My name is Adetoye Ayomikun. I have decided to share with you how my relationship with my last girlfriend was and why we broke up. You know, I still feel guilty, as if I was the one that caused it, as if I was the stupid one, as if I had the bad character. I could not decide whether to blame myself or not, but I will leave you to be the judge of that.

I am a university student, in case you need to know. On this faithful day, I was scrolling through the TikTok application, and then I saw this beautiful girl's video. The way she was dancing was amazing in the video. I scrolled past it because she was not the only girl I had seen dancing during my countless scrolls. I kept on scrolling. The next day, quite fortunately, I also saw her video, the way she was shaking her body, not just her body but a particular aspect of her body, likely you should know. Now, I intentionally entered her profile to check her videos and maybe pictures out. To be sincere, this babe is pretty; her body and shape are just awesome.

I was in love with her images and literally dropped a comment and a like in all her videos. I did not want to message her on TikTok for some reasons I don’t even know, but I copied her username Kemi……. Also, fortunately, she used her surname. I then went to Facebook to check her profile there. It took me some time to later get her name. Immediately I saw her profile, even though the posts and images there were not much, the girl is neat and sweet. I already liked her immediately. When I was just about to skip her profile to continue what I was doing, then I saw in her profile that we were attending the same school. I was just wowed.

I told my guys about this babe. Some said I should toast her, that at least we are going to the same school, and it will be very easy. Some said I should befriend her first somehow. Then I moved on to messaging her on Facebook, though it took some time before she could respond, about a day and some hours if I am right. Then I introduced myself, telling her I loved her videos on TikTok. She said okay, and we talked for that day.

Later, we started talking regularly for about a week or so. During that time, I loved her vibe, and we did different things, hours of calls, both video and audio, truth or dare, many countless stuff online. By then, I already collected her WhatsApp number. During that space of a week or so, something like 10 days of constant talking with each other, I already told her my school, and we had seen each other thrice. After 20 days, I told her I liked her and I wished we were in a relationship together. She told me we should talk about it physically.

That night, I read a lot, and I mean a lot of, guess what? Pickup lines. It’s not funny, but I read a lot of them with the intention that she won’t give NO as an answer, though my friends were already telling me she won’t.

We later met ourselves, though her first response was, "Why do you like me?" I somehow found no answer for that, then pickup lines I had studied woke in me, and I said,

"Trying to explain why I like you is like trying to count the stars – Infinite and impossible. How about we enjoy the mystery by just giving me a yes."
Then she was like, "Awnnn, but you’ve not answered me oo." Then I said, "Well, if I was to put it in words, it’s like trying to describe the taste of water. I can’t pinpoint it, but I know I can’t live without it. So what about giving me a yes?"

She then said, "Yes, I will date you." I was happy, and I am sure she was, then we hugged.

After like 2 and a half months of dating, hours and nights of talks, sleepless nights, and so on, it was amazing. Though it was within this time we had our first kiss, I won’t give you too many details on this. She allowed me to touch her body, but she always stopped me when I wanted to do more, which is to have sex with her, always stopping me, for several times. Though my friends are always like I should relax, even though they are the ones always pressuring me that when will I have sex with her.

This continued and continued for almost 5 months of knowing each other. We were alone, and we were in an intense mood. Just for her to say that's enough. Then I responded angrily, "What's the meaning of this?" Seeing my tone, she responded, "Must you have sex with me? I am sorry, but I am brought up in a Christian home, and I am giving my virginity to my husband." In anger, I responded, "Hypocrisy! Then in the first place, why did you allow me to kiss you? Why did you allow me to touch your body?" Then in a more annoyed way, she said, "Is that what you are going to say, right?" Then, "It was for sex you asked me out, right? I can see how useless you are." I responded, "Stop behaving innocent or like a victim. Why then do you think we are in a relationship?" She said, "Because you liked me." I responded, "What did I like in you?" She could not find an answer.

I answered, "I liked your body, and now you are refusing to give me. I don’t see the purpose of this relationship. You knew I liked you because of the way you displayed your body on TikTok." In a furious way, she said, "Wow wow, never knew you are this stupid. So I should now hide my shape because of useless people like you. Because of people like you, I should stop what I am doing." Then I responded, "You are insulting me now, right? Even you can’t define the purpose of this relationship. I saw a beautiful girl; I asked her out, but it was in your power to say yes or no, but you decided to say yes, not as if you are forced.

Now you are telling me you can’t have sex with someone that is not your husband, so that your husband does not have the right to be the only one that will touch and kiss you. A high level of deceit and hypocrisy." She then said, "I regret ever knowing someone like you. If you want to have sex, why don’t you look for a prostitute?"

Then she burst out of my room. Me that she once posted, the love of my life, that how she still posted a very stupid fellow. Never knew I was dating someone as useless as him and other words. What pained me most was that she said I just had to break up with an animal like him. Who broke up with who?

Did I regret how things ended? I can’t deny I didn't because for some reasons I felt there was this unnecessary pressure from those who called themselves my friend. But this, I understood that truly when the purpose of a thing is not known, abuse is inevitable. Even in relationships, and also when you truly know where you are going, you will know all roads can't lead to the place you are going to.

First you will know if your morals are against somethings let it be known straight away don't try to do this and keep telling yourself, I won't do that, don't be an hypocrite.

If you read this story at all, kindly tell me one or two things you learnt.

Adetoye Ayomikun
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Love na scam.

Me I did not say that one oo😂

Too lazy to read

Then work on your laziness 😂😁

The girl no just wan Fuvk you ni, she’s definitely smashing other guys outside, don’t be a simp and let her go.