Sweet uncooked meat. That's prick . Op congratulations you are getting pregnant this year.

superCleanworks:

You did 110% well.
as he no gree for you, you seff no gree for him.

Gbam
Going by the slogan ..no gree for anyone in 2024...

Jewessgratitud3:
Some people don't know how to show appreciation and me na, because I come From a home where we were raised with good manners and taught to be grateful and show appreciation for the littlest things, I always assume and expect everyone to possess such moral values. But it seems majority lack this virtue, reason I acted the way I did today.

There's this butcher i like buying meat from because his is always very tasty and sweet you don't need much seasoning to make your soups and stews any time you use his cow meat but he's always shouting whenever you price his meat. So sometimes I just avoid him but when he sees me in the market he'll be hyping me like..." oyinbo", how far and stuff but when I go to his stand again he'll start shouting if I price.

So, today, as I was approaching the meat section, he started hyping me again saying fine girl, bla bla.. he now said I should tell the woman selling noodles to give him a plate now . I now asked him what size he can finish, he said any size. I now went and placed order for a plate of noodles for him and told the lady to give him when she's done

I got to his stand to buy meat and he cut one tiny piece for me. I told him ah.. customer, it's too small now, please add jara for me, this man started shouting that he's not going to add anything. I said you're shouting, he said he'll shout that he can't add anything to the meat and continued talking so loud that everyone started starring at me.

I picked the meat, paid for it and went to meet the Noodles seller, asked them to package it, paid for it and took it away. I got to a busy road and saw a Mallam that usually supplies us water anytime theres no light to pump and gave it to him. He was so appreciative of it and I felt fulfilled blessing that Aboki than giving it to a rude and saucy butcher.

Did I do wrong?

I think Our Parents Failed in Teaching Us Street Virtues.... I wouldn't make that Mistake .... I would train My Children God manners & Weyrey Virtues so nobody can run them Madness .... We Must Face Realities ... You Did Nothing Wrong but becareful not to too Pepper him next time in that market ...

You can be waylaid & Maltreated ..... Next time just waka go other meat shop & if he hype you , Hype am Back ..... Na so dem dey call am Diplomacy .... If he querried you no buy meat from am ... tell am na send dem send you & na that customer dem send you go meet .... ....

Yoruba wey no get Abosi(Hypocrisy) No be Yoruba house dem raise am ....

DonroxyII:
I think Our Parents Failed in Teaching Us Street Virtues.... I wouldn't make that Mistake .... I would train My Children God manners & Weyrey Virtues so nobody can run them Madness .... We Must Face Realities ... You Did Nothing Wrong but becareful not to too Pepper him next time in that market ...

You can be waylaid & Maltreated ..... Next time just waka go other meat shop & if he hype you , Hype am Back ..... Na so dem dey call am Diplomacy .... If he querried you no buy meat from am ... tell am na send dem send you & na that customer dem send you go meet .... ....

Yoruba wey no get Abosi(Hypocrisy) No be Yoruba house dem raise am ....

He can not waylay me because I paid him his money for meat complete and I choose who I give my food to.

I thought the guy has sense but na yesterday I know he's numskull.

Jewessgratitud3:


He can not waylay me because I paid him his money for meat complete and I choose who I give my food to.

I thought the guy has sense but na yesterday I know he's numskull.

Never say Never ... Some people has nothing to lose when their Mental Spheres is Disconnected .. e dey spark wetin no Good ... As that guy behave so, His Brain 🧠 🙄 no good ... so act ahead of him not behind .... Waka front jeje ... if he misbehave to you ... arrest am !

Ok, so if you do person favor he no suppose reciprocate? Have you ever heard of the saying "one good turn deserves another."?Ok, so if you do person favor he no suppose reciprocate? Have you ever heard of the saying "one good turn deserves another."?...

I know people like you who would always want to cheat people in the market, you know he bought his meat expensive but you want him to sell it cheap for you plus give you jara. Do you get jara from the supermarket?

You already paid for the food, so you let him have it. Whether he was rude or not doesn’t matter. The only thing you would have done going forward was to stop patronizing him.

It’s people like you who would buy something for your bf and collect it back when things no longer look good.

So long as you already paid for it as his, then it’s his own.

That is wicked of you and it has nothing to do with been grateful.

sameoldguy:
I know people like you who would always want to cheat people in the market, you know he bought his meat expensive but you want him to sell it cheap for you plus give you jara. Do you get jara from the supermarket?

You already paid for the food, so you let him have it. Whether he was rude or not doesn’t matter. The only thing you would have done going forward was to stop patronizing him.

It’s people like you who would buy something for your bf and collect it back when things no longer look good.

So long as you already paid for it as his, then it’s his own.

That is wicked of you and it has nothing to do with been grateful.

Story. You can go and help him make another noodles.

Jewessgratitud3:
Some people don't know how to show appreciation and me na, because I come From a home where we were raised with good manners and taught to be grateful and show appreciation for the littlest things, I always assume and expect everyone to possess such moral values. But it seems majority lack this virtue, reason I acted the way I did today.

There's this butcher i like buying meat from because his is always very tasty and sweet you don't need much seasoning to make your soups and stews any time you use his cow meat but he's always shouting whenever you price his meat. So sometimes I just avoid him but when he sees me in the market he'll be hyping me like..." oyinbo", how far and stuff but when I go to his stand again he'll start shouting if I price.

So, today, as I was approaching the meat section, he started hyping me again saying fine girl, bla bla.. he now said I should tell the woman selling noodles to give him a plate now . I now asked him what size he can finish, he said any size. I now went and placed order for a plate of noodles for him and told the lady to give him when she's done

I got to his stand to buy meat and he cut one tiny piece for me. I told him ah.. customer, it's too small now, please add jara for me, this man started shouting that he's not going to add anything. I said you're shouting, he said he'll shout that he can't add anything to the meat and continued talking so loud that everyone started starring at me.

I picked the meat, paid for it and went to meet the Noodles seller, asked them to package it, paid for it and took it away. I got to a busy road and saw a Mallam that usually supplies us water anytime theres no light to pump and gave it to him. He was so appreciative of it and I felt fulfilled blessing that Aboki than giving it to a rude and saucy butcher.

Did I do wrong?

Why would you keep 'pricing' when he already offered you a good rate?

People like you deliberately get on people's nerves and then turn around to accuse them of being harsh, rude or all the other jargons you people use to qualify reactions to your original action.
I have met too many people like you in my line of business, you mount pressure, push me beyond limits where you didn't need to and then accuse me. Of course he will hype you because he knows you and have put the previous day behind him, it doesn't mean he won't 'shout' again if you make him.

The reason you guys do that and not put the other person into consideration is this 'overbloated ego' of "customer is king"
A customer who will make me loss my mind ain't shiiit.

Jewessgratitud3:


Story. You can go and help him make another noodles.

Smh

Victimoftribali:


Why would you keep 'pricing' when he already offered you a good rate?

People like you deliberately get on people's nerves and then turn around to accuse them of being harsh, rude or all the other jargons you people use to qualify reactions to your original action.
I have met too many people like you in my life of business, you mount pressure, push me beyond limits where you didn't need to and then accuse me. Of course he will hype you because he knows you and have put the previous day behind him, it doesn't mean he won't 'shout' again if you make him.

The reason you guys do that and not put the other person into consideration is this 'overbloated ego' of "customer is king"
A customer who will make me loss my mind ain't shiiit.

Please take your frustrations elsewhere. I don't know why you're crying more than the bereaved.

Business is not for everybody. If you don't have good customer relations and can build it, then drop that business cos you're not qualified to be a business owner.

Jewessgratitud3:


Please take your frustrations elsewhere. I don't know why you're crying more than the bereaved.

Business is not for everybody. If you don't have good customer relations and can build it, then drop that business cos you're not qualified to be a business owner.

Begging is for everybody, ngwanu go so he can give you his meat for free to be considered a good person. Ufio

DonroxyII:
Never say Never ... Some people has nothing to lose when their Mental Spheres is Disconnected .. e dey spark wetin no Good ... As that guy behave so, His Brain 🧠 🙄 no good ... so act ahead of him not behind .... Waka front jeje ... if he misbehave to you ... arrest am !

if you do someone a favor, allow them reciprocate on their own terms. 'doing a favor ' is not same thing as paying for a service, even if it were, there are limits a service provider can decide to go. If she wanted that extra meat that bad, she should have not bought the food for him, she should have instead, used the money to get extra meat. Atleast I didn't read her say she was forced to buy the food.

Victimoftribali:
if you do someone a favor, allow them reciprocate on their own terms. 'doing a favor ' is not same thing as paying for a service, even if it were, there are limits a service provider can decide go. If she wanted that extra meet that bad, she should have not bought the food for him, she should have instead, used the money to get extra meat. Atleast I didn't read her say she was forced to buy the food.

They already built personalisation so if the aboki is free to request for personal favour she is also free to request for personal favour .... The Aboki is an Ingrate ...

If I'm giving you as Per paddy ... & You No reciprocate doing my own times of needs ... I will withdraw myself & my gift from You .... Which kain parasitic friend be that ... I'm always on Symbiotic Relationships! ...

Do for Me, Make I do For You .... I do for You, You Do Me For me .. (My Sanity Must Be Protected) Except I do "Charities" & You Must Never-Ever Reciprocated Me with "Evils" .. I might Be Your Wreck !