After the days hustle there's a joint I used to go and cool myself down and there's also a bar which also dubbed as a brothel hence relaxing at both intermittently so by default I've got to have some friends there though we don't visit ourselves as everything starts there and ends there,

So whenever in I'm either of the two spot ,this same people will come and ask for some changes to drink ,smoke or eat and this has been going on for long, they don't hesitate to come meet me for money everyday they sees me and this same will always keep coming like say them don see mumu hence I decided not to be giving them anything again and as a result of that some of them has started harbouring animosity towards me including the woman that owns the joint. NB :this woman too always asks me to buy her something even though she's the owner of the joint and I also dance to her tune. so nowadays I can see it clearly written on their faces that they are not happy with me because I've stopped buying or giving them money for anything

So please experience nairalanders, what advice would you offer me? Should I stay away from that environment and keep away from them or should I continue to my partronage there? Bashing is welcomed too as well as constructive criticism, thanks

Poison is real. Setup is real. You don't know the approach they will later decide to use for you. Therefore, avoid the place.

Avoid dere before dey poison ur drink someday

BigBlackPreek:
After the days hustle there's a joint I used to go and cool myself down and there's also a bar which also dubbed as a brothel hence relaxing at both intermittently so by default I've got to have some friends there though we don't visit ourselves as everything starts there and ends there,

So whenever in I'm either of the two spot ,this same people will come and ask for some changes to drink ,smoke or eat and this has been going on for long, they don't hesitate to come meet me for money everyday they sees me and this same will always keep coming like say them don see mumu hence I decided not to be giving them anything again and as a result of that some of them has started harbouring animosity towards me including the woman that owns the joint. NB :this woman too always asks me to buy her something even though she's the owner of the joint and I also dance to her tune. so nowadays I can see it clearly written on their faces that they are not happy with me because I've stopped buying or giving them money for anything

So please experience nairalanders, what advice would you offer me? Should I stay away from that environment and keep away from them or should I continue to my partronage there? Bashing is welcomed too as well as constructive criticism, thanks

Which kind advice u need again? They no longer like u because they don't get any benefit from u again.

Change location make dem no use I shine one day.

Dem no suppose tell blind man say rain dey fall.

Quit drinking alcohol or change your drinking location/joint...except you wish to play kalo-kalo with your life.

I don't go to places where they beg - beg up and down.
That's a wrong place to relax.
Change location

Are you still asking what to do? Like seriously?

ogashman:



Which kind advice u need again? They no longer like u because they don't get any benefit from u again.

Change location make dem no use I shine one day.

Dem no suppose tell blind man say rain dey fall.

Thanks for the advice I appreciate St first I was thinking if should stop going there I will be like a bad person .

carl90:
I don't go to places where they beg - beg up and down.
That's a wrong place to relax.
Change location

thanks boss, I appreciate

BigBlackPreek:
Thanks for the advice I appreciate St first I was thinking if should stop going there I will be like a bad person .

When you're dead would be better right?

chairman i will advice u to cut every ties u have wit dem, also dont let dem know ur movement as not to set u up, ur highest offer to them should be "GOOD MORNING"!!..

In giving to people, start what you can continue and don't make it every time

Klinxmanz:
chairman i will advice u to cut every ties u have wit dem, also dont let dem know ur movement as not to set u up, ur highest offer to them should be "GOOD MORNING"!!..

thanks for the advice, meanwhile I'm playing to get all I be needed right in my room.

BigBlackPreek:

OP I'd advise you visit there, be friendly with them, know your budget, get them something and make the environment good, then stop visiting that spot ever

Street is as bad as good

thanks so much, in fact I didn't visit through out yesterday, that place don commot from my mind

MIHLEXY:

OP I'd advise you visit there, be friendly with them, know your budget, get them something and make the environment good, then stop visiting that spot ever

Street is as bad as good

BigBlackPreek:
After the days hustle there's a joint I used to go and cool myself down and there's also a bar which also dubbed as a brothel hence relaxing at both intermittently so by default I've got to have some friends there though we don't visit ourselves as everything starts there and ends there,

So whenever in I'm either of the two spot ,this same people will come and ask for some changes to drink ,smoke or eat and this has been going on for long, they don't hesitate to come meet me for money everyday they sees me and this same will always keep coming like say them don see mumu hence I decided not to be giving them anything again and as a result of that some of them has started harbouring animosity towards me including the woman that owns the joint. NB :this woman too always asks me to buy her something even though she's the owner of the joint and I also dance to her tune. so nowadays I can see it clearly written on their faces that they are not happy with me because I've stopped buying or giving them money for anything

So please experience nairalanders, what advice would you offer me? Should I stay away from that environment and keep away from them or should I continue to my partronage there? Bashing is welcomed too as well as constructive criticism, thanks

Always decline to give at first ask.

This will teach the asker that it is not his or her right.

You can give the second time they ask.

Then not the third

This way u are are training them to value you and what they get.

If you decide not to give at all. Dem go still hail you. Naso life be

BigBlackPreek:
After the days hustle there's a joint I used to go and cool myself down and there's also a bar which also dubbed as a brothel hence relaxing at both intermittently so by default I've got to have some friends there though we don't visit ourselves as everything starts there and ends there,

So whenever in I'm either of the two spot ,this same people will come and ask for some changes to drink ,smoke or eat and this has been going on for long, they don't hesitate to come meet me for money everyday they sees me and this same will always keep coming like say them don see mumu hence I decided not to be giving them anything again and as a result of that some of them has started harbouring animosity towards me including the woman that owns the joint. NB :this woman too always asks me to buy her something even though she's the owner of the joint and I also dance to her tune. so nowadays I can see it clearly written on their faces that they are not happy with me because I've stopped buying or giving them money for anything

So please experience nairalanders, what advice would you offer me? Should I stay away from that environment and keep away from them or should I continue to my partronage there? Bashing is welcomed too as well as constructive criticism, thanks

Always decline to give at first ask.

This will teach the asker that it is not his or her right.

You can give the second time they ask.

Then not the third

This way u are are training them to value you and what they get.

If you decide not to give at all. Dem go still hail you. Naso life be

You don't need to be told, it's best you change location

Perfectman91:
You don't need to be told, it's best you change location

I quit going there today, them go think say I don travel if them no see me there again lol

Perfectman91:
You don't need to be told, it's best you change location

I quit going there today, them go think say I don travel if them no see me there again lol..

Perfectman91:
You don't need to be told, it's best you change location

I quit going there today, them go think say I don travel if them no see me there again until one day one of them jam me road or for another joint them go understand say I don change location lols

immortalcrown:
Poison is real. Setup is real. You don't know the approach they will later decide to use for you. Therefore, avoid the place.

omo I don quit going there since yesterday o, thanks for the advice boss

One thing must kill a man, no let alcohol kill you.


Quit alcoholism and live a healthy life

labake1:
One thing must kill a man, no let alcohol kill you.


Quit alcoholism and live a healthy life

Thanks for the advice

labake1:
One thing must kill a man, no let alcohol kill you.


Quit alcoholism and live a healthy life

thanks for the advice