ednut1:
have you seen the bride price list of some places in Nigeria You have to settle people in the villages many items. Court is the way to go. But there are alot of women who want the paparazzi wedding of which they will contribute nothing financially.

Lovemeharder:
I also prefer a small marriage blessing or court wedding, cos after all the huge spending in doing one Big white wedding nobody will look you and your wife's face.
The last wedding I attended, I saw very few gifts that was presented to the couples and it was not encouraging at all.
People will come, eat and drink well, then go back to thier respective homes.

Samantha124:
So to hell with our African heritage, right?

Emma1Oj:
avoid this type mindset. They are the showoff and materialistic type that will drain you and still accuse you of not being a responsible man.

Just imagine are comments.

TrustNone:
just shut up please

Samantha124:
So to hell with our African heritage, right?

ednut1:
rest, court marriage is recognized by law and it’s cheap

Hohaiiiode:
you people will be hiding behind culture and heritage, when what you people are exhibiting is foolish pride and spending what you don’t have. Most nations and people have passed through a phase of hardship and poverty , but they were able to change their story because they accept the fact and make changes to most of their wasteful practices. But we as a people we just want to caress our pride and keep going wasteful. Culture and tradition kor !!!!

Chingyyy878:
Weddings are so expensive nowadays. To young people that want to start their lives, go to court and have a small dinner with your close friends and family. You can do the party if you’d like years later.

Thanks!

Chingyyy878:
Weddings are so expensive nowadays. To young people that want to start their lives, go to court and have a small dinner with your close friends and family. You can do the party if you’d like years later.

Thanks!

Chingyyy878:
Weddings are so expensive nowadays. To young people that want to start their lives, go to court and have a small dinner with your close friends and family. You can do the party if you’d like years later.

Thanks!

Chingyyy878:
Weddings are so expensive nowadays. To young people that want to start their lives, go to court and have a small dinner with your close friends and family. You can do the party if you’d like years later.

Thanks!

petrflynt:



They bumshot wey you dey wear or the half naked dressing wey una dey dress na our African Heritage??
Why spend so much on things that has almost lost core value

Samantha124:
We are Africans and traditional wedding is part of who we are.

Samantha124:
It doesn't matter how I feel or think about it because they're not part of my culture and we need to learn to respect other people's cultures as long as they don't interfere with ours.

And besides, traditional wedding is a celebration which involves uniting two people who are in love.

loswhite:
Traditional wedding doesn't need to expensive but of course the only reason most of you get married is to show off....lol

loswhite:
Hypocrite tell us how you feel about it if it was your culture?

ednut1:
female gender mutilation is an heritage in many African societies. Child marriage too. Are you in support of , After-all its heritage

bonnyhope:


This one no wan spend shi shi

Samantha124:
We are Africans and traditional wedding is part of who we are.

Chingyyy878:
Weddings are so expensive nowadays. To young people that want to start their lives, go to court and have a small dinner with your close friends and family. You can do the party if you’d like years later.

Thanks!

Samantha124:
We are Africans and traditional wedding is part of who we are.

IjebuWarrior:


Somw places bawo? Na Igbo pple be dat. To them, everything na $$$. They give their daughters to the highest bidder!

A culture that lacks commonsense, decorum, morals etc... Cursed mofos!

Samantha124:
It doesn't matter how I feel or think about it because they're not part of my culture and we need to learn to respect other people's cultures as long as they don't interfere with ours.

And besides, traditional wedding is a celebration which involves uniting two people who are in love.

Samantha124:
If in your tribe you guys hide behind culture to indulge in wastefulness and bankrupt suitors, then that's your problem... Not every tribe is like yours.