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Why Is That When People Make It Or Get To The Top, They Don't Like Helping Their by kabanayol9(m): 10:46am On Dec 27, 2023 |
If you have been through storms of life and you overcame there is no way pride will enter you. I am talking from experience though una fit correct me, if two friends are striving to make it, if one finally does, why is it that the one that made it 95% of them forgets the other friend who is still struggling, an helping hand is okay, a situation you yourself had experienced. No come dey ask me who i don help, i am almost there but still do the little i can afford to help. Life is vanity, we hold too much to what we can never keep, we all see lessons from life but daily we ignore. Anyways last last, we will all be successful, timing differs, each day we wake up, there is hope 100%. 8 Likes |
Re: Why Is That When People Make It Or Get To The Top, They Don't Like Helping Their by Nebes: 1:22pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
kabanayol9: Sometimes people you think have made it are still struggling in silence. 32 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Why Is That When People Make It Or Get To The Top, They Don't Like Helping Their by kabanayol9(m): 1:46pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Nebes:I agree boss but they would have done well to speak out but not all of them. |
Re: Why Is That When People Make It Or Get To The Top, They Don't Like Helping Their by Blitzking: 2:38pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
I dont have many friends but the few I have would go the whole length for each other...we lift each other up and we are all millionaires. We are already laying the foundations to be billionaires. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Is That When People Make It Or Get To The Top, They Don't Like Helping Their by mosho2good: 2:54pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Blitzking:Can I join the moving train. Maybe you can lift me up also 3 Likes |
Re: Why Is That When People Make It Or Get To The Top, They Don't Like Helping Their by MyVILLAGEpeople(m): 3:11pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
mosho2good: Sometimes you people think it's so easy like that. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is That When People Make It Or Get To The Top, They Don't Like Helping Their by Maj196(m): 3:26pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
kabanayol9:Not everyone will be successful. That's the bitter truth 1 Like |
Re: Why Is That When People Make It Or Get To The Top, They Don't Like Helping Their by davillian(m): 3:43pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
It's not every human that has a helping heart Just have that at the back of your mind..... Some people might be poor but would still help the little way they can While some would be rich but won't help with water. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is That When People Make It Or Get To The Top, They Don't Like Helping Their by kabanayol9(m): 3:45pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Maj196:Everyone will be successful, e just get levels, there is no one GOD Almighty hasn't done well for. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is That When People Make It Or Get To The Top, They Don't Like Helping Their by kabanayol9(m): 3:50pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Blitzking:Smiles..... You are fortunate, thank GOD for the blessings, well my own close friends not frenemies o those who pretend, we are still praying to GOD to bless us all. |
Re: Why Is That When People Make It Or Get To The Top, They Don't Like Helping Their by kabanayol9(m): 3:57pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
davillian:That is true, not every human that has a helping hand, one of guy then wey nothing don sup, we dey on talking terms, o boy as GOD bless am, my guy bone me. But does money 💰 changes people to that extent? |
Re: Why Is That When People Make It Or Get To The Top, They Don't Like Helping Their by Maj196(m): 4:04pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
kabanayol9:I beg to differ 1 Like |
Re: Why Is That When People Make It Or Get To The Top, They Don't Like Helping Their by Lordswazz(m): 5:28pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
kabanayol9: Even the begotten son of God Almighty, Jesus, said, "The poor will always be with you." Now I know you want to be hopeful and it's good, but NOT EVERYONE WILL BE SUCCESSFUL. The only prayer you should have on your lips every day is to not be among the "poor" Jesus was referring to, and then back it up with hard work and zeal. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is That When People Make It Or Get To The Top, They Don't Like Helping Their by wiseone28: 5:40pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Everyone expect you to help them which it is not so.. You can't help everybody 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is That When People Make It Or Get To The Top, They Don't Like Helping Their by DyingFetus: 6:31pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Entitlement mentality day worry you Better go and kys before you regret ever living 5 Likes |
Re: Why Is That When People Make It Or Get To The Top, They Don't Like Helping Their by Karlifate: 7:05pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
kabanayol9: And when they "speak out", you'll be the first to mock them & spread gossip. It's very easy to castigate players on the football field, when you're a mere spectator. |
Re: Why Is That When People Make It Or Get To The Top, They Don't Like Helping Their by Karlifate: 7:10pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
kabanayol9: Money doesn't "change" anybody, it only amplifies your personality. You don't expect the dude's schedule to remain the same, when he's upgraded financially. If he's still hanging out with you, you'll still be the same person to say he's become pompous due to your insecurity. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is That When People Make It Or Get To The Top, They Don't Like Helping Their by Blacklion3: 7:33pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Everything is not as easy as you think it is. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is That When People Make It Or Get To The Top, They Don't Like Helping Their by johnog4sure: 7:53pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
The challenge is what many people call 'help' is actually 'handouts' if I keep giving u handouts then you are leeching no body likes leeches, if I was leeching I won't make it. Show them how you make it, they will run or cannot replicate your success |
Re: Why Is That When People Make It Or Get To The Top, They Don't Like Helping Their by seanwilliam(m): 8:43pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
There’s something called closing the gap 1 Like |
Re: Why Is That When People Make It Or Get To The Top, They Don't Like Helping Their by 1Sharon(f): 8:45pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
This is the reason rich people don't like to hang out w/ the poor because they'll be pulled down to their level. How many ppl can rich ppl help and still remain rich? 5 Likes |
Re: Why Is That When People Make It Or Get To The Top, They Don't Like Helping Their by mosho2good: 8:51pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
MyVILLAGEpeople:I know it not easy and I'm ready to start with determination |
Re: Why Is That When People Make It Or Get To The Top, They Don't Like Helping Their by online4business: 9:01pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
You can help all you want but the truth remains that 1% will be wealthy filthy rich 4% will be rich can afford anything they wish 15% will be comfortable 80+ will be dead broke. It's universal principle of life. Check all the schools first class 1% 2nd class 4% third class and the rest na them plenty pass. 1% of all websites make more than 90% of the money 90% struggle to even pay for hosting after the first year. Even yahoo 1% dey cash out steady why 90% just dey follow follow. Ask yourself why? It's because of the action the 1% take than the overwhelming 90% will never take. That's what seperate the rich from the poor. People think it's luck yes luck happens when preparation meets opportunity. The more hardworking you get the more luckiest (lol you become) Recap you now know the majority is always wrong. if you get nothing else out of my rant please write this down. POPULAR CULTURE AND OPINION ARE BS. Find the 1% those who don't follow the popular culture and you increase your chances of success. If success is easy why isn't everyone successful. Patience and persistence following the right formula that works is important. In SEO and online business where I leave if you follow the nerds mentality (popular culture) you're wired to fall into cliff. Find the 1% Become a life long learner Always see and count investing in your education as important (one good idea from a course is worth 12 months playing blind archery. That's what most people starting business do they play blind archery coming to nairaland looking for idea to invest without first investing in educating themselves. Let me end my rant with a quote from a mentor the late charlie munger warren buffet business partner. If it is wisdom you're after, you're going to spend a lot of time on your ass reading." Here's charlie munger nuggets I'm thinking I of adoption. "I don't have too much interest in teaching other people how to get rich." When ask why he's muggers reply. Intense interest in any subject is indispensable if you're really going to excel in it" and only few people develop the interest. I'd hope my rant help someone out there get to the top. It's lonely at the top but at least it's not crowded. Remember people are determined to be right than become rich. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Is That When People Make It Or Get To The Top, They Don't Like Helping Their by pansophist(m): 9:18pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Money/status are revealers. Those on top that refused to help are just like that regardless. But again, if you think money is the only qualifier to know who is on top and living the good life, then you have a very narrow way of seeing the world. Money is just material wealth, and lots of wealthy folks commit suicide daily. As one go up in status, his problems doesn't end, it only evolves. Poor people won't understand this, hence wealthy folks just segregate themselves. Rich people also need who to trust, they want to be loved, their money can't cover their shortcomings (eg a short man), they also feel insecure. They need genuine friends, they want to be vulnerable, etc. You don't know the heavy price they paid to be wealthy, and they might be jealous of you that's poor but still have your peace. They can see on a higher plain because they've climbed far. They struggle too. Your helper also need help. But to those still in survival mode, they can't think past money, and just assume because you have it, then you have no problems. That's wrong. 19 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Is That When People Make It Or Get To The Top, They Don't Like Helping Their by schoolboymatt(m): 9:21pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
before I embarked on my journey, I made you an offer to ride with me, but you declined. you said I should go forth, If(when) the coast is clear, I should come for you. so you don't want to die, but you want to go to heaven. nah broh..its a give and take world. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is That When People Make It Or Get To The Top, They Don't Like Helping Their by Kevineleven(m): 9:42pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
It is because most rich people are psychopaths, only very few are good people. |
Re: Why Is That When People Make It Or Get To The Top, They Don't Like Helping Their by wwwtortoise(m): 10:37pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
kabanayol9: Don’t you know that the rich also cry? Relax man, nobody has it all sorted out. Life challenges can never be solved absolutely rather they only transform from one form to another. How did I know this? Listen fam, looking back I remember praying and brainstorming on a stead to be where I am today. Now, on getting here my priorities have changed in pursuit of more. So you see, human needs are insatiable. It’s an unending cycle. But at a point you’ll realize that what actually matters in this life are basically immaterial in nature. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is That When People Make It Or Get To The Top, They Don't Like Helping Their by pansophist(m): 10:41pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
wwwtortoise: Yes. I have been saying this here for long. The immaterial are what actually matters, and material wealth are complimentary. A wealthy woman that is not sexually satisfied will go get it from a broke boy that has dedicated his life to knacking as a calling ![]() Big man will park his car to go to the ghetto to meet iya alagbo to give her better herbal medicine. Though he is rich, he needs the service of a poor woman. Rich folks are mostly wolves, very wise within themselves, and need those lower to feel respected, and to put their wealth in the spotlight becsuse if everyone are rich, then no one is rich. A governor that is wealthy and has access to unimaginable funds recently passed away. So time was actually his greatest wealth, and poor man has it in abundant. Or all these rich western people that yahoo boys are exploiting becsuse they need companionship. Their big houses, money, and financial freedom could not fill the desire for love and to be loved. Life is lived immaterially, money just makes it more interesting. etc. 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Is That When People Make It Or Get To The Top, They Don't Like Helping Their by kabanayol9(m): 10:54pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
wwwtortoise:Thanks for more enlightenment, everyone go through one stuff or the other but i think that shouldn't hinder helping a good friend. |
Re: Why Is That When People Make It Or Get To The Top, They Don't Like Helping Their by kabanayol9(m): 11:00pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Karlifate:Are you saying because money 💰 has come now, his scheduled changed, upgraded financially, he can't still be hanging with his family, girlfriend? I can't say because he is still hanging out with me, i should be saying he is now pompous, No. |
Re: Why Is That When People Make It Or Get To The Top, They Don't Like Helping Their by kabanayol9(m): 11:08pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Karlifate:Nah women dey do that one, real men doesn't gossip, it's just for the good friend to know what he is passing through, a good friend wouldn't do so. About castigation, i am just wondering why people changes after making it and forgetting people wey dem dey before. |
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