Sort your mood out first. You could try a Doctor with good knowledge of mental health, or a competent therapist.

ImoleNaija:
For weeks, I have lost interest in sex. Even when I try to force the erection, I lose it before mounting, as there's no strength to sustain it at all. All her words of encouragement/motivation hold no water. She's so pitiful.


Experienced husbands, how do you manage your sex drives & financial depression?

don't kill yourself for nothing, me, I even owe bank plenty money without kobo, I keep strong, I keep any thoughts out of my mind, I still mount my woman perform 99%, Nigeria problem is bigger than Nigeria itself, na me go come put am for head? Some shots dey do the magic. Ones I take some bottles, come Naira Land, then entered Ticktock, I no dey think any of my problem again.

muheeb01:

Anti depressants causes loss of libido....

Reduce the intake and engage in psychotherapy more...

Then contact me for potent herbs to revive your libido

I never took it.

ImoleNaija:


It's just a misinformation. The debt was #200k initially before my wife coughed out #70k when he came around.

Bro I understand you.... Just be truthful to yourself in this situation.. Are you the reason for the sickness of his wife? You cannot afford to pay him not like you are being wicked or you wish his family any evil. Everyone of us have similar issues. Don't kill yourself over a situation you cannot change for now.... Ever since you are depressed, has your depression paid off the debt? Don't give yourself hbp and you also need to work on your low self esteem.

To the best of my knowledge, you are not the source of his wife's problem. Don't be psychologically blackmailed to absorb the guilt that if anything happens to the wife it is as a result of your inability to payback your debt. What if you mismanage your health until you become a high blood pressure patient and still unable to pay...

There's no problem with your libido but your mental perception of life.....

Have definate plan on how to pay your debt. You may have 3 months payback plan with your wife.... Get a daily contribution card and from the POS business you can be saving 1k daily plus loose funds from other sources while you wait for God to help you and lift you up financially.

Go in peace.... You are set free.

ImoleNaija:
For weeks, I have lost interest in sex. Even when I try to force the erection, I lose it before mounting, as there's no strength to sustain it at all. All her words of encouragement/motivation hold no water. She's so pitiful.


Experienced husbands, how do you manage your sex drives & financial depression?

Change location, take a weekend trip with her out of your station... run on the beach lie carelessly on the sand scream at the sea and punch the air go to a club and dance freely... just let your body move freely...

You need a sexual reset,
E get why prick dey stand for wetin de outside anyhow

ImoleNaija:
For weeks, I have lost interest in sex. Even when I try to force the erection, I lose it before mounting, as there's no strength to sustain it at all. All her words of encouragement/motivation hold no water. She's so pitiful.


Experienced husbands, how do you manage your sex drives & financial depression?

job hustle first and make the money, ur prick will reset naturally

Come out of the depression,you will gain your libido back ok.

Whatisurproblem:
don't kill yourself for nothing, me, I even owe bank plenty money without kobo, I keep strong, I keep any thoughts out of my mind, I still mount my woman perform 99%, Nigeria problem is bigger than Nigeria itself, na me go come put am for head? Some shots dey do the magic. Ones I take some bottles, come Naira Land, then entered Ticktock, I no dey think any of my problem again.

@op is just a prisoner of his reputation.... He wants to guide it all cost but his finances betrayed him... Instead of him to calm down and see how God will come through for him he want to kill himself.... @op, go back home and joyfully dig your wife until she starts begging you for leniency...

slaawomirr:
Damnnn niggar

In anything you do avoid sex enhancement drugs

Then try and find a solution to the depression caused by money


The day I realised that money can really affect almost someone erection was the day I had an accident with my lexus Es 350

Called my mechanic only for him to be telling me that the two front headlight will cost 200k

That night despite my girlfriend been with me I swear I didn't get an erection because it was only 30k was in my account
So how I do I get 200k
The next day it even got worse when the stupid mechanic added the fact that I need to change shock absorber and hub
For one week I didn't get erection again if not that my girlfriend knows me well she would have concluded maybe have turned impotent. Instead she understood that my not getting erection was me not been able to fix my car

Iro po

woginid967:


Why not sort out the depression first, then it will come back naturally.

Dont buy herbal things like Smackdown, buranrashiii, knackademous,... Its not good.


A happy man, lasts long. Sort out the depression first sir please

see as u dey cal the names of drug. Heard those names for the first time

ImoleNaija:
For weeks, I have lost interest in sex. Even when I try to force the erection, I lose it before mounting, as there's no strength to sustain it at all. All her words of encouragement/motivation hold no water. She's so pitiful.


Experienced husbands, how do you manage your sex drives & financial depression?

Start exercising regularly, listen to good music, sleep well and you see that thing they call "Bitter kola" don't miss taking 2 or 3 of them daily, chew one an hour before you start to do the do and thank me later. In a week you should be good to go

Honestly, depression causes weak erection. I remember vividly when I was very broke and I had so much to take care of with money. Omo mhen, depression sets in and my woman noticed I've not been having erection for some days, she tried her best, but ntata no gree rise, she then told me that I should not be afraid, say na because I broke na why ntata no gree rise. Omoh, na laugh I take end that day....

Me wey moto jam last year still my prick dey stand.

[quote author=ImoleNaija post=127371890]For weeks, I have lost interest in sex. Even when I try to force the erection, I lose it before mounting, as there's no strength to sustain it at all. All her words of encouragement/motivation hold no water. She's so pitiful.


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While you work towards sorting ur financial issues, take a walk with madam always and try as much as possible not to discuss the financial matter, free the mind, I guess God as helped u from one financial matter before, he will still help you to come out of this, so free your mind. Even Nigeria hold debt them stil d go flex for Dubai in the name of COP

ImoleNaija:
For weeks, I have lost interest in sex. Even when I try to force the erection, I lose it before mounting, as there's no strength to sustain it at all. All her words of encouragement/motivation hold no water. She's so pitiful.
Experienced husbands, how do you manage your sex drives & financial depression?

Dear OP try deal with the thing wey dey make u dey depressed 1st nd see how spectacular u did become on bed.

I think Op,s problems has to do
With his degree of sexual drive prior to the emergence of the low-libido. Someone like me can go from 0 to 100 in erection sustenance , even by the mere though of sex. Well coming back to solving the issue at hand. I think people saying you should sort out the financial issue first aren’t particularly proffering an immediate solution- which is what you need at this point. Tell your wife/woman to work on it after taking a cold shower together and you’ll be better off. Good luck

ImoleNaija:
For weeks, I have lost interest in sex. Even when I try to force the erection, I lose it before mounting, as there's no strength to sustain it at all. All her words of encouragement/motivation hold no water. She's so pitiful.


Experienced husbands, how do you manage your sex drives & financial depression?

Just take your drugs everything will come back to normal

Your heart is filled with burden. I feel like that sometimes. What keeps me going is positive hope that things would be fine couple with efforts am making on the issue. Please choose to be happy. It is good for the heart. Hbp is the most silent killer

Drop your contact let's talk...
U don't need to pay but u should be a married man if not don't drop ur contact

Treat the depression

This happens a lot. You need to come out of that depression but with respect to sex, here's my little advice.

1) don't resort to drugs. You will become dependent on them, rather eat fruits like watermelon. Watermelon is nature's Viagra and it has worked for me many times.

2) Don't resort to pornography to help your erection. You will only be stimulated by porn and not your wife. The temptation is always there

3) admire your wife's body again. Sometimes, you guys can lie naked cuddling. Just enjoy the moment

4) Don't think too much about it. People may not tell you but research has shown that Over 65% of men will suffer erectile dysfunction and it's mostly psychological and not physiological. Live in the moment. Don't question your ability.

ImoleNaija:
For weeks, I have lost interest in sex. Even when I try to force the erection, I lose it before mounting, as there's no strength to sustain it at all. All her words of encouragement/motivation hold no water. She's so pitiful.


Experienced husbands, how do you manage your sex drives & financial depression?

How to make yourself happy

1. Reduce your food intake. Stop eating before you are full

2. Eat your first food by 12pm and second by 7pm, if you must eat twice.

3. Eat nature based foods like fruits, vegetables, nuts, seed

4. Shun processed foods

5. Read about deep breathing and practise it

6. Read about meditation and practise it

7. Get active often

8. Go outdoors often

9. Drink water at the first sign of hunger. Most hunger pangs are habits, especially the first ones. Just seeing someone eating food can make you salivate or get hungry

10. Socialize

11. Praise God and people a lot

12. Stop criticizing people

13. Read and study Bible regularly

14. Fellowship with God's people

15. Read good books

16. Do what you love for a living

17. Obey your conscience

18. Shun immoral life

19. Develop habits of being funny and making people happy around you

20. Replace negative thoughts about yourself and about others with positive thoughts

BJ can help you

ImoleNaija:
For weeks, I have lost interest in sex. Even when I try to force the erection, I lose it before mounting, as there's no strength to sustain it at all. All her words of encouragement/motivation hold no water. She's so pitiful.


Experienced husbands, how do you manage your sex drives & financial depression?

Less coke and Fanta and more exercise, preferably with heavy weights.

Dry bones will rise again

waice6571:
Don't kill yourself over a situation you cannot change for now.... Ever since you are depressed, has your depression paid off the debt? Don't give yourself hbp and you also need to work on your low self esteem.

This is exactly what my lady keeps telling me. I just don't know why I keep falling back into the depression over time.

Thanks so much.

Ttipsy:
pple r going through so much in the name of getting erection

hahahahaha. Cost of being a nigerian

Take out carbs and sugar from your diet
Abstain for two to three weeks while at it.
Revitalize your body with fruits
Tell her to change perfume maybe
It could be from her too. Sexy outfit could help

Solutions good feeding

ImoleNaija:


This is exactly what my lady keeps telling me. I just don't know why I keep falling back into the depression over time.

Thanks so much.

It just a psychological things.... Develop a mental strength where you can defend yourself even when you are guilty. Just borrow a small street sense to toughen your inner man and stop trying to be saint in all issues.

If the guy decides arrest you with police over the issue what what are you going to do? ..... Your health is your major asset in life.