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Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by OlawaleBammie: 10:30am On Dec 24, 2023 |
Fountainofyouth: Lol, baba kan ko lobiwa na, You comparing my father to urs is the high of absurdity |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by allthingsgood: 10:43am On Dec 24, 2023 |
Uptheante: Ehn no problem na. So shall it be for you and your kids. At 37 your children will be waiting for your wife’s food without clue about rent, taxes or other responsibilities adults face. Say Amen 1 Like |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by Blankstare(m): 10:54am On Dec 24, 2023 |
Empresa: The world is bigger than you, don't always view through your own prism, that gentleman can go rent a place and might find it difficult to keep up with rent, feeding even maintaining a relationship. the dynamics of surely doing well outside comfort isn't like before any longer reason rich kids pick up very fast because alot of schocks have been cushion for them. Mind you am not condoning laziness, am just saying the pattern of breaking through through getting a decent job, businesses, importation , online trading has shifted.... 2 Likes |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by Exceed15: 10:59am On Dec 24, 2023 |
Don't give a damn about what people say . It is your life and decision. Use it well to your advantage. |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by Blackdisciple(m): 11:38am On Dec 24, 2023 |
Meaning you don't pay rent omoh your own better oo especially if you are working... |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by iReddington: 11:41am On Dec 24, 2023 |
Fountainofyouth:FoutainOfIdiocy, what have you built and achieved for yourself, are you forbidden from toiling and making name for yourself through various achievements. Dumb airheaded bitter clown 🤡 1 Like |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by BeeNG3: 11:43am On Dec 24, 2023 |
Bliss52:Birds of same feather,alainitiju |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by Hollusilva28(m): 1:37pm On Dec 24, 2023 |
Many Nigerian ladies are worst. Don’t let anybody pressurized you. You owe nobody explanation how you live your life. I have a friend that we graduated together, he got married and still continue to live with his parents at Ibadan, after sometimes he traveled to Canada and his wife was still living with them, after exactly 1.5yrs the traveled to Canada too and be with her husband. I stayed at my dad’s place for long time, after I quit my job at Lagos. I was still in his house beforeI met my wife how is a citizen of a country in abroad and I traveled out of the country. Don’t let anyone force you to do things. Rent are expensive now due to bad naija economy situation. Never be in a competition with anybody. As I am don’t Fancy cars neither I know the latest. I’m just an old-fashioned minded. Peace of mind is the best. Living in your parents house is not for long is just a short period of time. Go to Lagos, some people are living in hell there, you will see all these beautiful ladies coming out from trenches houses or areas. Is not their fault but we have a failed leaders. Live your life the way you want it. You don’t owe anybody explanation 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by Apus: 2:10pm On Dec 24, 2023 |
allthingsgood: Seems you lack comprehension. Read again. |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by Fountainofyouth(f): 2:10pm On Dec 24, 2023 |
iReddington: Fixed. 2 Likes |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by Sammy5413(m): 2:11pm On Dec 24, 2023 |
Bro, nothing to feel bad about, even the prodigal son saw bills wey dey outside, Em run back go em papa house 2 Likes |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by mariahAngel(f): 3:51pm On Dec 24, 2023 |
CSTRR: Did it affect your relationship with him at first? How is your relationship with him now? No offense, but your dad went about it the wrong way. The best way would be to guide him (your son) early (on how to earn and be independent) That is where most parents get it wrong. |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by yinkbell: 3:59pm On Dec 24, 2023 |
Fountainofyouth: I understood you perfectly well. You don't need to be angry at folks airing their opinions on this forum. You only based your assumption on many cases you have witnessed. You sensed complacency in the guy altitude; thinking enjoying the parents luxury would impede him from pursuing his own dreams and ambitions. But that may not be the reason. The Op may still be trying to get his footings. When he is financially stable, he may find his way out, possibly, that may help him to save more and build his own house. It may not be what you are thinking. Know for sure that women also fight and kill over properties. 2 Likes |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by maasoap(m): 4:16pm On Dec 24, 2023 |
PastorFire:Weak you said? I wish you know me in real life. Life is too short to take everything as do or die. 70, 80 years, you're either forgotten or you're history. |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by maasoap(m): 4:28pm On Dec 24, 2023 |
.. 1 Like |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by Uptheante(m): 4:42pm On Dec 24, 2023 |
maasoap:That's impressive bro, one thing in life is to move at your own pace & do what's best for you not minding external pressure from folks who have no idea what is best for you. No mind that foool, he's too emotional like a woman 1 Like |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by maasoap(m): 4:46pm On Dec 24, 2023 |
Uptheante:I don't understand why men like to put themselves under unnecessary pressure. They would rather do things based on what people would say instead of what is comfortable for them 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by CSTRR: 7:32pm On Dec 24, 2023 |
mariahAngel:Yeah, it did. I didn't call him for four months. Though To be fair, I was already working 9 to 5 job and earning, while still living in my parents house. He saw no reason why I was still in his house 2 Likes |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by izibili44: 7:52pm On Dec 24, 2023 |
[You are very wrong. Nigerian is one of the country. When a man start earning good money the first thing he want to do is build is own house. quote author=Fountainofyouth post=127570380]90% Nigerian men are always entitled to their parents property, they never want to build or have theirs, smh.[/quote] |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by allthingsgood: 2:56am On Dec 25, 2023 |
maasoap: Just say Amen. Leave story |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by allthingsgood: 2:58am On Dec 25, 2023 |
Apus: You seethe one that appears slow Stay there and be eating mummy food |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by Gentlesoul2021(m): 4:48pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
mariahAngel: My friend's dad is late. Infact he committed suicide due to the maltreatment from his wife (my friend's mom). The woman rubbed it on his face that she own the house, truly she does. It's out of the frustration the man packed out and later on committed suicide. My friend told me his mom has given him and his second brother an ultimatum to leave the house. They are grown up, he's 29 while the brother is 27. They have a lil bro of about 10 or 12. The woman is in her mid or late 40. I heard people saying she wants to remarry.... Still plump and beautiful... I guess the commenter quoted may b experiencing same with his dad. The dad may no longer be with his mom Nd gave him an altimatum to leave so he can get himself a new woman . I'm just guessing due to what I av experienced... It's pretty bad if u ask me.... 1 Like |
Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by Gentlesoul2021(m): 5:29pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
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