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Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by Hayaoga1(m): 10:29pm On Jan 11 |
Acidosis: My wife also bought this rubbish, and our baby never liked it. It's a total waste of money 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by fatima7onochie: 10:29pm On Jan 11 |
A lesson to the unmarried: look before you leap!A lesson to the unmarried: look before you leap!... |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by Prettygirl200(f): 10:43pm On Jan 11 |
Enemyofpeace:mutewww I rebuke you. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by jaxxy(m): 10:50pm On Jan 11 |
Valoromega: Don't give huge money to anyone especially a woman unless they have shown good financial accountability or work and earn good money themselves. if not tendency to abuse it is 70% high. A good wife will get a list of things even if its from her mother and pass it across to her husband for his input b4 heading to buy whats not needed with his hard ended money. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by IamAsiri: 11:21pm On Jan 11 |
Pecoleee345: What you bought for 200k last year October cannot be less than 350k - 400k right now. Also, buying things for your 2nd child, you will agree with me, is quite different from buying things for the first time. |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by grandstar(m): 11:27pm On Jan 11 |
ObaOfYorubaLand: Valoromega Go and buy the things yourself as advised. They'll dare not challenge you and if they do, just inform them that they are overspending and you can no longer afford it. They'll most likely be too ashamed to confront you. |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by frozen70(f): 11:32pm On Jan 11 |
Valoromega: Even tripplet list of things, 400k is too much I think you should take the remaining list to your sister and both of you will go and buy them and you bring it home Now taje note, it will definitely cause problem only if you reveal who bought it If you dint start now to correct nonsense You may never be able to correct it |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by Southwestidiot: 11:40pm On Jan 11 |
Valoromega:I had the same issue with my wife when we had our first child, her brothers wife was playing a fast one on her I kept sending money every month yet nothing tangible from the list given to us both for the mother and child has been bought, I called her one day and requested for the form on Whatsapp she sent both. My guy without shame I went straight to lagos Island bought 80% of the items between mother and child I would sometimes order from jumia on my own. Within a month I bought everything and other things I felt my child would need. No need to fight her, go get the items yourself bring it to her, na you dey fight and sweat for the money not the mom. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by saintruky(m): 11:40pm On Jan 11 |
LordIsaac: Very true... Me i dey OP shoes, i doubt if i buy reach 200k sef and all is set... I thank God for the wife he give me o |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by Enemyofpeace: 11:51pm On Jan 11 |
Prettygirl200:na so love dey take start o |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by dontrulee: 12:27am On Jan 12 |
Hold extra money or cash Incase you may need to eventually have an emergency C.S. Is your delivery pack ready? Do you have extra money Incase the baby is admitted in the neonatal unit? Hope you have extra money for miscellaneous? Labour, delivery(either SVD or CS), and post delivery dey gulp money. That's what you should prepare for more. Wishing your wife a safe delivery! |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by Gadafii: 12:48am On Jan 12 |
fxexperts:400k is a lot to buy done reasonable mother and baby stuff mumu Op complain her wife is yet to buy tangible items the baby and mother will need after birthā¦nobody talked about training the child to adulthood I bet if you have 40k in your available but you are already broke shamming someone q |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by eenai(m): 1:30am On Jan 12 |
Instead if you appreciate these women for for what they are doing to make the baby comfortable when he/she arrives. You don run come naira land make them advise you. Oya nah pursue your mother in law and collect the money for your wife hand go market whether you go fit buy any thing. That is women unit you have done your bit by providing the money leave them, them go sort themselves out. |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by 4KNGOATS(m): 1:55am On Jan 12 |
Valoromega: Bros u need to take control and act like a man in the house. Anything concerning your baby should be done with you and your wife alone. Involving a third party should never be tolerated. |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by patomberekpe(m): 3:30am On Jan 12 |
You are pathetic for bringing your family issue to the social media. What exactly do you want people on social media to say to you" What is wrong with this Generation? every little thing they showcase in social media, can't you settle this little issue? why social media? they will only destroy your marriage instead of helping it. Please go and settle the little issue at home and stop talking in the social media. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by BluntCrazeMan: 4:06am On Jan 12 |
Valoromega:Sissi Good Morning. You sef,, you can nag well well. So, the hospital didn't give you guys the list of things to be bought (or ābothā) - at the time when she started antenatal?? |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by honour7: 4:17am On Jan 12 |
fxexperts: You people will be supporting rubbish, dem for hear say poor man no dey born again. Didn't u read were he said the total things they bought is not up to that value. A good Wife would go to her husband and say look at what we bought. Look at how much it cost, "not the money is not enough we need more money" A good wife would also prioritise on essentials when she sees the money is not enough which was another point he raised. |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by opius: 5:00am On Jan 12 |
What is after 6 is more than 7 oo. You still have so many things to attend to after she give birth. These people will milk you dry during naming ceremony, baby food and pampas are still there, baby drugs and so much more. Spend moderately please. |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by oladele239(m): 5:13am On Jan 12 |
As bad as the economy may seem , 200k to 300k can still get something tangible for baby things. The truth is if care is not taken , you end up buying things you don't need. I remember we bought carrier and breast pump we never used. |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by MVLOX(m): 5:41am On Jan 12 |
Valoromega: Bro I can tell you for free that the two of the are scamming you.... My wife will be delivering our 3rd and 4th children later this month too and I haven't even spent 120k yet I have bought 98% of what is needed. Take noted of things I have said here.... We have are twins, I have bought 98% of the items with less than 120k and lastly I went to get this items myself..... Sometimes you just have to do it yourself in a bid to do it right and save yourself of so much stress. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by Chinny024(f): 5:47am On Jan 12 |
Valoromega: She should start buying with Antenatal list..to avoid embarrassment...Then let her add few things that's not on the list for her own consumption..Every basic thing is on the list..Goya, spirit, confit pad- enough, panties, cotton wool, combs, breast pads, braziers, diaper change mat, coverall, baby cap, soaks,and clothes,cream, soaps, oil..Mackintosh..For home and hospitalš..Lochia may gush out unexpectedly, baby bed and nets., etc.. You guys should stock house with food too..į»mį»„gwį» loading.. Don't quarrel her over the money now, try and get the list yourself and see how far she has bought..Things hv skyrocketed lately...Avoid panic buying!..Ensure basic things are sought out for first. More over, clothes of 1month isn't bad for a newborn..In most cases, by the time baby starts going out for 6wks iand 10 wks mmunization, it's already his or her size perfectly. She should get more of cover all and few new born tops or gowns..Growth is rapid. In 4months time..u would find out those clothes are for another babyš coming.. Get more sizes of midi diapers...Cos at 1month, some babies already outgrown the very smallest size of mini especially big baby with 3 plus kg at birth. My kids starts using midi few was after birth. Ensure she exclusively breast feed the baby..It's more cost effective and reduces the chances of illnesses.. Una go dey alright las las!. Congratulations in advance!. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by Ed12(m): 6:13am On Jan 12 |
The day that you will realised that women don't care about your struggles, you will sit up as a man. Next time, tell her frankly to buy the most baby things with the money other preferences will be met later, and if necessary. God forbid, If you go broke, your marriage story will change again. She will frustrate you |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by Owiii(m): 6:25am On Jan 12 |
Valoromega:You should have given them the money in tranches of say 100k, 50k and the rest. They are reaping you off. There are some mandatory things you will take to the hospital which don't cost much. If everyone is buying baby stuff for over 400k, how about those that don't have the means? How did their baby survive and was given birth to and grew up? They are telling lies to you. |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by Owiii(m): 6:28am On Jan 12 |
Pecoleee345:Abiiii.....over spending. If he has the means, he shouldn't be complaining. |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by Owiii(m): 6:30am On Jan 12 |
larryUG:Bed that you will put the baby and he wakes up immediately. |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by ikdaddy01(m): 6:38am On Jan 12 |
They ve not given birth to new baby madam have landed already. WahLur |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by difference5050: 6:54am On Jan 12 |
My dear try to call two of them, try to talk to them in politing and peaceful Mannar . Tell them that in this country right now is very scaring that everybody need to be managing things carefully. That this is the best time for you to save for your future children even the one you expecting this month . Try to convince them that things are very had now. Then if they fail to understand that , you need to act like a man . How , try to break the bond between your wife and the mother carefully .make your wife your best friend tell her your plan for your future kids in detail .this is a difficult task that you must continue reminding her anytime she misbehave ( your wife) but if you try your best to convince her and she fail to understand you. Try Blan B which is by fire by force ie anytime she go against your plan shout at her but later all you call tell that what you are doing is for better future for the family thanks |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by stanvesco(m): 6:59am On Jan 12 |
Valoromega: Sit with your wife. Let her write out the expenses so far... And write out the remaining things you need okay. Please don't allow third party to divide you and your wife. You can also just drive to the market and buy the remaining things. Things aren't that costly tho. Even in abuja 400,000 naira would get you all you need plus pay bills for normal delivery. Except, the target is to buy things for atleast 6monthe 1 Like |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by LegitDeals247: 7:25am On Jan 12 |
Pecoleee345: So make e no buy anything at all |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by austin55: 7:33am On Jan 12 |
Be wise! Do not go broke because you trying to meet up unnecessary demands. Google or make research on basics needed and follow your wife to market and buy. If you cant make sound decisions on what affects your finances and others, people who might not like you coming inform or inlaws or friends will help you make it, when you go broke or the decision fails they will drag you for the decision they help you make. BE WISE! |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by LegitDeals247: 7:39am On Jan 12 |
Esthered: Link to d pregnancy thread pls |
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