Am currently in a relationship with a 31yr old lady for about 2 month now.
She want to buy iPhone 12pro max and she doesn't have the total money.
She has being complaining about how her phone (techno phantom) isn't good enough for pictures and videos bla bla bla from the time we met.

In my last relationship I actually helped my ex get iPhone Xsmas, she didn't have the total money aswell and I added about 55k to get it for her which I later regret with every blood in me and now the same scenario is happening again.

I actually advise her to get a lesser iPhone which her money can buy but she is adamant she want iPhone 12promax just to show off to other ladies in her office.

She expecting me to help her get the phone and add the remaining balance.
From my calculations she is about 70k-80k short of the money to get the phone and honestly I don't have a dime to give cos only a foolish idiot will make the same mistake thrice.

She emotionally blackmailing me and I can't take it anymore.......at 31yrs I expect more understanding and more important priorities.

Before I give my advice , tell me how the last case ended . Inflation don make advice don cost dis days o.

hmmm

Kasdat5:
Before I give my advice , tell me how the last case ended . Inflation don make advice don cost dis days o.

Bro...... came back from church one Sunday and met an empty kitchen with some of my properties gone.

Godoverevery:
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She emotionally blackmailing me and I can't take it anymore.......at 31yrs I expect more understanding and more important priorities.

Lol .... Person wey wan buy 500k -700k phone wey come need another person 80k to make am complete is obviously not thinking straight , is greedy, inconsiderate, an exploiter, and has not gotten her priorities in life sorted

Make I even clear you... una plenty wey dey pay for that phone .....

Na small things like this be red flag..... but una go just dey see am as normal woman billings..


No need to pretend....tell am say if she nor fit buy lesser phone make she dey use her old phone till she get money....

If she want to end things with you because of the phone, let her go..

Godoverevery:


Bro...... came back from church one Sunday and met an empty kitchen with some of my properties gone.

I have read that part already . I wanted to know if you retrieved your properties . I'd suggest you stab any plan is funding her phone purchase , except y'all on same placed priorities which I know you not . If she's using the said phone to make money plz send her the money asap, else , dust you shoes & flee from that leech. She has nothing good to offer you , a girl of 31 .. hmmmm

advanceDNA:


Lol .... Person wey wan buy 500k -700k phone wey come need another person 80k to make am complete is obviously not thinking straight , is greedy, inconsiderate, an exploiter, and has not gotten her priorities in life sorted

Make I even clear you... una plenty wey dey pay for that phone .....

Na small things like this be red flag..... but una go just dey see am as normal woman billings..


No need to pretend....tell am say if she nor fit buy lesser phone make she dey use her old phone till she get money....

Sometimes I just feel maybe serious relationship/marriage isn't for me.

Am using uk used 90k Samsung phone and someone am earning more than want to be using 300k and above phone.

Like is it that most of them don't think.

My ex that got the iPhone XsMas used that phone just to show of.......she does absolutely nothing with that phone other than to play game.

Kasdat5:


I have read that part already . I wanted to know if you retrieved your properties . I'd suggest you stab any plan is funding her phone purchase , except y'all on same placed priorities which I know you not . If she's using the said phone to make money plz send her the money asap, else , dust you shoes & flee from that leech. She has nothing good to offer you , a girl of 31 .. hmmmm

I didn't retrieve anything bro.......

This one just want to use the phone to show off in her office and make useless TikTok videos.

She said some people are oppressing her at work with good phone.

Godoverevery:


I didn't retrieve anything bro.......

This one just want to use the phone to show off in her office and make useless TikTok videos.

She said some people are oppressing her at work with good phone.

God will replenish all that you have lost . A lady of 31 , oppressed because of iphone . Are you sure she's not 21 ??

Godoverevery:


Sometimes I just feel maybe serious relationship/marriage isn't for me.

Am using uk used 90k Samsung phone and someone am earning more than want to be using 300k and above phone.

Like is it that most of them don't think.

My ex that got the iPhone XsMas used that phone just to show of.......she does absolutely nothing with that phone other than to play game.

Oh..u even use a 90k phone??.....hahahahaha she obviously doesn't give a fvck... Na baddie u dey follow roll...

Of course they don't think.... Why would they bother to think when they want to spend money they didn't work for.

Women are very smart ...they understand money is hard to see and will hardlly spend their hard earned money on phones, wigs and the likes

The day babe tell me make i give am 60k make she for add by wig....I tell am I nor get for now...the wéréy tell me say make she lend me the 60k now..say when I collect salary I go pay am back....Na that day I don understand how these modern babes dey reason....

Baba..just relax ...u go meet better woman ...Dem not too plenty oooo ..but if you no too focus on big yansh, bobbiii, olosho vibes, artificial beauty with bucket of paint for face, u go jam better woman

Tell her that you don't have any money to spare and if she still tries to emotionally blackmail you or make a fuss out of things, DUMP HER!!!!!!! ...

If at that age, she still can't set her priorities straight, then it's proof that she's not mature enough to consider doing life with, LEAVE HER! ...

Fahvvy:
Tell her that you don't have any money to spare and if she still tries to emotionally blackmail you or make a fuss out of things, DUMP HER!!!!!!! ...

If at that age, she still can't set her priorities straight, then it's proof that she's not mature enough to consider doing life with, LEAVE HER! ...

Would have ghost her but I met her through a senior bros.

She happens to be the man niece so I just want to end things nicely.

you simped the first time, you're also considering simping for the second time... without seeking for advice, don't you know what should be done or isn't the first experience enough lesson to you? why are men suddenly so weak? a woman like that shouldn't even be considered for anything serious...

a woman at 31 that still habours that mentality obviously isn't for a serious commitment and I don't even think you have your life together and yet you're dating a leech that doesn't even let you sleep at night... I can't just get my head around that..

Did you promise her before?

I love guys that are making their women happy no matter how difficult it looks. OP send me your aza so that I send the 80k to you. Pls dont tell her that your gf gave you

Godoverevery:
Am currently in a relationship with a 31yr old lady for about 2 month now.
She want to buy iPhone 12pro max and she doesn't have the total money.
She has being complaining about how her phone (techno phantom) isn't good enough for pictures and videos bla bla bla from the time we met.

In my last relationship I actually helped my ex get iPhone Xsmas, she didn't have the total money aswell and I added about 55k to get it for her which I later regret with every blood in me and now the same scenario is happening again.

I actually advise her to get a lesser iPhone which her money can buy but she is adamant she want iPhone 12promax just to show off to other ladies in her office.

She expecting me to help her get the phone and add the remaining balance.
From my calculations she is about 70k-80k short of the money to get the phone and honestly I don't have a dime to give cos only a foolish idiot will make the same mistake thrice.

She emotionally blackmailing me and I can't take it anymore.......at 31yrs I expect more understanding and more important priorities.

Na so my ex babe when she hear say i wan collect ajoo money of 800k she begin talk of iphone of 350k

Omo men de fall victim oo , many of those girls are theives wey no de use Gun, all in the name of you want get girl friend, you want to get married.

Godoverevery:


Bro...... came back from church one Sunday and met an empty kitchen with some of my properties gone.

scoobyblogspot:


Na so my ex babe when she hear say i wan collect ajoo money of 800k she begin talk of iphone of 350k

Am just tired honestly.

bendaniel1616:
Omo men de fall victim oo , many of those girls are theives wey no de use Gun, all in the name of you want get girl friend, you want to get married.

I think the best thing is to stop stating i want something serious anymore....they are actually preying on me wanting to settle down.

I never experienced all this when I was doing flirting relationship.


Most working class ladies aren't different jare..

These stories should be on crime sections so we could get people to arrest them & probably jail them for a long time

Wehdone oh

Sometimes I wonder wetin some ladies dey use hook some guys.

Person wey dey 31yrs wey suppose dey plan how she go take settle down still dey reason to show off with iPhone.

Nigga.....kindly let go off that lady....she is not worth ur time or attention.

Some ladies and their entitlement mentality...well,I no blame them.

Na some guys wey dey mumu around them

Godoverevery:


Would have ghost her but I met her through a senior bros.

She happens to be the man niece so I just want to end things nicely.

Oga it doesn't matter! ...

Any girl that isn't understanding and tries to emotionally manipulate you into doing something you don't want to do is bad for you ...

And so you must cut them off asap! ...

Their very presence is bad for your mental health ...

But if you think your mental health is worth risking because you met her through a senior boss, then that's on you ...

Kasdat5:


God will replenish all that you have lost . A lady of 31 , oppressed because of iphone . Are you sure she's not 21 ??

Exactly my thought sir. What a childish mentality!

Op move this topic to crime section first.

Say no more, just breakup and save urself the stress [Qquote author=Godoverevery post=126312475]Am currently in a relationship with a 31yr old lady for about 2 month now.
She want to buy iPhone 12pro max and she doesn't have the total money.
She has being complaining about how her phone (techno phantom) isn't good enough for pictures and videos bla bla bla from the time we met.

In my last relationship I actually helped my ex get iPhone Xsmas, she didn't have the total money aswell and I added about 55k to get it for her which I later regret with every blood in me and now the same scenario is happening again.

I actually advise her to get a lesser iPhone which her money can buy but she is adamant she want iPhone 12promax just to show off to other ladies in her office.

She expecting me to help her get the phone and add the remaining balance.
From my calculations she is about 70k-80k short of the money to get the phone and honestly I don't have a dime to give cos only a foolish idiot will make the same mistake thrice.

She emotionally blackmailing me and I can't take it anymore.......at 31yrs I expect more understanding and more important priorities.


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Oh boy! It's not good to be broke oh. It's common 70-80k you cannot give to a girlfriend in whose kpekus you swim everyday!
My friend do the needful and show her love.
Give her 100k jarey. After all you've been fvcking free of charge for the past two months.
I pity ladies sha.
OR..
Send me her number let me arrange a 100k hook-up deal with her.

Evening newspaper can never have sense and dey will never have Sense.

My guy, use brain collect all the money she has saved, and use it to flex your guys while promising her!

All my relationships, I always make it clear from the beginning that I work as a grass cutter in my company. The ones wey go stay, their billing no dey pass 2k.

Go check ur star abeg.

I hope say you no dey among men that are destined to slave for ladies with nothing to show for it at d end..

Learn to say NO and stand by it !

scoobyblogspot:


Na so my ex babe when she hear say i wan collect ajoo money of 800k she begin talk of iphone of 350k

She dey met

tafabaloo:
Go check ur star abeg.

I hope say you no dey among men that are destined to slave for ladies with nothing to show for it at d end..

Learn to say NO and stand by it !

How do you check star? I’m curios.