rockok:

A polytechnic. By mainly fellow students in the hostel and around the campus for my looks and that such kind of looks doesn't deserve to get what I want. This is the worst kind of bullying I have ever received. It has reduced my confidence and my ability to study. I used to be a programmer but they eventually spoilt my PC I believe. And you know I need to be okay to work with a PC especially Since I was interested in Algorithms and problem solving. I am not the same person I was before. This is the worst academic environment ever. I just wish I could leave and find my true self again

Report at student affairs officially, have audio recordings as evidence. Do you have parents, especially a mother? Report to them. One of my students was bullied for not having much clothes and he almost committed suicide. Thankfully the mum took it up and student affairs did a very good job. Don't keep quiet, but don't fight them if you can't. Speak to the right people because there are people who are experienced in handling such cases

Dis really sound funny.... E Wan happen to me like Dat... But dear fathers train ur child to protect dem self from being bully.. Be a beast... And don't have too much friend... Infact if possible zero.. Just mingle with d one that have sense

Stand up to bullies and they will crumble.
Bullies are basically weak people, trying to feel powerful by taking advantage of another man's weakness (I guess you appear weak and timid to them).
Note: If bullies should sense that you're timid, they will begin to intimidate you.
You mustn't let them have their way because they've got nothing on you.
Get rid of them from around you by:
1. Reporting them to the school's disciplinary committee, Dean, SUG or even a lecturer that you trust can help you.
If the aforementioned doesn't work then you should try...

2. Practice this: Whenever you're alone, create a scenario of them coming to bully you again and when they are close enough, stand up to them like this - "(On a serious note and without sounding fearful) You guys are here again, to bully me right? See, this nonsense, ends today. If you think you can continue coming to me, to destroy my stuffs and jeer at me, it all ends today. That I have been quiet doesn't mean am stupid.
Now, if you all don't get out of here this minute, I'll do some that will make you all regret knowing me". (if they refuse to leave, start acting loco, like one of those agberos in Lagos searching for a bottle or plank). Don't let it get to your head sha. It's just going to be some serious act to scare them off forever.


You can't continue running away from them. They're just empty vessels known to make the loudest noise.
You can overcome and regain your sanity and peace.
I'm rooting for you.
You shouldn't think of "belonging" to a cult oh! You were fearfully and wonderfully made, they should either be scared of you or loving to you.

My pastor was once a victim of bully. He reported severally to his teachers but that didn't curb his situation until his dad taught him how to fight 😂. I'm not saying you should fight but act against the normal that they know you for and they will run. Sternly, tell them to back off from you.

rockok:
How does bullying affect someone in an environment especially academic environment. I am actually in an academic environment and I am being bullied. I believe it is having an impact on me.

I am thinking of leaving but I have spent a lot of money and don't want to leave. I want someone opinion on what to do?

rockok:

A polytechnic. By mainly fellow students in the hostel and around the campus for my looks and that such kind of looks doesn't deserve to get what I want. This is the worst kind of bullying I have ever received. It has reduced my confidence and my ability to study. I used to be a programmer but they eventually spoilt my PC I believe. And you know I need to be okay to work with a PC especially Since I was interested in Algorithms and problem solving. I am not the same person I was before. This is the worst academic environment ever. I just wish I could leave and find my true self again

Avoid cultism but show people that you be real were... fight back and stand up for yourself

Report to the authority, work on the scars you have and get tf out of there ASAP

You need to become a strong man to stop this bullying,This same happened to me when i newly get admission into polytechnic, i experience this bully in my first semester, But second semester when i became a strong man the bully stop immediately, so sometimes it's good to become a strong man

If you can't beat them join them

carry cutlass dey go hostel

Save up to 300k,get an 8rounds pistol,shoot one of them,others will be scared of u

Go join Aaye

Change your hostel.
Ignore whatever they say.
Work harder.
Achieve more.
Avoid them.
Choose new friends.
You can avoid having friends.
Love yourself.

Secretly register in a kung fu class to enable you fight cos sometimes it's good to first throw the punch to shot others up....

Thank me later

You came to the bully central to ask for advice. While I can't advice you because I don't know how it feels to be bullied but this forum is filled with bullies that will insult and pick a fight with everyone.

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KosiGee:
@Op, I guess your name is something like Henry but look and act like Henrietta…or maybe your name is Stephen but you’ve been acting like Stephanie to your mates.

Say the truth mister.

Bastard Oloriburuku Masanfani. Is that enough reason to validate the bullying ?? So everyone with such qualities are homo right? Idiot!

Why is nobody talking about him becoming Confident to ride the "bullying" into fame? Yes, Mr Bean that we all know today was seriously bullied. The bullying stopped immediately he decided to laugh along with them more than they laughed at him. Most People in this World are sad, when they realized that their effort to make you feel ashamed of yourself doesn't get you angry at all because even you find your being you more funny, they get automatically disarmed. And soon become your fan for always making them happy. It is reverse Psychology that subconsciously shows them that you are far Superior to them that are trying to comfort themselves that they are better than somebody, as soon as you are able to use in into becoming a Comedian, they would soon start paying you and Inviting you for shows.
What Mr Bean did was what "Jenifer" the Nigerian Actress did. In school, some laughed at her that she looked like a Man, she later in her live ride on that as a Comedy local thuggery into Fame and Wealth. Take advantage of the situation to enjoy laughing at yourself instead of helping them make you feel Angry. After that, always imagine how to make them laugh when they confront you.

For example, if they come to you and say your face is like animal, don't get angery and defensive. Rather say with a wide smile "Yes na! You no know before?!" Then, squeeze your face like whichever funny animal you which to imitate and seemingly walk like that with funny wide eyes looking and winking at them. They shall be utterly shocked, demystified and laugh so hard at their own stupidity for trying to make you angry. Soon, they will start protecting you and love to have you around for your Creativity. There is a Spiritual Truth that Iay not really be able to Explain here but I will try: People attack you because you have not released what Heaven deposited in you to solve their Problem. You uncommon looks was never a Mistake from your CREATOR! Learn from that Cripple Igbo Guy that Graduated against all odds and he's now a motivational Speaker like disabled Pastor Nic with no legs and hands that almost committed Suicide, but now making millions of $s that so many with 2 legs and hands can never make in their Life Time. Take Advantage of your Uniqueness!

rockok:
How does bullying affect someone in an environment especially academic environment. I am actually in an academic environment and I am being bullied. I believe it is having an impact on me.

I am thinking of leaving but I have spent a lot of money and don't want to leave. I want someone opinion on what to do?

Report to the authorities

Get people on your side, even the bully can bullied

Just put 1 in two people's knees , the remaining 15 will understand

For those of you who wants to know the truth here's it:

I was dating this girl should I say just a casual relationship and things wasn't really transparent like there where a lot of things I wasn't okay with. The drama surrounding the relationship was overwhelming. like her family would insult me out of the blue, she would come up and indirectly do the same. I believed they saw me as a puppet and where manipulating and using me. I was actually doing everything to make the relationship work out but, it turns out to be a one sided effort and I had to end the drama. Since then I have faced the worse persecution out there. Not that we got intimate. I guess that's why they are angry at me. I just wanted to be free. I left for school and it turns out they came after me there too. I don't know what they actually wanted or want from me. It's Soo difficult to understand the reason behind their efforts. I guess they felt by going to school, I was like trying to take revenge on them for their actions Soo that is why they are after me.
You see, one way to put me down is to destroy my self esteem.

I learnt that this very girl had an affair with my younger brother so the question is are they taking some sort of revenge on me? Where they disappointed that I didn't bend to their will? Because on the surface actually most people will mistake me for being stupid and foolish. I don't look really bad, but you know what who wants their flaws pointed out? I know I need to be strong. You might blame me for what's happening but I was in a deep mess before now and I don't really want anything to put me back. It's extremely difficult, especially knowing that I am struggling financially too.
Something is wrong out there and I want the internet community to help me sort this out. I could provide you with details such as address and the rest so that you help me out if you really care.
Before now, I am usually indoor and was working on improving my skills in software development so that I could get a job eventually . But I can't wrap my head around what is happening and I need your help

There are threat like I won't even eventually graduate or I should leave. I am pretty concerned about the threat not to talk of the normal difficulty I am facing in the first place.

frankson1:




What is with this "masculine frame" you mentioned I have seen several "masculine framed" guys being bullied and harassed so it's not entirely about ones masculinity.

I don't look masculine but I'm one of the toughest guys anyone can get through to no matter the environment.

It's all about understanding your environment and taking quick action to conquer it.

I've learnt to always take charge before anyone blinks whenever I find myself in a new place where I'll spend much time.

The Op should better be matured and get tough quickly while learning to be smart at the same time.

How do you know a masculine framed guy?