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Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by udemzyudex(m): 12:08pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
Impatient, that's all i see. |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by YesDaddy1: 12:08pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
''Being happy is not an achievement...'' Hello?? If u have all those things u listed: money, assets, standard of living etc and u are depressed or sick, u go know what happiness means. Obviously u are still a yungin.....at least in mind. Puss360: |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by LivingSage: 12:10pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
What's your plan Getting man isn't her problem, she's only focus/fixated with the negative aspect of relationship. Why do you think she'll even like random guy like you, THAT'S EVEN IF YOU HAVE PURE INTENTION vikkogg: |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by Dzzzz: 12:10pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
Marriage is not for everybody..I don’t even think I can get married but baby mama is alright tho..If my babe sef stay 1week with me Na to find excuse pursue her..Now marriage for life,haba.I no sure that can work.. |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by Jughead29: 12:12pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
Getting married is purely a grace from God. If everyone decided not to marry you wouldn't have been born.... The same is instituted by God for reproduction and a woman having a crown over her head. If you had committed it to God's hands... you would have found a better suitor. Mind you, it's not a bed of roses..... Every woman must be ready to bear it, starting small with a man to become great. From the Bible, a woman was created to be a help need for man..... What makes you think a man must provide everything for you??.... Every single women today have one problem in common... (They need a man who can provide everything for them) Whereas, the devil will use financial problems to make your crown looks like a broke ass, like you girls will say.... whereas he only needs your support to become the real man he was destined to be. My advice : its not too late... commit it to the hand of God for 30days..... you'll see God's plan for you... 2 Likes |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by AgentGoat: 12:13pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
I wish you well. |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by youngestgrad(m): 12:13pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3:I don't have a problem with you being a spinster at 42 but I have a problem with you condemning the institution of marriage and saying wild generalizations like married men are dumping their families. Stop trying to console yourself by imagining that all married people are unhappy and you are better off. THAT IS A BIG LIE!! 8 Likes |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by linearity: 12:15pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
Abagworo: Here are mine thinking that, I am the only one that have this mindset. Only God is capable of love, anyone that say they love someone in my books are committing sacrilege. What we humans call love is actually LIKE, like @ jewessgratitud3 stated, she is looking for her ‘spec’, her spec is the person that checks most of the boxes in her laundry list of ‘what it is to be a good man’. Every lady have this list and they defer one from the another, guys also have this list….and when we find the person that checked the most boxes, we say we are in ‘love’ no you are not in love, you just found someone that checked off most of your list. If you settled with your supposed lover now, the truth is, tomorrow you can still walk into someone that checked more of your boxes or your current lover can even uncheck some of the boxes that were previously checked with time as a result of nature, age, circumstances, etc, so what do you do when that happens? God is love and loves us unconditionally and He is the only one capable of love…at our best, we can only love conditionally and conditional love is LIKE because it is based on existing conditions that may or may not be there tomorrow. Come to think of it, we even loved God conditionally talkless of our fellow human beings.. We loved him because He first loved us and gave His Son to die for our sins….if not for that sacrifice, we wouldn’t have loved God….therefore we don’t even love God, we only LIKED Him because He sent His Son to died for us, we liked Him because He will protect us, we liked Him because He will take us to heaven with mansions, we like Him because He forgives our sins, the boxes goes on and on. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by LivingSage: 12:16pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
I'll still implore you stop focusing on the negative aspect and tolerate fair suitor, get married BECAUSE WE CAN'T BE 100%. Get married and have your own kids. If you were okay with it now, consider old age. Jewessgratitud3: |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by Grandlord: 12:16pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3:I love this post. You are a free bird just like me. I'm a renegade when it comes to following certain cultural 'norms' Stay free and do whatever makes you happy. That's the most important thing in life. People take things too seriously but for real, nothing really dey this life like this. Bless you🙂 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by LivingSage: 12:18pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
You may be wrong because u can't detect her age from mere look, she's way younger than her age 3ice9ce: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by siofra(f): 12:19pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
I don't know why but your story is hilarious 😂 You write in a funny way. Carry go OP, nothing do you♥️ You look very young too, like you're in your late twenties. This is the path I want to take too. I'm not interested in getting married. I'm going to focus on me and build myself because I'm all I have in this world. May the odds be in my favor. Amen. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by 3ice9ce: 12:20pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3: You're a loser with nothing to show for your existence apart from a protruding tummy which is a symbol of your gluttony. One day, you will want to play with your siblings' children and their parents will fabricate reasons to keep them away from you. You will remember this post that day. 9 Likes |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by tete7000(m): 12:21pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3: I am glad you said you are a Catholic, I am too and it gladdens me when I see those who struggle to live their faith, it can be quite tough in the modern age. However, there is one thing I wish to draw your attention to, irrespective of what it looks out there, we must loose on the virtue of faith and hope. What the mother Church teaches is that we don't focus on our on strength and weakness, we must never be deter by what our eyes perceive around us, God always come through for those who loves him and walk according to his purposes. Whatsoever you desire, put it in prayer and leave God to fanthom out the way to make it come true. Stop allowing the sight of the negativity around you overshadow your eyes of faith...Goodluck to you. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by Britishpea: 12:22pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
Going by your word about your oil company bf “ he went to meet a lady, to do nonsense because his thing was up when he left and by the time he came back his thing has gone down” Are you kidding me?? You expect his “thing” to be up forever? I can’t imagine what you look like. See your better off single. If you get married Na you go destroy am. 5 Likes |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by BigBashiru: 12:22pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
franchasofficia:This is the second post on this thread I am learning a lot from....especially your last sentence... I have a lot of work to do in that regard... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by Godsonkemz(m): 12:23pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
I've never seen a courageous woman like you. I like your boldness and unwillingness to compromise your standard or thinking of having child outside wedlock. May your partner locate you this year and may you not be careless to lose him when he comes. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by Aaaaarghmed(m): 12:24pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
Nice story,life is all about choices.only you knows what will make you happy and it is not dependent on marriage. For me,I will like to have like 2 kids.but marriage.. I don't tink I can stay In the same house with a woman because I dont have patience to tolerate their issues.I was almost dating a lady of your age too early this year but what baffled me was that ,there was no aspect of her life that is functioning well,she was 43,no husband, no kids,no job,no house,staying in church house.it was weird to me because at least she should be doing something,so I just blanked her.i cant deal with a liability at my stage now.beem there,done that.All the best in pursuit of happiness. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by akaahs(m): 12:25pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3:I no come understand ur story. U come later change church? Because that aspect of only meeting in church dey make doubt the story |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by sambright2012: 12:25pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
I just checked your profile, you are mostly active on family section, romance section and crime section Why? Psychologically you are suffering and you need a family of your own, you need a romantic life before you comit suicide (crime) Forget about the economy, accept that man and work out things with him . You are not fulfilling the will of God, and you are disobeying God . Repent, get married, contribute your quota to existence. 1 Like |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by BigBashiru: 12:28pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
siofra:Congrats on deciding to take the less travelled path. Do not let anyone force you into becoming a mother if you are not so inclined....not every woman is meant to be a mother... But be aware of its adverse consequences like loneliness in old age etc... 4 Likes |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by dauntless15(m): 12:28pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
Someone that is past her prime is still feeling cocky, you're almost 50, lonely, sad, bae-less and bragging, I pity you, menopause soon and you go be granny, dey play, wey girls plenty like sand this ngbeke is feeling funky. 5 Likes |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by Kajaard: 12:29pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
MaverickA3: Lol 🤣😂🤣 |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by casualobserver: 12:29pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
That this woman feels a need a come and tell her story just says deep down she is not happy. Misery loves company. If you are truly happy with yourself you don’t need to explain yourself to anyone talk less strangers. Freud the renowned psychologist will probably say this is her way of coming to terms with her reality. It is like a man coming to the internet to tell us why he is happy being poor. Yeah right. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by Dougad: 12:32pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
franchasofficia: You spoke facts!! Wish it was possible to bookmark posts on this site, would have done it. So many people including the OP needs to read it. 2 Likes |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by Dopenigga(m): 12:32pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
You still dey break up with man because you caught him with another girl? . Omo, you go single tire o. Just turn reverend sister 5 Likes |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by OZIOGU1: 12:40pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
Your problem is pride, combine with village and city people 5 Likes |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by 90dbest: 12:41pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
Britishpea:This na Wahala. 1 Like |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by starstaz(m): 12:47pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
Good story and highly commendable Spirit of Honesty and puritan radicalism. Can u marry A alhaji and be his second wife Now. If ur spirit permit. 1 Like |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by Jewessgratitud3: 12:47pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
BigBashiru: It is called "self worth." YOU can afford to go with every Tom and Harry because you don't have have self worth. It's not my fault dear. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by Raydave: 12:48pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
Permit me to ask....how do you cope with Sexual urge |
Re: Making This Post Based On Demand: Why I'm Still Single At 42 by henrimoto(m): 12:49pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3: You don't sound like a dedicated Christian sister you claim to be. "Come, let's go see our friend" is it an offensive statement? Ha! Be calming down jare, "You are our "Fiend "" jor. You go just dey, dey pepper your mind over talk wey no be anything. |
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