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Re: Why Do Cheaters Keep On Cheating Even After Getting Caught? by AfroBeatDiary: 3:34pm On Feb 29 |
Premonition and conviction |
Re: Why Do Cheaters Keep On Cheating Even After Getting Caught? by Bluesearoll(m): 3:40pm On Feb 29 |
Addiction |
Re: Why Do Cheaters Keep On Cheating Even After Getting Caught? by ArchangelMicky(m): 3:48pm On Feb 29 |
Lifestyle 🤷🏾♂️ |
Re: Why Do Cheaters Keep On Cheating Even After Getting Caught? by wewe1(m): 3:49pm On Feb 29 |
This remind me of story of scorpion and frog. |
Re: Why Do Cheaters Keep On Cheating Even After Getting Caught? by bentenny(m): 3:52pm On Feb 29 |
Firstly,when someone cheats on their partner,it indicates the person doesn't love or value that partner! So when you forgive and welcome back a cheat,the cheat will simply feel you have no value for yourself to have even contemplated letting them back...hence,they will continue where they stopped! 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Cheaters Keep On Cheating Even After Getting Caught? by 10thTenthMan: 3:57pm On Feb 29 |
Maisiba: Because Basic Sexual and Lustful Pleasure as basic Instinct overrides intelligence. Basic Instinct says sexual pleasures from multiple partners (most often) is delicious. It is exciting. It is sweet. The games. The drama. The excitement. The adrenaline rush. The hiding. The secret calls and messages. The excitement in getting caught. The pleasure from these overrides intelligence. When strong enough, it (instinctive sexual desires and addiction to sexual pleasures and orgasm) can override intelligence which should normally clearly shows that cheating hurts partners, it is risky, can lead to unwanted pregnancies, STIs, it is expensive, steals time, effort, resources, it is energy sapping, can be frustrating, lead to physical fights with other lovers of a cheating partner etc. It is an addiction to the stalking, the singling out of a prey, the chase, the attack, the subduction, the conquering, the pleasures. These can be so strong as to override intelligence. When strong enough, justifications will be sought and made. These justifications can be valid or not valid. The argument is this. If your justification for cheating is valid, then LEAVE THE RELATIONSHIP FIRST BEFORE YOU SLEEP WITH ANOTHER PERSON!!!!! Naturally more men feel they have the right to cheat or have multiple sexual partners and experience multiple sexual pleasures from multiple women whenever they want and are opportune to. I feel this is instinct. Intelligence on the other hand, should us guide better and keep us safer by enabling us to make decisions that have the lowest probability and likelihood of stress and risk. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Cheaters Keep On Cheating Even After Getting Caught? by Lifemanage: 4:00pm On Feb 29 |
Quality20:Cos men pay bride price and dowries....women do not pay. So they got no right to give what their parents and they have been paid for. A woman who takes care of the family expenses and cheats if often not looked down upon by the men.. Nigerian women with entitlement mentality too much |
Re: Why Do Cheaters Keep On Cheating Even After Getting Caught? by Oghene86: 4:01pm On Feb 29 |
Maisiba: I am looking for one to ask this your question ⁉️ |
Re: Why Do Cheaters Keep On Cheating Even After Getting Caught? by chukwudiology(m): 4:03pm On Feb 29 |
It is there birthright |
Re: Why Do Cheaters Keep On Cheating Even After Getting Caught? by KaptainAfrika: 4:03pm On Feb 29 |
"You haven't seen the size of the derriere's of these women!" - Family friend who opened an Adult literacy class with his wife, after their retirement. |
Re: Why Do Cheaters Keep On Cheating Even After Getting Caught? by Myself2(m): 4:05pm On Feb 29 |
What is cheaters ? Is that even English at all ? |
Re: Why Do Cheaters Keep On Cheating Even After Getting Caught? by ufuosman(m): 4:07pm On Feb 29 |
Spagi:😂😂 |
Re: Why Do Cheaters Keep On Cheating Even After Getting Caught? by Spagi(m): 4:09pm On Feb 29 |
[quote author=ufuosman post=128709169] |
Re: Why Do Cheaters Keep On Cheating Even After Getting Caught? by Natbrowny: 4:12pm On Feb 29 |
Because it becomes a habit U cheat. U get caught. U don't care if u get caught again U just wanna do it. Same with stealing meat from pot |
Re: Why Do Cheaters Keep On Cheating Even After Getting Caught? by Kukutenla: 4:22pm On Feb 29 |
Mtchew Stupid question Useless answers 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Cheaters Keep On Cheating Even After Getting Caught? by luskysylver(m): 4:24pm On Feb 29 |
u just called them cheaters. so why are u still asking |
Re: Why Do Cheaters Keep On Cheating Even After Getting Caught? by Lifemanage: 4:27pm On Feb 29 |
Morbeta11:Ur head get oil. |
Re: Why Do Cheaters Keep On Cheating Even After Getting Caught? by b0rn2fuck(m): 4:28pm On Feb 29 |
Ajagun Obo.... |
Re: Why Do Cheaters Keep On Cheating Even After Getting Caught? by holyfather(m): 4:31pm On Feb 29 |
jaxxy:Seriously,is it so bad? |
Re: Why Do Cheaters Keep On Cheating Even After Getting Caught? by ceejay80s(m): 4:39pm On Feb 29 |
Maisiba:Cheat not cheater , please correct I am in Germany and viewing this, what about those in UK and USA viewing Nigerian English |
Re: Why Do Cheaters Keep On Cheating Even After Getting Caught? by ceejay80s(m): 4:41pm On Feb 29 |
Quality20:It's a lie, women dont |
Re: Why Do Cheaters Keep On Cheating Even After Getting Caught? by Skii(m): 4:44pm On Feb 29 |
It has to do with the brain and how we are wired! Once a neurological association has been made, that is, if the brain got a dopamine hit from having sex with someone else (other than ones spouse)...then there's almost no going back once the connection is made. The stronger the hit, and thus the connection, the more difficult it is to get off the hook. This is how addiction works and is applicable to smoking, drinking, womanizing, porn watching, masturbation...etc. This idea then will be to break the connection, or reverse connect with another dopamine releasing experience to the brain that produces the expected behaviour...in this case faithfulness to a spouse 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Cheaters Keep On Cheating Even After Getting Caught? by Vintage9999: 4:51pm On Feb 29 |
bentenny:the first assertion is incorrect. a man can cheat and still love his wife and family and do all that he's supposed to do. It's not quite the same for a woman. When a woman cheats, she has emotionally checked out, and lost respect for the man. Cheating for men n women is not the same 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Cheaters Keep On Cheating Even After Getting Caught? by Charly68: 4:59pm On Feb 29 |
Can a leopard change its skin ? |
Re: Why Do Cheaters Keep On Cheating Even After Getting Caught? by Nmezor(f): 5:06pm On Feb 29 |
Na addiction now o |
Re: Why Do Cheaters Keep On Cheating Even After Getting Caught? by PastorOlokonla: 5:13pm On Feb 29 |
Why would they not keep on cheating when they are been accepted after cheating. If your partner cheats and you remiain in the relationship, you are telling him you are ok with that lifestyle. |
Re: Why Do Cheaters Keep On Cheating Even After Getting Caught? by Acidosis(m): 5:18pm On Feb 29 |
Op, You're right. The only problem is that, according to your definition, a cheat is someone who gets caught. What if they never get caught? |
Re: Why Do Cheaters Keep On Cheating Even After Getting Caught? by yemmit90: 5:37pm On Feb 29 |
Maisiba: Because, cheating is an habit that developed over time. You don't expect a girl who has been in casual relationship with countless men to be faithful in marriage, same way you dknt expect a man who has slept with many women including prostitutes to be faithful in marriage. Decent women don't cheat at all, and if decent men must cheat, it must be a result of long separation( works or divorce) from their wives. |
Re: Why Do Cheaters Keep On Cheating Even After Getting Caught? by femi4: 6:00pm On Feb 29 |
Maisiba:A stolen ponmo tastes better than a bought one |
Re: Why Do Cheaters Keep On Cheating Even After Getting Caught? by Weknowbetter: 6:02pm On Feb 29 |
[b]BECAUSE THEY HAVE SOMEONE TO CHEAT ON, SOMEONE WHO TOLERATES IT |
Re: Why Do Cheaters Keep On Cheating Even After Getting Caught? by KanuSE: 6:05pm On Feb 29 |
PrimadonnaO: But there's love in sharing na. 🙂 |
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