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Married Ladies N Men Ow Can U Bring A Sy Fiancee Out Of Is Sell by Nobody: 3:38pm On Oct 24, 2011 |
i understand d fact dat everyone as their individualistic nature n temprament but my fiancee is extremely shy,quiet,introverted n reserved while am d hapy go sanguine lady,he's d melancoly guy.he's everytin i want in a man tho.he's loving,respectful,ard working n caring to my parents,very generous.no mata how bad tins gets,he stil goes out of is way to give.my parents,particularly my dad likes him a lot but wat i fear is dat ow do i cope wen we get married cos a lot of tyms i put in so much effort to make him talk n bring him out of is shell.sometyms i get scared bout bin married but lonely wen i get married.please nairalanders how do i make my courtship n consequently marriage a fulfilling one witout changing his personality.one more tin,please be kind when relying.i dont nid sarcastic,rude n insultive remarks n as much as possible i dont nid advice from teenagers or skul cildren |
Re: Married Ladies N Men Ow Can U Bring A Sy Fiancee Out Of Is Sell by Nobody: 3:42pm On Oct 24, 2011 |
sory nls my h key pad on my laptop is nt workin wel.pardon me.tank u |
Re: Married Ladies N Men Ow Can U Bring A Sy Fiancee Out Of Is Sell by afrobaby(f): 3:52pm On Oct 24, 2011 |
It is always good when two people in a relationship have different characters, when one is an extrovert, let the other be an introvert, it always works best, but the most important thing in relationship is compatibility, do u guys actually understand each other, and even despite the fact that he is shy, do u feel comfortable around him,does he laugh at ur jokes, Whta i think u should do is, try find his area of interest, what does he like discussing, no matter how shy he is, he will still have things that can make him talk and draw him out of his shell to talk, but dont ever think u can change him cos it may have an adverse effect. |
Re: Married Ladies N Men Ow Can U Bring A Sy Fiancee Out Of Is Sell by Nobody: 4:01pm On Oct 24, 2011 |
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Re: Married Ladies N Men Ow Can U Bring A Sy Fiancee Out Of Is Sell by MissIfe(f): 4:32pm On Oct 24, 2011 |
It is not easy to make a decision when it comes to such aspects of a relationship, but you have to keep in mind that despite what we might think at first, this can become a major issue in a marriage. As CC said, communication, the ability to communicate spontaneously, without having to put in extra efforts to get him to talk, express his feelings/opinions is a major key to a successful marriage. I was in your shoes when I met my husband and I decided to overlook that aspect of his character, considering it was not that important and that we'd find ways to improve our communication, since we loved each other. I can't say it was a major mistake, since he has many other qualities, but if love made us go the extra mile at the beginning, as years go by, it becomes more and more difficult to always have to change your spontaneous way of communicating just to get your point across to your partner. I'm telling you, sincerely, even though we have some good times when we talk easily, on a daily basis I don't communicate with him much (if not at all) because I am tired of having to go through the trouble of catching his attention/making him talk. Well, I guess we all have things we have to put up with in a relationship, and as CC said, no one is perfect, so you have to choose carefully which sacrifice you are ready to make for the rest of your life. |
Re: Married Ladies N Men Ow Can U Bring A Sy Fiancee Out Of Is Sell by Nobody: 4:44pm On Oct 24, 2011 |
our communication is great to a large extent.we talk bout real issues dat affect us n our day to day issues wit colleagues,bosses,jnr ones n oda domestic issues to.wen is angry or bodad bout a certain issue affectin me,im n all he tells me upfront.we disagree to agree n one basic tin i also thank God 4 is dat e doesnt let d sun go down in his anger or wen we av disagreement.e's still d first person to call me ova d fone n say ow r u baby.he's nt pretentious n he doesnt know how to kip is filins inside, tanks y'all 4 d advise.ill work on dat but i must confess dat bin in a relationshp aint easy at all.it has its fair share of good n bad moments |
Re: Married Ladies N Men Ow Can U Bring A Sy Fiancee Out Of Is Sell by Busybody2(f): 8:27pm On Oct 24, 2011 |
kulyie: Stop lying dia, do you z |
Re: Married Ladies N Men Ow Can U Bring A Sy Fiancee Out Of Is Sell by Nobody: 7:37am On Oct 25, 2011 |
busy body i dont nid lousy n rude people around my thread.if u dont av any useful thing to contribute,scram.meanwile i've gotten advice i nid |
Re: Married Ladies N Men Ow Can U Bring A Sy Fiancee Out Of Is Sell by babyboom(f): 9:22am On Oct 25, 2011 |
@ kulyie, dont worry yourself, you two will definitely rub-off on urselves. i.e. u both will have a equilibrium, as in u getting a bit gentle and he getting a bit outgoing. B4 i got married, he was so shy that he cud not look into my eyes, but u need to see him now, It will be fun, so enjoy it my dear. |
Re: Married Ladies N Men Ow Can U Bring A Sy Fiancee Out Of Is Sell by Nobody: 10:21am On Oct 25, 2011 |
looooollllllllllll thaks baby boom n all .dat is so encouraging .am hapy now n feel relieved. |
Re: Married Ladies N Men Ow Can U Bring A Sy Fiancee Out Of Is Sell by Nobody: 7:53pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
Kulyie please cool down. BB was only pulling your leg |
Re: Married Ladies N Men Ow Can U Bring A Sy Fiancee Out Of Is Sell by Busybody2(f): 7:49pm On Oct 26, 2011 |
chaircover: Oh, what am I now gonna do with the tankerload of kerosene i brought along to erm . . . pacify kulyie's hot head na kulyie: Sorry oh, why don't you kuku let me help you carry your thread ontop ya head then Na wetin sef, shebi you said you have gotten the answer you need, so it is no longer your thread, so i refuse to scram [s]Chei, see my life, i don turn to Jennykadry wey dem dey carry cane chase commot for thread I miss Monicaa [/s] |
Re: Married Ladies N Men Ow Can U Bring A Sy Fiancee Out Of Is Sell by Busybody2(f): 8:05pm On Oct 26, 2011 |
Oya kulyie, here is some homework for you, its a few threads about shy partners, hope you can learn a thing or two from them as well https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-26270.0.html https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-460811.0.html#msg6189913 https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-2628.0.html |
Re: Married Ladies N Men Ow Can U Bring A Sy Fiancee Out Of Is Sell by Nobody: 10:16pm On Oct 26, 2011 |
busy body ure so hilarious.thanks 4 amusing me.u actually made my day,especialy afta d stress of comin out of lagos traffic ome.wot can i do witout nairalanders |
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