I was on a live chat on tiktok, where the topic was on the particular topic of a cheating spouse. Some women living in diaspora where of the opinion that if a man cheat on them, they will as well cheat on him too. It leads to a lot of debates.

Dealing with the discovery of a cheating spouse is undoubtedly a deeply emotional and challenging experience. It's crucial to approach such situations with sensitivity, empathy, and a focus on communication and resolution.


If you find yourself navigating through the complexities of a cheating spouse, consider the following:

1. Open Communication:
Initiate an honest and open conversation with your spouse. Clearly express your feelings, concerns, and the impact of their actions on the relationship. Encourage them to share their perspective, fostering an environment of transparency.

2. Seek Understanding:
While the hurt may be profound, try to understand the underlying reasons behind the infidelity. It doesn't excuse the behavior, but comprehending the root causes may facilitate a more informed discussion about the future of the relationship.

3. Professional Guidance:
Consider seeking the assistance of a marriage counselor or therapist. Professional guidance can provide a neutral space for both parties to express their emotions, explore reasons behind the actions, and work towards rebuilding trust or making decisions about the relationship's future.

4. Self-Care:
Take care of your emotional well-being. Coping with infidelity can be emotionally draining, and prioritizing self-care is essential. Surround yourself with supportive friends or family members who can offer understanding and encouragement.

5. Decision-Making:
Reflect on your own needs, values, and the feasibility of rebuilding trust. Consider whether the relationship is worth salvaging or if it's healthier for both parties to move forward separately. Decisions about the future should be made with a clear understanding of personal boundaries and emotional well-being.

6. Establish Boundaries:
If the decision is made to work towards rebuilding the relationship, establish clear boundaries and expectations. Both partners must commit to open communication, rebuilding trust, and addressing any underlying issues that may have contributed to the infidelity.

7. Time and Patience:
Rebuilding trust takes time, and healing is a gradual process. Be patient with yourself and your spouse as you navigate the aftermath. Regularly assess the progress and communicate openly about any concerns or challenges that arise.

Remember, every situation is unique, and there is no one-size-fits-all solution. Seeking the guidance of professionals and leaning on a support system can provide valuable perspectives and emotional support during this difficult time.

What advice would you give a spouse who found his or her partner cheating?

If you die pursuing that, they will have time to do it more, you be the ultimate loser.
Very beautiful advice

Do unto others that which you would want them to do unto you ....

@OP m naija we dey o

Easier said than done.
And definitely not when it was the wife that cheated.

The day I find out is the last time I will talk to her. We will go back to how it use to be before we met. Not enemies, just strangers.

All this only holds true when it's the man who is cheating ...

When he cheats on you, have open communication and seek professional help to see how you can move on ...

But once a woman cheats on you, KICK HER OUTTA YOUR LIFE IMMEDIATELY! ...

Cheating is terrible in a relationship