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Why Men Don't Tell Their Spouse About Their Real Salary by OkwuMajesty: 11:14pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
In my quest to become a better man, and also been told in church never to hide anything from my partner, I started asking some questions like even if I shouldn't hide anything from my partner what about my salary? Should I tell her how much am being paid? A friend of mine shared his opinion and according to him ''Pls whatever you do Never tell a woman your Real salary,They respect Once she knows your full worth and weighs it You lose respect Remain mysterious about your finances with a woman no matter how love enter your eyes'' How real is this advice and what do you think please? |
Re: Why Men Don't Tell Their Spouse About Their Real Salary by chatinent: 11:42pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Whether you say your real worth or not, when see finish comes bro, you can't escape it. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Men Don't Tell Their Spouse About Their Real Salary by Ragnall: 1:49am On Sep 30, 2023 |
Because your money is also her money but her money is only her money 2 Likes |
Re: Why Men Don't Tell Their Spouse About Their Real Salary by Nebes: 7:27am On Sep 30, 2023 |
If she knows, she will not rest till it finishes. After it finishes, she will ask you what you did with the salary she finished. 8 Likes |
Re: Why Men Don't Tell Their Spouse About Their Real Salary by JohnnA1: 9:33am On Sep 30, 2023 |
Because most women (particularly our Nigerian women) would start internally, subconsciously calculating how to SPEND the man's money on liabilities rather than on how to SAVE and INVEST the money in assets. |
Re: Why Men Don't Tell Their Spouse About Their Real Salary by eclatante: 11:27am On Sep 30, 2023 |
JohnnA1: Flesh and blood didn't reveal this to you. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Men Don't Tell Their Spouse About Their Real Salary by CJStarz: 6:40pm On Sep 30, 2023 |
Follow your friend's advice, take it from me. That wouldn't stop you from shouldering your responsibilities! OkwuMajesty: |
Re: Why Men Don't Tell Their Spouse About Their Real Salary by Basic123: 8:51pm On Sep 30, 2023 |
OkwuMajesty:As an husband of 8years. Your friend is making big sense. I gained more respect from my wife after I stopped disclosing my incomes and expenditure to her. I only give her what she wants nothing more.Even when I spend on my extended family, she doesn't know now and I used to inform her. I learnt my lesson when I noticed she didn't rate me at all and she doesn't disclose her own worth to me.As at the time I realized that,I looked like a FOOL. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Men Don't Tell Their Spouse About Their Real Salary by Basic123: 8:53pm On Sep 30, 2023 |
Nebes:I tell you. That statement alway make me angry. Before I changed,if I tell her that I don't have enough, the next question will be,how did you spend it. 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Don't Tell Their Spouse About Their Real Salary by OkwuMajesty: 9:49am On Oct 01, 2023 |
Basic123: Wow thanks |
Re: Why Men Don't Tell Their Spouse About Their Real Salary by OkwuMajesty: 9:50am On Oct 01, 2023 |
Basic123: Seriously 😂 |
Re: Why Men Don't Tell Their Spouse About Their Real Salary by OkwuMajesty: 9:50am On Oct 01, 2023 |
CJStarz: Okay 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Don't Tell Their Spouse About Their Real Salary by OkwuMajesty: 9:51am On Oct 01, 2023 |
JohnnA1: You make a lot of sense here ☺️ thanks 1 Like |
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