owagbeba:


Some of the ladies, when they abscond from the job of maids, choose to be on the streets as prostitute. It is so shamefully seeing these ladies being described as “kachara” meaning dirty / rubbish. Mostly west African girls from sierra leone, Nigeria, Liberia etc. but the Nigerians seem to be forthright in showcasing their services. And the worst of it, they are loud! Most of them provide service to the bottom rung of foreign laborers (Pakistanis, Bangladeshi etc., in Middle East. Ladies from North Africa-Morocco- are in the same league of business but not the same class. The North Africans are quite discreet compared to the west Africans in this trade.

The “gragra” mentality doesn’t win us friends at all, but rather disdain. Hope we all can change.

fiercehillz:
BBC will not do this type of documentary ooo.

The Middle East and some other parts of the Asia continent are a no-go-area for me.

Ningishzida:
I hope that one day this curse upon Africans ends but we as Africans still have a long way to go.

A lot of our women who end up as slaves in these Arab countries were not captured by Arabs, but rather deceived by fraudulent travel agents who lie to these women about how much money they can earn working as house helps in Saudi Arabia.

These women arrive in these Arab countries only to get their passport seized by their Arab "buyers" who use them as Sex slaves and every other form of inhuman treatment. They can't even leave afterwards even if they wanted to.

A sane government in Africa should be sensitizing its citizens on the dangers of traveling to Arab countries as an African. Unfortunately our government has no regards for its citizens.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PJ_O4th2PNc

Tallesty1:
Africans treat Africans worse.

JovialJune:



So we should allow other races treat us worse because of that? I and my siblings fight alot, should i now allow outsiders/strangers fight us unprovoked because they see us fight ourselves? Or what exactly is your point?

Allsmilez999:
Why are you surprised?

Mishkat al-Masabih 119

Abud Darda' reported God’s messenger as saying, “God created Adam when He created him and struck his right shoulder and brought forth his offspring white like small ants. And he struck his left shoulder and brought forth his offspring black as though they were charcoal. Then He said to the party on his right side, ‘To paradise, and I do not care’ and He said to the party in his left shoulder, ‘To hell, and I do not care’.”

Tallesty1:

Point 1. When the homeowner climbs the fence, the visitor will climb the roof. Once you break a boundary, you lose control of how far and quickly others can escalate it.

2. When a wife doesn't respect her husband, it will be difficult for her kids to respect him.

3. When Africans treat each other well and actively contribute to the development of their own countries, there would be fewer reasons for individuals to seek opportunities elsewhere. Less see finish brings more respect.

And finally, It's not healthy for you and your siblings to fight a lot; you are adults and capable of finding more constructive ways to communicate and get along.

JovialJune:



The bolded, do you understand analogy at all? Lol

2) Focus on the topic, we are talking of outsiders/strangers not the family as a unit

3) Tell me which country, family, husband and wife, siblings, ever in the history of mankind that get along without having issues? Does that give strangers the right to castigate, demean them because they think they can, then expect the aforementioned to be cool with it? Because that is what your previous comment was insinuating.

Tallesty1:
Corrected version:

A family is the microcosm of society, which is why I used it as an example. https://www.ilivas.com

Okay, the topic is outsiders, which in the post refers to Arabs and others, alright. If, while dancing in your house with a few friends, you jump from chair to chair, a friend dancing with you will jump from chair to chair to the bed, and it is your fault.

If Nigerians treat Nigerians right, for example, respect the sanctity of life and the rule of law, and protect the rights of their citizens at home and abroad like Western countries do, nobody will have the mind to treat us as slaves outside. It is common sense.

Apologies if you find my comment demeaning; that's truly not my intent. I was just saying that fighting a lot is not okay, with 'a lot' being the key word.

Now, if families fight each other and outsiders know that they fight each other, outsiders will fight them. If they are united and in peace, outsiders will avoid every single one of them because fighting one will attract the wrath of others.

You are running away from your country because your fellow countrymen are making life unbearable for you, and you expect outsiders to welcome and respect you? If they treat you badly, where will you go? What will you do? Who will come for you?

WantsandMore:
but this hadiths is said not to be about race

Ningishzida:
I hope that one day this curse upon Africans ends but we as Africans still have a long way to go.

A lot of our women who end up as slaves in these Arab countries were not captured by Arabs, but rather deceived by fraudulent travel agents who lie to these women about how much money they can earn working as house helps in Saudi Arabia.

These women arrive in these Arab countries only to get their passport seized by their Arab "buyers" who use them as Sex slaves and every other form of inhuman treatment. They can't even leave afterwards even if they wanted to.

A sane government in Africa should be sensitizing its citizens on the dangers of traveling to Arab countries as an African. Unfortunately our government has no regards for its citizens.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PJ_O4th2PNc

Tallesty1:

Point 1. When the homeowner climbs the fence, the visitor will climb the roof. Once you break a boundary, you lose control of how far and quickly others can escalate it.

2. When a wife doesn't respect her husband, it will be difficult for her kids to respect him.

3. When Africans treat each other well and actively contribute to the development of their own countries, there would be fewer reasons for individuals to seek opportunities elsewhere. Less see finish brings more respect.

And finally, It's not healthy for you and your siblings to fight a lot; you are adults and capable of finding more constructive ways to communicate and get along.