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Age for ladies really doesn't matter. Many teenage and girls in their 20's does more than those in their 30's. For men, just pray, get money and live right, the right woman will come stress-free.

Good girls dey,bad girls dey.. Na you go device who you wan dey with

money121:
Ok

When the party involved wants to keep the relationship her "uncle" or his "aunty" and still be in a committed relationship someone else?

finallybusy:
Another anti-woman relationship thread on Nairaland.

Honestly, these guys are jobless. The only thing they know is woman, woman, woman

Ingriid:
Gosh! Another topic again to bash women!! For real, ain't you guys tired

Indeed, the black man has so much time .

Black woman

EdoBoy90:
Dear guys,
Above 30 years, many ladies are just looking for an innocent guy to put their useless problems on his head.

In my opinion, avoid ladies who are above 30 years

You are still a learner if you think above 30 criteria is the solution.
There is even more chance of hitting a calamity at below 30.
What matters is the present reality of your partner.
If she is into hookups/promiscuous, no age is safe for you.

Leave nothing to fate when it comes to matter of relationship..

Women have never evolved over the year on their natural preferences for a better man. They punish weak men conscious or unconsciously as it has being from the days of Adam.

Men in the other are fazed with every degradation of his preference from society, media, govt policies and what not

Men..

Pls know this.

Your power in life is your value, strive to get in par with that..

next in matter of opposite sex relationship are your attention and ultimately, your commitment..

NEVER GIVE THEM OUT To UNDESERVING WOMEN..


A WOMAN WITH A SHADY PAST
SINGLE MUMS EXCEPT THOROUGHLY VETTED
WOMEN WITH NO SHAME.
HIGH BODY COUNT WOMEN should never be your worries.

You are the prize and a king, realise that, work toward making yourself a good prize/father/husband for the family/kingdom you want to build..

EdoBoy90:
Dear guys,

Always ask questions about any lady's past. If she can't tell you, get it by yourself. Avoid any lady is who shouting privacy yet she wants to have access to yours; passwords of your whatsAPP, Facebook and other social platforms. Ladies can keep secrets. They always claim "Saints" whereas they aren't. Many ladies above 30 years who are not married, 95% are the caused of their problems. Don't pity any lady in relationship especially if you would like to settle down with her.

A situation where a lady told you that a man is her Uncle whereas the man wasn't her uncle. she has been with the man for more than 10 years as a 'side chic' whereas she couldn't get a guy or relationship for 2 years. The man is her sugar daddy. He only called her whenever he wants her. Ladies are heartless and wicked. Above 30 years, many ladies are just looking for an innocent guy to put their useless problems on his head.

In my opinion, avoid ladies who are above 30 years with multiple Exs. Just avoid them for your peace of mind please and future. The good ones are less than 3%

I don't think it is fair to paint every lady in her 30s with the same brush and you must know that there are some 25 year old ladies that already have the history of a typical 30 year old lady...but there are some core truths in your post. If a lady is not ready to be open with her past leave her immediately. Relationships are contracts that are made with full disclosure and if you think your past is too ugly to be known then remain single. Nobody holy pass and no matter how ugly your past is there is someone out there willing to work with you if you are willing to cooperate.

Aby lady above 30 and single and having red flags cannot be changed easily so better to avoid her drama.

ure not her father that will correct her issues.

liamjakes247:
Age for ladies really doesn't matter. Many teenage and girls in their 20's does more than those in their 30's. For men, just pray, get money and live right, the right woman will come stress-free.

Infact, I laughed like drunkard wen he said 30+ blablabla, if he knows what secondary sch girls are doing with their private parts, he would choose 30+ like golden girls.

What all these yahoo guys doing with teenagers girls in secondary and higher institutions(immorality, drugs etc) are beyond imagination.

EdoBoy90:
Dear guys,

Always ask questions about any lady's past. If she can't tell you, get it by yourself. Avoid any lady is who shouting privacy yet she wants to have access to yours; passwords of your whatsAPP, Facebook and other social platforms. Ladies can keep secrets. They always claim "Saints" whereas they aren't. Many ladies above 30 years who are not married, 95% are the caused of their problems. Don't pity any lady in relationship especially if you would like to settle down with her.

A situation where a lady told you that a man is her Uncle whereas the man wasn't her uncle. she has been with the man for more than 10 years as a 'side chic' whereas she couldn't get a guy or relationship for 2 years. The man is her sugar daddy. He only called her whenever he wants her. Ladies are heartless and wicked. Above 30 years, many ladies are just looking for an innocent guy to put their useless problems on his head.

In my opinion, avoid ladies who are above 30 years with multiple Exs. Just avoid them for your peace of mind please and future. The good ones are less than 3%

Many men die without getting marries. Extend the same courtesy to women. If side-chick life suits her, allow her be. From what I hear, it's a lucrative business.

Most women that get married late are ambitious or career women, they believe that marriage will hinder their dreams.

Why always focusing on women, don't Nigerian men have anything reasonable to so or talk about apart from women. Men bleeps women, women are prostitute while the same men are saint.

.if men decided to stay away from sleeping around I'm sure we there will be more women as virgin.

Nigerian men I hope you all know that God expects both men and women to abstain from sexual immorality not only women as the society made you believe.

I AM QUITE SURE ,THE TRUELY MARRIED GOT NO SQUALLS WITH THIS TOPIC. MARRIED AND STILL TESTING AROUND ?U NEED GOD!

it's the way you just imagine these statistics for me without survey or sampling, for me. 3% this, 95% that. Where did you get the figures? How many women have you had relationships with that you came up with this analysis? All because of just one person experience u generalize? Oh c'mmon, enough of these generalizations about women are this and men are that.

If you are disappointed, dust off, take your lessons and move on. U already destroyed your future relationships with these generalizations. No two people are the same. The both genders have the good and the bad. Just pray to find the good. Also ensure to be good as well

ivolt:

You are still a learner if you think above 30 criteria is the solution.
There is even more chance of hitting a calamity at below 30.
What matters is the present reality of your partner.
If she is into hookups/promiscuous, no age is safe for you.

Best comment.

It's as if this article is dedicated to me. When we were dating she told me she was 32. We married and the marriage lasted for just 18months. Not knowing she was 38 when she told me she was 32. Always fabricating lies about me to her friends, family, church members, my colleagues against me. This lady almost ruined my life. I Saw her dairy when she was still single with prayer points I must marry this year. Every year same prayer points. We were co worker and I am fully aware she was sleeping with so many married men. What she used on me I can't explain till this day. She didn't just sleep with married men, she also connect young teenagers with married men. Before we started dating, she tried connecting me with a small girl at work but I told her to stop what she is doing that she is is destroying other people marriage and she should not expect a happy marriage. I wonder why I still went ahead to marry such woman. My advice, 99% of women above 35 can not be wife material. They have useless themselves. They are the ones you will find in church.

Last week I let go of two ladies, I see no reason a lady shouldn't be sensible enough what her parents couldn't do for her but she expected her boyfriend just in the name of sex to provide for her .....

For now I don't even know when I will be in any relationship again...

Johnycastro18:
Nah man wey never sabi this daughters of eve the fall in love with them without his brain....

A lady in the past whom I just started a relationship with that wasnt even upto a week ohh, suddenly brought up a pregnancy test to give to me that she is pregnant for me
She think say i be jjc.

Gold diggers everywere

But you fucck her abi

It is very painful when you are in a wrong relationship. Your opinion is not totally correct. We still have ladies in their 30s, 35s even 40s that are very good and descent. You probably have not met such. I got married to a lady over 30 years and she was not a liar. A friend got married recently to a girl who is above 30 years and she was a virgin.

Not all older girls are bad some also were used by men and dumped at the last minutes. Pray to get the right partner and men too are also very bad if not worse.

Finally stop sleeping with any one till you are married. Sex is exclusively for married people. Sex is not just fun but entering into a covenant of blood.

Singles be very careful that lady or that guy that you are sleeping with in the name of fun may cause your downfall. Once you are ready to marry. Pray and ask God for direction. No one is perfect. Shalom I am a guy

Nwaokunkpara:
Actually when you want to settle down as a man you will realize the scarcity of the women to be called wife

Gbam!!

They are many but few are good

winner37:
Last week I let go of two ladies, I see no reason a lady shouldn't be sensible enough what her parents couldn't do for her but she expected her boyfriend just in the name of sex to provide for her .....

For now I don't even know when I will be in any relationship again...

I hope you didn't offload them because of Xmas gift that you will buy

True , you are correct
Until you experience this u won't understand the message this guy I trying to pass

Ladies above 30 not in a committed relationship do not happen by mistake ,don't pity them, dy have a lot of skeleton in the cupboard

They will always play the victim card.Be smart

EdoBoy90:
Dear guys,

Always ask questions about any lady's past. If she can't tell you, get it by yourself. Avoid any lady is who shouting privacy yet she wants to have access to yours; passwords of your whatsAPP, Facebook and other social platforms. Ladies can keep secrets. They always claim "Saints" whereas they aren't. Many ladies above 30 years who are not married, 95% are the caused of their problems. Don't pity any lady in relationship especially if you would like to settle down with her.

A situation where a lady told you that a man is her Uncle whereas the man wasn't her uncle. she has been with the man for more than 10 years as a 'side chic' whereas she couldn't get a guy or relationship for 2 years. The man is her sugar daddy. He only called her whenever he wants her. Ladies are heartless and wicked. Above 30 years, many ladies are just looking for an innocent guy to put their useless problems on his head.

In my opinion, avoid ladies who are above 30 years with multiple Exs. Just avoid them for your peace of mind please and future. The good ones are less than 3%

bonnyhope:

But you fucck her abi

sure,
But a lady can't have sex on Tuesday and tell me that she is pregnant on Saturday nah, not possible

AntiWailer:


Why are you shouting jor.

Username checks out.

The uncle just collect him pink slip.

Let him wail abeg.

😂😂😂


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qMLfnkobX-U

I dedicate this song to him.

-Lord

Even the ones in there twenties are no different..... maybe I would be routing for 50 years and above henceforth

As if men over 30 don't have multiple exes and are saints.

Ingriid:
Gosh! Another topic again to bash women!! For real, ain't you guys tired

Indeed, the black man has so much time .

You're missing the point, here we out number you ladies by a very wide margin, so you'll most likely hear write ups from men than women.

The thing is the guy is hurting, let him be, while I don't agree with some of his talk lies of any kind is unacceptable in a love relationship.

I don graduate from this things yaree, who dey take girls talks serious? They can lie, they can pretend, even their good morning mehn I don't just trust it.

Chai men are seriously crying and weeping, these heartless and mean daughters of eve don show una shege pro max, una never see something, women wey cause their creator heart break na common man wey Dey beg them pussie on daily bases, in the next life men and women would exist separately for peace to reign

Johnycastro18:
Nah man wey never sabi this daughters of eve the fall in love with them without his brain....

A lady in the past whom I just started a relationship with that wasnt even upto a week ohh, suddenly brought up a pregnancy test to give to me that she is pregnant for me
She think say i be jjc.

Gold diggers everywere

Haha real G

WhisperedNoise:

Honestly, these guys are jobless. The only thing they know is woman, woman, woman

Talking about women and thier crafty ways is very important! It has led to alot of frustration to people like you who don't want to observe and learn!! These issues have let to broken homes, murder, deadbeat parents, and other vices in the society!
For instance , a man killing his wife because he finds out he's not the father of his 3 children, wedding cancelled on the D day because a lady visited her ex the previous night, etc.
You're just looking at these issues on the surface that's why you think it's just a flimsy topic about woman woman woman

You better learn now so that you don't learn the hard way