carojody:

I can earn her full month salary in a deal. I am not thinking about the money, I'm only concerned about loyalty

Bro, personally I'll tell you to cut back.

Any relationship where you drop significantly more than you get emotionally or financially, you are likely to get hurt and be left holding the bag.

Get yourself a financial project in your name and start investing. Spend time with business colleagues.

When she asks you for things she should financially be able to cover, tell her you are working on your project and she should pay from her salary.

When she sees you are cut back, she will be forced to put in more emotionally and financially. If she is not willing to put in more, then the relationship is not worth it in my opinion

People telling you communication only will solve it have either not experienced it from the victim side or have taken your wife's side