As a lady or a guy, one thing that may be chasing people away from you despite your good character, may be your hygiene level. Imagine a decent, polite, loving, respectful and good lady with very dirty and smelly cloth, also having smelly hair. Some guys and ladies may be comfortable with certain ugly smells. Some may not clean certain parts of the body properly, some may have particules of faeces in the anus. These same people may be jovial and friendly, and still have dirtiness..

Today, spend time to be clean and hygienic. If you are comfortable with dirtiness, work on it.