Rapture2021:
Before I saw one thing my wife has abused the hell out of me,she was such a calm and reserved person before we married,but today at the slightest of misunderstanding she begins the insult,even getting close to my face telling me to beat her,I have never laid a finger on her,but she is tempting me to do that. How can a woman calls a man fool, idiot, animal? I have reported her family severally and yet she is not changing.

I opened a boutique business for her last year,now she said she wants to sell baby things,and I have done it half way,I had to just prank her that the other money I was expecting hasn't come, immediately she began the insult again to my face,as it is the prank is getting real because I will not give her the money anymore

Coleman7:
Let your words be few. Stop talking much with her.
Grow your spirit man be alive. Do whatever you feel is good to her, be nice to her.
Proceed and open the boutique for her, but don't let your mouth be open for long, always act more and say less. Don't treat her bad, even when she does so. If the heat is so much, you can leave the house and stay off for days without her knowing your movement.

Let your words be few but treat her nice.

Karleb:
You don't need to lay a finger on her but rather, insult her back.

When she calls you a fool, call her an idiot.


Omo! How una dey cope for that kind life?

Rapture2021:


Thank you,for long I stopped laughing much with her due to this her attitude,they was a time she threatened cheating on me. These ladies takes advantage of is christians who hold positions in church, thinking we cannot divorce. But I will shock her

Albertone:


That's playing in the mud with a pig.

OP should just be doing his bare minimum responsibilities. Nothing extra.
Let her get a job and make money herself.

Rapture2021:
Before I saw one thing my wife has abused the hell out of me,she was such a calm and reserved person before we married,but today at the slightest of misunderstanding she begins the insult,even getting close to my face telling me to beat her,I have never laid a finger on her,but she is tempting me to do that. How can a woman calls a man fool, idiot, animal? I have reported her family severally and yet she is not changing.

I opened a boutique business for her last year,now she said she wants to sell baby things,and I have done it half way,I had to just prank her that the other money I was expecting hasn't come, immediately she began the insult again to my face,as it is the prank is getting real because I will not give her the money anymore

advanceDNA:


Must u do every thing ur wife say u should do? Una no understand how women be ooo...Na una dey let this women ride una......

By responding to all her demands like a waiter....you have made her, overtime, feel she has higher leverage in the relationship hence she feels she has power to do wateva she likes..... My brother your advice is what I too looked back and front still take,am now looking for another wife,I wan take time now study the next one now .good advice man.

Marriage no be by force oooo....no go die ooo
Try using scare tactics by telling her attitude is frustrating you and u want a divorce....it might be that's what she wants too hence behaving like a werey so u can break up with her...

If not....she will likely tell u she's not going anywhere.....with the behavior u described ..she will think u are joking because she already sees u as a weak man that don't have the balls to check her... So make sure u draft a real and proper divorce agreement Incase u need to actually divorce .... Drop her the agreement and see her reaction ....when some pple see the victim of their abuse is reacting, they often stop.....

U cannot be paying bills and bankrolling someone yet they behaving like they are doing u a favour by being with you...... baba no let hypertension kill you..

.. If ur first try at marriage no work....
Try with someone else or stay your lane...

edunaragold:
bro u will just kill your self,me I left my abusive wife ,after she said she will kill the baby,that it's the baby I now like more than her,pls do away with that wife, avoid snagging wife .my wife attitude made me left her there in imo state.

Rapture2021:

I will consult my lawyer on my next move

Gadafii:
Some men are really suffering Inside this marriage sha. Nawa

I am sure she denies you sex too, or don’t cook for you meanwhile you already open a boutique for her and nothing to show for it, my bro divorce that gangster in your house and have your peace

xband:
Oga it seems your wife just put to bed not long ago.

If that is the case, try and understand her. Stuck up her boutique with baby things. Okay.

Rapture2021:
Before I saw one thing my wife has abused the hell out of me,she was such a calm and reserved person before we married,but today at the slightest of misunderstanding she begins the insult,even getting close to my face telling me to beat her,I have never laid a finger on her,but she is tempting me to do that. How can a woman calls a man fool, idiot, animal? I have reported her family severally and yet she is not changing.

I opened a boutique business for her last year,now she said she wants to sell baby things,and I have done it half way,I had to just prank her that the other money I was expecting hasn't come, immediately she began the insult again to my face,as it is the prank is getting real because I will not give her the money anymore

Rapture2021:


She has been like this long before she gave birth,man is just managing and praying she changes. Not easy to be honest,not easy at all,the narrative will change once a man reacts physically. I pray God takes control of this one.

You cannot look into a man's eyes and call him an idiot,a fool etc,even as I type she is ranting on me,I wish I could record her voice and send it here.