How Long Guy?
My girlfriend says she wants to reduce everything between us,no kiss, no romance etc.

She isn't doing this cos doesn't love me anymore. She claims that she just want to be care, as in pregnancy level. . . At one point, the whole thing was moving so fast.

Its been over a month now and she hardly call me. I do most of the calling. She's quite a busy lady and works Monday through Sunday due to church activities coupled with work.

One day she said what will happen if does not call me for a month or two, hope I wont be angry.

I said no. . . But not really.

Since she uttered that word, I felt she probably think I don't have better things to do with My time or maybe I am becoming too nice.

So ,today, no flash or call from my end and I am going to keep it that way till calls me. Infact, I developed a method that will enable me achieve this.

I love her like crazy . . . You Naija chicks don't like guys who are crazy over them, the nice once and thats why I am going to hide my feelings henceforth. She loves me too but just want reduce the rate at which the whole thing was moving.

I will not call her for a month.
How long can you stay without communicating with your girlfriend or boyfriend

@op, i want to believe you made this post in a utter confused or rushy manner. Nonetheless, the little i was able to piece together from your post will generate the following response from me;
1. There are no universal principles guiding every human relationships. Its a case of one against many. Smiley
2. You made a mistake (well, from my own experience) by letting your girl know the extent of your feelings for you. Most guys suck in this regard. You never let a woman know the extent of what you feel for her. You only let it out in piece-meal.
3. Communication is a two-way affair. It must be done mutually with no party feeling hushed in the process. However, experience has it that, the party that loves the most does the higher portion of the communication bargain. THIS sucks! Embarrassed This is the case with you. Otherwise, no sane girl will tell her b/f she wont call for a month. Undecided
4. Take time to evaluate your love life occasionally. You never can tell the extent such procedure could go for you.
5. Always take charge of your relationship; be you a man or woman. Lay the rules that benefit you the most. Apply a utilitarian approach to life!

@mcleo007 you have said it all, no girl that is truely in love will tell her guy she won't call for a month, communication is one of the important aspect of a relationship, just staying a few hour without calln is like something is missing, and the absence of communication could bring distrust. I will say, you check this girl of yours, she could be up to another relationship n probably deosn't want you to get in the way.

I have never tried it. We speak to each other often, more than 5 times on daily basis

i feel u. . . I mite follow ur footsteps (n even go an extra gear).

@ op
Two wrongs dont make a right.