akube34:
no worry. Work around go Dey

bdon123:

I have n he is presently married wit 2 kids.

Caseless:
stop deceiving that guy. You want to collect money from him.

Caseless:
married to SS?

Samsunny99:
Love sometimes can hurt,a friend of mine came to me telling me how he loved a girl so dearly but the issue is that they are both AS,
After finding out,he has really been sad about the turn of events,
What is your advice or word of encouragement for him

emmastuffs:
There's nothing God cannot do. You really don't have to test Him though. I've had my traditional marriage before discovering I'm AS, my wife is also AS.
After the discovery we were both shattered as white wedding was about to be cancelled. Long story short we both decided we'll carry on, family members said no but we insisted. Today we've got two lovely kids both AA.
Grace is different but again God is a miracle working God.

bdon123:

Married to AS

gidjah:
Two kids SS ? Wao !!that's a bomb and a killer he's got.Those kids are gonna sap away all his life saving and leave him dry. Frustration and depression will also be his last names. What a bad scenario

Caseless:
but you should watch how you propagate that story. It's dangerous.

Samsunny99:
Love sometimes can hurt,a friend of mine came to me telling me how he loved a girl so dearly but the issue is that they are both AS,
After finding out,he has really been sad about the turn of events,
What is your advice or word of encouragement for him

akube34:
brother. Na dat shoe I currently Dey. There are options, she is willing to do them. But I am still giving it a thought as my family no Dey gree. You can contact me privately if you like

determination26:
I would advice them to let their love die a natural death. I'm lucky not to be SS, but my sister wasn't so lucky. I watched her live a life of pain and in her death bed, she begged us to allow her die because the pain was just too much. I cry when i think about what she could have become but I'm happy she doesn't feel the pains anymore. If they love themselves so much, they should not allow a sickle cell child into this world to live a life of pain . Whenever a man has unprotected intercourse with a woman and cums inside, in my opinion, he has indirectly asked God for a child so he should love that precious gift he's asķing for and make sure the child doesn't come into a world of pain and suffering.

Jeon:
You are the one.

Quit or don't give birth to a being that will carry the cross of your foolish decisions.

Guyman01:

He and his wife practically lives in the hospital because its either this one is having a crisis or the other one and this costs so much, now he plans to Japa not for economic reasons but to get better health care for them.

dollynnn:


You really did justice with your succinctly couched response. I wish I could like your response a thousand times

Elucidate321:


Thanks. I was just applying all the self-control I could muster. If he was saying that stuff in front of me,... I would have either done something I might regret or I would just quickly walk away. This topic is way too delicate and the consequences are way too dire for people to be acting like *@£##&&@&@ about it. @#£&@#*!!!

Viktor1983:


Nairaland is the last place to come for advice on such matters. you'll only get Herd mentality advice.

Justkatty:
A classmate died immediately after our waec because she was ss....do what you can to avoid inflicting pains in the lives of those innocent unborn kids
You can always get another partner though may not be easy.

Armaggedon:
love doesn't hurt. What you have is not love but mere feeling for each other. Feeling comes from the heart while love comes from the mind. The heart of man is deceptive and dangerous. Retrace!

LordReed:


This is a solution for those with the resources to do it.

maasoap:

But love is feeling now, so is hate

Armaggedon:
no, both aren't. You learn and choose to love just as you learn and choose to hate. Love and hate are both act of will, hence, we are commanded in the Bible to love.

maasoap:

Two of mine died after we finished our WAEC.

maasoap:

And who are not against abortions

akube34:
brother. Na dat shoe I currently Dey. There are options, she is willing to do them. But I am still giving it a thought as my family no Dey gree. You can contact me privately if you like

uuzba:

Oga, this matter tire me.
In the Bible, there's one guy (Joshua? Jacob?) He wanted to marry one girl.
Went to go and do labour work for the father for 7 years.
On wedding day, they did him 419 and gave him the other sister.
Na for night he come see the face say, no be the babe be this.
He did another 7 years labour again on the farm to marry the very sister he wanted.
Before the dad gave him that sister.
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Imagine if after all this 14 years suffer, he and the girl be AS - AS between them.
Will you tell him not to marry? He go chook you with cutlass.
Somehow, it's either Bible people were not Black people at all. Because black people are the only ones that used to get this Sickle cell thing.
Or somebody should just leave marriage in God's hand.
You can't be checking people's blood before you toast/date them.
You're not dracula na!?

bdon123:

Na u sabi.i get 2 kids n none are ss.keep overtinking everything.

topsam1:
Wetin you do bro?