Valerieee:
My dearest Nairalanders I need your help and advice.

A little background about myself. I am a young girl of 21. Studying at one of the prestigious universities in Nigeria and currently in 300L. Is it weird that I have zero to no social media presence like people of my age. People look at me like I'm crazy when I tell them Its been years I visited my Facebook and Instagram accounts, I find it boring and not interesting atall. I don't even have the apps on my phone anymore though I still have the passwords but zero urge to visit those sites. I still take pictures, infact I love taking pictures but I just store them in my google photos, no urge to share on social media at all. Sometimes I share on my Whatsapp status which has my family (Mom, Dad and siblings) alone as contacts. My roommate thinks am making a big mistake and may not get a good guy as a partner since I also rarely go out. I really wish I can change and post more or even become more active on social media but I just love my privacy and being anonymous.

Please those who are more experienced on these things should advice me, am I losing so much by being invisible Online? Offline I am very outgoing and have no problems communicating with people and friends but Online is something else.

let's see 🙈 ya pics first,lest it be you are suffering from self esteem issues.

This may sound selfish for men..

But what you describe in your post, with your level of education and a less social media brouhaha, my dear that's beautiful..

It's a great stock that you have in your arsenal. Pls don't throw it away.

Men will trade valuables for it.

Just be feminine, submissive and loyal to who you allow date you, the guy go dey thank God low key

Valerieee:
My dearest Nairalanders I need your help and advice.

A little background about myself. I am a young girl of 21. Studying at one of the prestigious universities in Nigeria and currently in 300L. Is it weird that I have zero to no social media presence like people of my age. People look at me like I'm crazy when I tell them Its been years I visited my Facebook and Instagram accounts, I find it boring and not interesting atall. I don't even have the apps on my phone anymore though I still have the passwords but zero urge to visit those sites. I still take pictures, infact I love taking pictures but I just store them in my google photos, no urge to share on social media at all. Sometimes I share on my Whatsapp status which has my family (Mom, Dad and siblings) alone as contacts. My roommate thinks am making a big mistake and may not get a good guy as a partner since I also rarely go out. I really wish I can change and post more or even become more active on social media but I just love my privacy and being anonymous.

Please those who are more experienced on these things should advice me, am I losing so much by being invisible Online? Offline I am very outgoing and have no problems communicating with people and friends but Online is something else.

I can relate cause I'm similar to you. You know what, visit this personality test below and answer each questions honestly. You'll understand yourself better and appreciate who you are.

duduade:
After you start visiting all those Shiloh and Co for ten years consecutively on top seeking the right husband you want come back here abs re ask

Slow down, is it that she can't have a relationship offline or peeps have been struggling with suitors before the advent of social media?
Not everyone is a social media freak,but it doesn't mean they are not sociable outside social media.We are all uniquely different,let's just come to terms with it.

Ed12:
This may sound selfish for men..

But what you describe in your post, with your level of education and a less social media brouhaha, my dear that's beautiful..

It's a great stock that you have in your arsenal. Pls don't throw it away.

Men will trade valuables for it.

Just be feminine, submissive and loyal to who you allow date you, the guy go dey thank God low key

You are a real niggar bruhv, this is the type of girl that got a lot of brothers dreaming.OP don't change a damn thing about you, your dream man is coming your way pretty soon.

No woorryyyy if u no see husband dm me i will marry you... i forgot u dont use social mediaNo woorryyyy if u no see husband dm me i will marry you... i forgot u dont use social media...

Valerieee:
My dearest Nairalanders I need your help and advice.

A little background about myself. I am a young girl of 21. Studying at one of the prestigious universities in Nigeria and currently in 300L. Is it weird that I have zero to no social media presence like people of my age. People look at me like I'm crazy when I tell them Its been years I visited my Facebook and Instagram accounts, I find it boring and not interesting atall. I don't even have the apps on my phone anymore though I still have the passwords but zero urge to visit those sites. I still take pictures, infact I love taking pictures but I just store them in my google photos, no urge to share on social media at all. Sometimes I share on my Whatsapp status which has my family (Mom, Dad and siblings) alone as contacts. My roommate thinks am making a big mistake and may not get a good guy as a partner since I also rarely go out. I really wish I can change and post more or even become more active on social media but I just love my privacy and being anonymous.

Please those who are more experienced on these things should advice me, am I losing so much by being invisible Online? Offline I am very outgoing and have no problems communicating with people and friends but Online is something else.

If you do not need to be seen and heard, you do not need social media.

Just kys before it's too late

duduade:
After you start visiting all those Shiloh and Co for ten years consecutively on top seeking the right husband you want come back here abs re ask

Before the Advent of internet/Social media, people lived their lives to the fullest and, on an average, were morally upright compared to today. In fact, internet/SM is the main reason of the decadence that has become a norm in our society, especially amongst women.

My point is, there's a better chance at finding a morally upright girl among women that are not really into SM than otherwise.

It's your life, I don't think you're making any mistakes, just look for a balance that's all. I used to spend so much time on my tecno phone surfing the web for fun, until I realized I could earn something from it and the time I spent there stopped being wasteful to me.