2023

PaulOtl:

Hey...I like your down-to-earth comment to that guy.
Thanks for not having pride or ego.
You seem cheerful.

Wait...Was it not you I started following this morning...yes, it is you...I remembered the moniker
You're simple and just yourself, so far. That's if you're really a female and you're actually keeping it real and not faking it.
I hope you end up with a good guy that you'll fall in love with.

Awwwwwwnnnnn.
First of i'm a lady,,,,thanks for the sweet comment.
Am blushing pink.

Re: What Is The Disadvantage Of Dating You by Nobody: 11:34pm On Sep 26, 2023

UncleKoboko:
For me,

The best thing I can do is divide her bride price by her bodycount.
If her bride price is 100k and her bodycount is 10, I will only pay 100k/10 = 10k.
That's what she and her parents deserve for raising a shameless loose SLÚT.

Your last sentence is not fair at all to most parents. We all know how we kids can be. Parents have done what they felt was their best in training the female and male children they birthed.
Many still end up being wayward on their own, but pretend at home in the presence of their parents. So, it's not that they were raised by their parents to be sluts, video vixens, hookers, lesbian hookers, and any other female negative vices that you can think of that happens in this country. Parents cannot be everywhere to monitor their kids.

Reason why I'm so afraid of having children. The disgusting things that they could be doing behind my back is what makes me feel I am not one of the billions of humans who crave kids or fatherhood. Nah... I'm good without that. I just want companionship.
Glad there are white or foreign woman with this same mindset nowadays. I've seen a couple of them on reality shows , and even on social media sites.

Re: What Is The Disadvantage Of Dating You by Selloout: 11:45pm On Sep 26, 2023

DestinedForGrea:

How did you come out?

Mine was easy a bit because she cheated so I didn't feel terrible like that but I did everything you mentioned.

Re: What Is The Disadvantage Of Dating You by Nobody: 11:56pm On Sep 26, 2023

DrAda:
I get bored easily. I have unique thoughts on aliens, life, Christianity etc which I can't express fully because many may think that I am weird or worse mad.

LoooL...it's a good thing you have people (myself for instance) who are " weird " as you termed it, as you are. I'd always be willing to listen to you talk all day about those alien thoughts, angels , and the rest of them.

You just have to find someone who will be comfortable with it. But what are the odds of finding that per, right? IKR..can feel hopeless.

Re: What Is The Disadvantage Of Dating You by PrinceofAgoAre(m): 12:01am On Sep 27, 2023

Being broke ...

if that should be a disadvantage...

I just want my peace i don't want no stress..

so I practically avoid relationship except the girl doesn't mind ...

But they all do fvcking mind...

Re: What Is The Disadvantage Of Dating You by Nobody: 12:11am On Sep 27, 2023

UptownVibes:
I am very strict.. And if I am angry,and you no run,you fit collect easily..

Hahaha. What the hell is this? 😅😅🤣
Sir, you mean after she ran, to evade your anger and wrath, you'll still trail her and somehow make sure she "collects" (easily, for that matter ) Whatever the collecting may imply (hope it's not hitting, though)
You can ignore her all day long. Try not to ever go to bed without settling and laughing together over whatever it was. For tomorrow isn't guaranteed/promised. To avoid had-I-known...

Re: What Is The Disadvantage Of Dating You by Nobody: 12:12am On Sep 27, 2023

Lol.. I'm being entertained by this thread tonight. I can't even lie. grin

Lemme read some more before I clock out.

Re: What Is The Disadvantage Of Dating You by komzy589(m): 12:14am On Sep 27, 2023

mariahAngel:

Please, make effort to change and be better, if you plan to live with a woman in future.
It is not okay to just be like it's who I am without making effort to be better.

So being a ‘no nonsense’ person is not being a better person!
I should tolerate disorderly conducts and poor manners because I want to live with a woman.

Re: What Is The Disadvantage Of Dating You by mariahAngel(f): 12:21am On Sep 27, 2023

komzy589:

So being a ‘no nonsense’ person is not being a better person!
I should tolerate disorderly conducts and poor manners because I want to live with a woman.

It's not like that.
We all have our nonsenses. 😄
Now, if you can't tolerate anyone's nonsense, who's going to tolerate yours? 😀
Or do you plan to live by yourself?

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