Tired of swiping left on Mr. Wrongs and wondering where all the good guys went?


I have found the place (Not where you think)


But first…


Your love life doesn't have to be a Nollywood drama filled with ghosting and heartbreak
I am your fellow Nigerian who cracked the code to finding Mr. Right (and trust me, it wasn't juju!).


So I'm here to share all my secrets with you on this thread!


Get ready for juicy tips, spicy insights, and real-life wisdom on navigating the sometimes-messy world of Nigerian dating.



We'll tackle everything from:


Unmasking the #1 reason for relationship failure (it's not what you think!)


Slaying those limiting beliefs that keep you attracting Mr. Wrongs


Unlocking your inner confidence queen and attracting the love you deserve


Mastering the art of Naija conversation and making Mr. Right swoon


And so much more!


Think of this thread as your personal love life headquarters.


I'll be dropping regular gems, hosting Q&As, and even sharing some hilarious (and relatable) dating fails.


So, whether you're single and ready to mingle, or just looking for some love advice from a fellow Naija, grab your popcorn, settle in, and get ready to rewrite your love story


Excited ?


Let's get this love party started!

The #1 Reason Your Relationships Fail

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Imagine this:


Your phone vibrates with a text.

Not just any text, mind you, but a sweet, spicy message from your supposed Mr. Right himself.


His words melt your worries away like butter on hot jollof, making your heart do a samba in your chest.


But then, reality bites.


His next text lands like a rogue okra in your egusi: "Baby, I can't do this anymore."


Your dreams of happily ever after crumble faster than chin-chin in a hungry family reunion.


Sound familiar?


Girl, I get it.


Navigated the murky waters of love, drowning in confusion and heartbreak.


But here's the truth bomb that changed everything...


The #1 reason for relationship failure ain't some bad luck juju or Mr. Wrong's wandering eye.



It's YOU, queen.


Now, don't get defensive.


This ain't about blame.


It's about unmasking the hidden patterns and limiting beliefs that keep attracting Mr. Wrongs like moths to a flame



Remember that time you chased after the bad boy with the swagger and the empty promises?


Or the time you ignored red flags the size of a Lagos bus because you were desperate for crumbs of affection?



Girl, you were blinded by your own doubts and fears.


Doubts that whispered you weren't worthy, fears that kept you settling for less than you deserve.



But you are worthy, queen.


You deserve a love story hotter than pepper soup on a cold night, a man who respects your crown and sets your soul ablaze.


And guess what? "Where Are The Good Guys?" holds the key to unlocking your own happily ever after.



This firecracker of a book isn't just about finding Mr. Right. It's about finding YOU.


It's about shattering the limiting beliefs that hold you back, silencing your inner critic, and unleashing your inner confidence queen.



You'll discover:

The hypnotic Naija Attraction technique that makes Mr. Right trip over himself to get to you. (Shhh... it's a well-kept secret!)


How to crack the Mr. Right code and spot the good eggs before you even swipe right.


Why you keep attracting Mr. Wrong and how to break the cycle for good!


And so much more...


Stop settling, queen.

Take control of your love life and claim your happily ever after.



P.S : Have any relationship challenge you want to share? Shoot me a dm

Sis, your eyes look redder than a pepper soup stain on a white agbada.


Been there, cried those mascara-fueled tears, scrolled through his Instagram like a broken record on repeat.


Trust me, I get it.


Heartbreak feels like a rogue suya skewer straight through the soul.


But listen up, queen, the love fairy ain't done with you yet!


This ain't the end of your happily ever after, just a plot twist (albeit a spicy one).


So grab a box of tissues and your fiercest attitude, because I'm here to sprinkle some healing juju and practical tips from "Where Are The Good Guys?" to help you bounce back like a Lagos bus after a minor fender bender.


First things first, ditch the self-blame.


Men ain't always the whole damn story, you know?


Maybe you dodged a bullet


Maybe your standards needed a Beyoncé-level upgrade


Maybe the universe had other plans (trust me, those plans usually involve a Mr. Right so fine you'll forget the Mr. Wrong ever existed).


Now, let's get practical:


Grieve, girl:

Bottling up emotions is like storing up bad palm oil – it'll explode eventually. Cry, scream into a pillow, write an epic breakup ballad (trust me, Beyoncé would be jealous). Let it all out.


Don't blame yourself:

You didn't cause the Titanic to sink, and you didn't make Mr. Wrong jump ship. Some loves end, and that's okay. It's not a reflection on you, just a detour on your journey to soulmate land.


Channel your inner Queen Bey:

Remember the fierce confidence that drew him in? Don't let heartbreak steal your crown. Slay that gym routine, rock that bold lipstick, and remind yourself you're a diamond, not a cheap pebble on the beach.


Remember, the best revenge is a life well-lived.


Focus on YOU.


Read that book you've been neglecting, take that solo trip you dreamt of, reconnect with your girls who always have your back.


Show the world (and him, by extension) that you're thriving, not surviving.



So chin up, queen. This heartbreak is just a chapter, not the whole story. You're stronger, fiercer, and ready for Mr. Right 2.0.


Go out there and write your own epic love story, one filled with laughter, loyalty, and enough spice to rival a bowl of pepper soup. ️


Remember, you are the author of your own love story.


Write it with fire!