No one is holier than thou, everyone get skeleton for cupboard. If you marry a Virgin, good for you and your spouse is not a Virgin, good for you. I do not expect most 30 years old in today's society to be virgin
What matters is that how long she or he is with you, they do not cheat and they were not on sex industry. Then do not expect to marry a virgin if you are also not a virgin

When I hear people put up the narrative of "don't expect to marry a virgin if you're not a virgin", I can't help but laugh at their naivety ...

It's just like telling a girl...
"Don't expect to marry a rich man, if you're not rich" or "don't expect to marry a tall man if you're short" ...

Does that hold water? ...


Lemme educate you a little bit OP ...
Men and women want different things in the opposite s.ex...

Women in general want men that are taller, richer and more powerful than them ...

Men on the other hand want women that are loyal and chaste ...

So allow everyone go for what they want! ...
Since women can be broke and wretched and still want a rich man to bring them and their family out of poverty ...

((Some of them even bash men who are doing better than their fathers sef ...))

Allow the men also to sleep around and still want virgin wives and if the men bash the wh.ores in the process, LET THEM! ...


I'll start taking post like yours serious when y'all start pushing the alternate narrative as vehemently as you push this ...

Until then, let's all just keep being unrealistic ...