I know two clients who after they divorced went for women in their 20s.

It is not only because of fertility concerns that they went for women below 30.

There are other reasons.

1. First and foremost, the younger they are, the fewer the baggage.

See, it is highly likely that a woman in her 30s has seen it and heard it all. She has dated many guys and has served many of them "breakfast". They have probably served her "breakfast" too. She has probably suffered emotional and psychological abuse in her previous relationships. She is a walking and talking embodiment of unresolved issues and dramas from her exes.

The cumulative effect of this is that there is a very high probability that she will bring all that baggage to her new relationship/man.

That's why relating with women in their 30s sometime feels like you are lifting an invisible weight.

It sometimes feels like you have to defend yourself because they make you feel that way. The reason is not farfetched.

They come with a lot of baggage from their previous relationships and they unwittingly punish their next boyfriend for the sins of the former.

They don't do this intentionally. It is a subconscious thing. They don't even know they are doing it but you feel the pressure as a man when you talk to them.

You feel like you are defending yourself from a crime you never committed. You feel like you are fighting someone else's fight.

2. The second reason most men go for women below 30 flows from the first point. Because women in the early to mid 20s bring less baggage from previous relationships, they tend to be more teachable, cooperative and agreeable.

Every man wants a woman whom he can mould and create in his image. A woman he can teach. A woman that can submit to his leadership and reapect his thoughts. In other words, an agreeable woman.

Unfortunately but unsurprisingly, most women in their 30s are easily disagreeable. Sometimes they argue and become defensive when they don't have to.

Again, the reason for this is a simple one.

A woman in her 30s knows stuff too and she comes into a relationship with that "I-have-been-around-for-long" attitude. The "sabi" attitude. Trust me, I have seen this play out a number of times.

Now, knowing stuff is not bad, but it comes at a price.

People who think they know things and who think they have experience are usually the most difficult to work or relate with. They are just difficult by default. They are less teachable and definitely less agreeable.

This automatically creates problems for a man. His natural response will be to avoid women with a lot of "experiences" and "sabi" attitude; and they are usually women above age 30.

This is why i made the point here one time that the older a woman gets, the humbler she should be, especially if she is still single and wishes to marry. Men nowadays don't have time for drama.

3. Fewer body counts. Now I have to be careful here. This is not automatic. There are women in their 20s with a higher body count than those in their 30s.

However it is a game of probability.

All things being equal, it is more probable that older women will have a higher body count than younger ones simply because they have been around in the sexual marketplace for a longer period.

They have been dated and jilted by men when they were in their 20s, and there is a high probability that those men had sex with them.

And I have also heard statistics that show that women with high body counts are ten times more likely to end in divorce.

It must be said however that for many men this is not a disqualifying issue. Some men will still marry a woman despite her body count as long as she is teachable, cooperative, submissive and agreeable.

Actually for most men an agreeable, submissive and cooperative woman wins the day every day.

Men don't like it when they feel like they have to walk on egg shells when talking to their woman.

Sadly a woman with baggage will always be disagreeable because in her head she is seeing and simulating her exes.

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These things are not linear

triangulation:
These things are not linear

They can't be linear at all

One way to be happy in this 2024... Never take anybody's opinion, serious these are mere speculation.

Well, I get your points but the thing is, it depends on the number of relationships and body count the lady have had. This thing has nothing to do with age at all. A lady might be in her 30s with one or two relationships all her life because she might not really fancy relationships. She might not have many body counts in her 30s as well.
Then, I know of young girls under 25 years who have had so many body counts. What about that.
It depends on the experience of the said lady.Some ladies have less experience about relationship and sex and they are in their 30s.
This life is not balanced at all

Guyman said fewer body counts

E go shock you.

In recent times we have seen Israel DMW, Ay comedian, Harrysongs and others who married women they senior with over 15 years. How e don end

Mtcheew , mumu topic wey no get head , rubbish .

The second and third points are very out of it😂😂😂

Hehehe 20’s ladies are teachable?? I never hear am before for my life.

Again, racking up body counts kind of reduces as ladies age cos they’ve seen shege and probably know the moves. You see those tiny tiny girls....Fire for fire.😂

There’s something about the “19” of an age, I’ll keep quiet here

Can you channel more energy on bettering your life?

Solofresh2:
Well, I get your points but the thing is, it depends on the number of relationships and body count the lady have had. This thing has nothing to do with age at all. A lady might be in her 30s with one or two relationships all her life because she might not really fancy relationships. She might not have many body counts in her 30s as well.
Then, I know of young girls under 25 years who have had so many body counts. What about that.
It depends on the experience of the said lady.Some ladies have less experience about relationship and sex and they are in their 30s.
This life is not balanced at all

op,literally meant single mommas