I was chatting with a Nigerian lady with kids recently as she just relocated to Canada and she told me she joined a dating platform to get proof of her husbands infidelity.
I couldn't just wrap my head about this disclosure.
She said her friend saw her husband on the dating site so she had to join the dating site to get proof that her husband is using the site.
This abroad relocation people are into nowadays will certainly destroy several marriages as the foreign culture is different from the African culture and a clash of cultures will end most marriages.My opinion though.

When her husband’s friends tell him that they saw his wife on a dating website, and he registers to catch her in the act, who will settle their matter

Silly excuse to get laid with another pipe.

Why cheat just focus on your marriage. Unless the man is not happy and divorce is too expensive.

guobe:
I was chatting with a Nigerian lady with kids recently as she just relocated to Canada and she told me she joined a dating platform to get proof of her husbands infidelity.
I couldn't just wrap my head about this disclosure.
She said her friend saw her husband on the dating site so she had to join the dating site to get proof that her husband is using the site.
This abroad relocation people are into nowadays will certainly destroy several marriages as the foreign culture is different from the African culture and a clash of cultures will end most marriages.My opinion though.

There are many succeeding families outside Nigeria but you would not hear about them, only the few stormy homes we hear about everyday cos the empty barrels make the loudest noise.

A home that can break in Canada will break in Nigeria.

She said her friend saw her husband on the dating site so she had to join the dating site to get proof that her husband is using the site.

Or perhaps, she's searching for proof to send him home, render him homeless or mess him up?

Brandiebird:
When her husband’s friends tell him that they saw his wife on a dating website, and he registers to catch her in the act, who will settle their matter

Her husband already knows as she used his email as recovery.
It is currently causing a huge crisis

qtguru:
Why cheat just focus on your marriage. Unless the man is not happy and divorce is too expensive.

Does that warrant t the woman joining a dating platform

Amotolongbo:
There are many succeeding families outside Nigeria but you would not hear about them, only the few stormy homes we hear about everyday cos the empty barrels make the loudest noise.

A home that can break in Canada will break in Nigeria.

Yes there are but it is becoming rampant how some Nigerian ladies are frustrating their husbands abroad.

guobe:

Does that warrant t the woman joining a dating platform

How else will she get proof ?

qtguru:


How else will she get proof ?

Proof of what?If you suspect your husband tell him that he is on a dating site and not by joining that dating site.Its obvious you are a female bearing male moniker.

guobe:
Its obvious you are a female bearing male moniker.

He’s actually a well known and respected male NLer.

guobe:

Proof of what?If you suspect your husband tell him that he is on a dating site and not by joining that dating site.Its obvious you are a female bearing male moniker.

The logic makes no sense, what If i lie to my wife ? you're the naive one so it seems, the last person to meet for information is the culprit.

guobe:

Proof of what?If you suspect your husband tell him that he is on a dating site and not by joining that dating site.Its obvious you are a female bearing male moniker.

Men dey prepared to cook you for that statement.

akwesenana:
Men dey prepared to cook you for that statement.

Lol but na true na.

qtguru:


The logic makes no sense, what If i lie to my wife ? you're the naive one so it seems, the last person to meet for information is the culprit.

If you lie to your wife then certainly you will fail a lie detector test.
Also she could have told that her friend that saw the husband in the site to give her screenshot of the husbands pictures in the site.

guobe:

Lol but na true na.

Everybody know qt as male. Angry one.

ItisWell22:


He’s actually a well known and respected male NLer.

For real and supporting a married woman that joined a dating platform. It does not add up.

Balance me here real quick, does the African culture permits a married man to register on a dating site? The same dating site that was created by the westerners and regarded as a foreign culture?

guobe:
I was chatting with a Nigerian lady with kids recently as she just relocated to Canada and she told me she joined a dating platform to get proof of her husbands infidelity.
I couldn't just wrap my head about this disclosure.
She said her friend saw her husband on the dating site so she had to join the dating site to get proof that her husband is using the site.
This abroad relocation people are into nowadays will certainly destroy several marriages as the foreign culture is different from the African culture and a clash of cultures will end most marriages.My opinion though.

Samantha124:
Balance me here real quick, does the African culture permits a married man to register on a dating site? The same dating site that was created by the westerners and regarded as a foreign culture?

I don't condone a married man joining a dating site but the woman does not have to join a dating site to prove that her husband is unfaithful.
In Africa it is not done but white people do it alot and our African women going there are copying them.
A married woman joining a dating site can be used against her as she will explain tire no evidence.

A lot of women do same. They usually register anonymously, no real picture or name. They may even state they aren’t looking to date on their profile. Just like marriage, cheating is universal. It happens everywhere.

Why are you focused on her when the man was caught on the site? An eye for an eye can leave everyone blind but there’s satisfaction in blinding the person who blinded you. A little evil for evil can gratify the soul.

guobe:

If you lie to your wife then certainly you will fail a lie detector test.
Also she could have told that her friend that saw the husband in the site to give her screenshot of the husbands pictures in the site.

May you not meet manipulators.

eazzzy1:
A lot of women do same. They usually register anonymously, no real picture or name. They may even state they aren’t looking to date on their profile. Just like marriage, cheating is universal. It happens everywhere.

Why are you focused on her when the man was caught on the site? An eye for an eye can leave everyone blind but there’s satisfaction in blinding the person who blinded you. A little evil for evil can gratify the soul.

That western way of living is what will crash the marriages of most Africans travelling abroad.
Alot of their parents went through worse situation but endured and came out better.
You can always dialogue than going for the eye for an eye.

Ih

But the man also copied those foreign men by joining a dating site, which is not good for his marriage... His wife wouldn't have joined in the first place if it wasn't for him.

And the woman is no longer in Africa, therefore, she doesn't have to worry about these African hypocrites... She can even get herself a European side dude and no one will know...

guobe:

I don't condone a married man joining a dating site but the woman does not have to join a dating site to prove that her husband is unfaithful.
In Africa it is not done but white people do it alot and our African women going there are copying them.
A married woman joining a dating site can be used against her as she will explain tire no evidence.

guobe:

Her husband already knows as she used her email as recovery.
It is currently causing a huge crisis

My point is her friends could be lying to her and she will explain tire because she has no evidence when the shi hits the fan 🤣🤣🤣

Samantha124:
But the man also copied those foreign men by joining a dating site, which is not good for his marriage... His wife wouldn't have joined in the first place if it wasn't for him.

And the woman is no longer in Africa, therefore, she doesn't have to worry about these African hypocrites... She can even get herself a European
side dude and no one will know...

Lol Samantha southAfrican big girl.

Brandiebird:


My point is her friends could be lying to her and she will explain tire because she has no evidence when the shi hits the fan 🤣🤣🤣

True word there.lol

Big girl? How am I a big girl

guobe:

Lol Samantha southAfrican big girl.

Samantha124:
Big girl? How am I a big girl

South African girls are classy.I went on a study tour of South Africa recently and in the hotel I stayed the receptionist there were driving very new right handed cars.You guys have a good economy compared to the rest of Africa.

I wouldn't say it's good, but it's trying.

guobe:

South African girls are classy.I went on a study tour of Soyth Africa recently and in the hotel I stayed the receptionist there were driving very new right handed cars.You guys have a good economy compared to the rest of Africa.

Samantha124:
I wouldn't say it's good, but it's trying.

Yep better than the rest of Africa