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Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by Uchesis: 7:23am On Mar 03 |
Boogyman557:This guy ![]() ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by Uchesis: 7:27am On Mar 03 |
Karlifate:Exactly bro. . One of the scams of marriage is that you will be knacking your wife anytime your dick stand. . Big fat lie. . Most married men cheating today is because their wives no longer give it to them like before. . Especially after having children. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by Rickmann: 9:16am On Mar 03 |
canada123: Pls try to seek counseling. |
Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by Gerrard59(m): 11:51am On Mar 05 |
canada123: LOL! As someone whose parents owns hotels, I laughed when I read that line. It is not possible. In fact, the major patrons of sex workers are MARRIED MEN. Yes, married men. Unfortunately, there is no data yet, but I want to bet sexually active bachelors have sexual intercourse more regularly than their married counterparts. Marriage doesn't guarantee constant sex. If God wants to punish you, you get married to one of those Twitter feminazis who will accuse you of marital rape kini kon and you get exposed by their goodness Uju Anya and Co. ![]() ![]() Bants aside, marriage does not guarantee frequent sex. Your wife will deny you sex several times thus leading to frustration on your side. See the lamentations of fellow Nairalanders: https://www.nairaland.com/6888695/dear-married-men-how-cope My advice? You need therapy or strong spiritual prayer to let go of this addiction. Then, redirect your energies to other activities such as your popular sport, travelling, reading, learning a new language, starting a business, investing etc. There are more than a thousand activities to indulge in which are mentally stimulating and even though might be expensive, they have a high return oin investment. Having sex with different women - different yansh shapes and breast sizes - is sweet as a man due to testosterone, but the ROI is low. That has been my issue with brosititution. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by Gerrard59(m): 12:00pm On Mar 05 |
canada123: You are a rich man o. You need strong therapy and spiritual prayers as backup. Very strong one. I recommend Mountain of Fire Ministries. Go to the headquarters o. But sorry to inform you, you won't get regular sex from your wife, especially after childbirth and above two children. canada123: Which means you don't have a girlfriend in Canada. The question is: why? Since being in a committed relationship will reduce your "going outside" to satisfy yourself. 1 Like |
Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by Ilekokonit: 9:30pm On Mar 05 |
Uchesis: Fact 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by Ilekokonit: 9:33pm On Mar 05 |
Gerrard59: Universal fact. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by PastorOlokonla: 9:47pm On Mar 05 |
It wouldn't stop after marriage. Sorry to break it to you. |
Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by Ilekokonit: 10:11pm On Mar 05 |
canada123: I think what could break the temptation is non availability of funds. You could try opening an online savings account that only allows you to withdraw twice a year and you just make 2 withdrawals of $1 each on Jan 1 and 2 and then you cant withdraw until the next year when you then repeat the cycle. Also avoid credit cards which may allow you to withdraw cash at the machine. In fact, avoid loans and credit cards and from your salary only leave in your account what you need for the basics and transfer the rest into this 1 year account. This will slow you down at least by your not having access to cash easily and you should also tell your mum and siblings not to lend you any money i you ask the. Tell them you are saving for a mortgage. Actually if you have that kind of money, what about getting a mortgage even if it is a little one so that the bulk of your money will go to paying off your monthly mortgage and the good thing is that that house you buy will pay off in 25 years time and will be a good source of additional pension. All rent is waste by the way. Delete your only fans and Instagram accounts so that you don't get tempted by those women and if it means changing your phone number / sim card to avoid those women that already have your number, then so be it. The end justifies the means. Good luck. |
Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by canada123: 11:46am On Mar 06 |
imagrg: It is technically |
Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by canada123: 11:47am On Mar 06 |
Anashe: Wow from the comments now I’m scared, cause that was really my main aim of getting married to help solve this issue |
Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by canada123: 11:49am On Mar 06 |
Rickmann: I’ve started talking to close relatives and friends about it. And also trying to use the money to buy things for myself when the konji hits But another issue is my masturbation has increased greatly. I can masturbate like 6 times in a day . That’s another issue too |
Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by canada123: 11:50am On Mar 06 |
Gerrard59: I’m working on it. I’m 26. Would be 27 this year. Really working on getting a girlfriend . |
Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by canada123: 11:50am On Mar 06 |
Ilekokonit: This is really smart and a good way to go. Hopefully it helps , and hopefully I can also work on the after effect which is reducing my masturbation too 1 Like |
Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by canada123: 11:51am On Mar 06 |
PastorOlokonla: Meaning I have to figure it all out before getting married otherwise I would be cheating even in marriage badly Lord help me |
Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by canada123: 11:56am On Mar 06 |
Though so far haven’t told any of my siblings about this my terrible and shameful act In the last born , they are all married and here in Canada and United States . But I feel terrible telling them as I would break their hearts and all . Especially my mum, it would shatter her. Just few friends that know, hence why I feel comfortable on this faceless forum and feel like pouring my heart out here. So far I almost did it again recently but I quickly overcame it, wasn’t easy that day as I had to masturbate like 5 times for the konji to totally die off |
Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by PastorOlokonla: 3:01pm On Mar 06 |
canada123: You will have to create new good habits to combat old ones. Go out more, make new friends. Read a lot of books. Remove yourself from environments that enables bad habits. Its all a mind game my brother and nothing special about sex, if you let it control you, it will destroy you and your wife. Also, there are good therapists in Canada that can work with you. |
Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by Anashe: 7:46pm On Mar 06 |
canada123: Don't be scared. Just seek professional help, you'll be fine. Wishing you the best. |
Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by DrFunmisticGlow: 8:02pm On Mar 06 |
canada123:marriage will not guarantee you regular sex. Your friends are tripping. Don't be deceived. |
Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by Onionstew: 12:09am On Mar 07 |
canada123: You are romansing the grave |
Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by Bolt458: 1:06am On Mar 07 |
canada123:bro, I try dat shit wen I first land. When I realized how much I was losing, I give myself brain |
Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by canada123: 5:44am On Mar 07 |
Bolt458: Oh really, how did you approach it bro |
Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by canada123: 5:44am On Mar 07 |
PastorOlokonla: Yh I guess they are good therapist, already in talks with scheduling a session with one |
Re: Really Want To Get Married, (my Addiction/lust Is Consuming Me) by PastorOlokonla: 5:47am On Mar 07 |
canada123: That is a good step in the right direction. Hopefully everything works out well for you. |
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