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Re: My Husband Is Making Me Feel Depressed by Bigseven(m): 4:26pm On Mar 12 |
Kobojunkie:obviously you are just balabuluing because you don’t have any solution for her you just countering peoples output. Ogbeni say something that will make sense to her lets see |
Re: My Husband Is Making Me Feel Depressed by Kobojunkie: 4:27pm On Mar 12 |
Bigseven:Of course it can't make sense to you because your obvious goal is to ensure she remains shackled even with all she has had to deal with. That seems to be the default programming of the average Nigerian, particularly towards womenfolk. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Is Making Me Feel Depressed by budaatum: 4:28pm On Mar 12 |
Georgekyrian: I think you mean, according to your own understanding of what you've had the opportunity to see. To wit, perhaps you should clear your eyes.
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Re: My Husband Is Making Me Feel Depressed by Bongadu: 5:05pm On Mar 12 |
Just cut off his forking preek off How hard can it be 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Is Making Me Feel Depressed by galantjoe(m): 7:10pm On Mar 12 |
Am here for you Dm Am waiting |
Re: My Husband Is Making Me Feel Depressed by Neptunium(m): 8:06pm On Mar 12 |
GodHimself:What money does he have? Isn't she the one giving him money? |
Re: My Husband Is Making Me Feel Depressed by sowhatifiamibo(m): 8:20pm On Mar 12 |
immortalcrown:For how long is she supposed to do nothing but continue "speaking" to him?! Is he a little kid, that's naive and unaware of the effect of his behavior on the wife and his marriage?!! If he continues with the cheating,then what? More fruitless talking and speaking?!! 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Is Making Me Feel Depressed by GodHimself(m): 8:25pm On Mar 12 |
She stated she doesn’t have enough money to leave right now. Neptunium: |
Re: My Husband Is Making Me Feel Depressed by flokii: 8:28pm On Mar 12 |
@OP See a counsellor, let the person talk to you and your husband maybe he'll change. |
Re: My Husband Is Making Me Feel Depressed by Bigseven(m): 8:57pm On Mar 12 |
Kobojunkie:o[color=#000099][/color] you mean if it’s your sister you’ll tell her she has to deal with it Obviously you a mirror to her post on cheat. You sound heartless like her cheating husband. |
Re: My Husband Is Making Me Feel Depressed by Kobojunkie: 8:59pm On Mar 12 |
Bigseven:But OP has been the one dealing with the consequences of her husband's cheating for the past 6 years? Why are you so unmoved by any of what she has revealed here? It doesn't seem to concern you at all that the one who has been languishing in mental anguish has been OP over what her husband has been doing to her in marriage. If OP was your son or brother, would you equally be here dishing out the very same advice, complete with the many shackles you desperately wish for OP to continue to wear on her? |
Re: My Husband Is Making Me Feel Depressed by Bigseven(m): 9:41pm On Mar 12 |
Kobojunkie:I’m a realist and of course if it’s my brother I’ll do same by telling her the same thing moved on and ignore him. After all no marriage in heaven. Live every moment and make it count and don’t tie your happiness to another man cos I won’t allow someone’s daughter to suffer. You actually have limited understanding that’s why are still insisting on the one the last part of my instead of understanding the whole point. I think let leave you with what you felt you understood but you didn’t. I’m sure if the OP follow our conversation she’ll know what to peak and what to trash. So Dey your Dey man |
Re: My Husband Is Making Me Feel Depressed by Didijiji: 10:01pm On Mar 12 |
Freelancerr:How Hope no be WhatsApp web for laptop |
Re: My Husband Is Making Me Feel Depressed by Kobojunkie: 10:26pm On Mar 12 |
Bigseven:My realist, so if your brother's wife or son's wife were cheating on him, you would equally advice him to.... Bigseven:...equally remain in the marriage but adopt the following attitudes towards her ● Ignore the cheating wife ● Never confront her, give her space, and concentrate on his children and himself ● Dress himself well and take good care of himself ● No longer give his wife money ● Give his wife the silent treatment ● Take himself out on dates ● never cheat on her |
Re: My Husband Is Making Me Feel Depressed by Bigseven(m): 11:42pm On Mar 12 |
Kobojunkie:you are so delusional and myopic as you keep twisting my position thinking that you are making sense meanwhile you’re not. Get a life bro. You’ve asked what if it’s my brother and I clearly make you understand in simple terms that I advise the lady same way. Bring a man’s scenario side by side a woman that cheats is inconsequential because you and I know our gender has been placed on the advantage side in all ramifications as far as marriage is concerned especially Africa. But No one deserve to die in depression because of marriage; why twisting words as if my position was on the man ? I guess when a limited knowledge meets superior knowledge blabbing becomes the norm and that’s exactly what you are spewing. Anyways I’m not ready for useless arguments and conversations. Besides I wasn’t advising you in the first place. If my position pains you as a cheat then focus on your cheating and stop misunderstanding and misquoting me please 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Is Making Me Feel Depressed by Kobojunkie: 12:39am On Mar 13 |
Bigseven:So in all, your advice, albeit from what you consider realistic, comes laden with a huge dollop of misogyny, just as I have pointed out all the while. |
Re: My Husband Is Making Me Feel Depressed by SonofGod231: 1:07am On Mar 13 |
We are here for friendship and extra marital affairs. Just holla or pm. I assure you, We'll make you feel better that you'll forget your husband in no time. Everyone deserves to be happy ohh. |
Re: My Husband Is Making Me Feel Depressed by frozen70(f): 9:07pm On Mar 13 |
Uzorbaby: I think the way to go is to forget about the idea of packing out Stay there so far he hasn't chased you out Secondly he is living a flirting life and there is absolutely nothing you can do to stop him until he is tired of such Lastly, you have to over look that thing he does that breaks your heart Just assume he has a mistress, obtain anything you can obtain from him through your children to start saving incase he finally leaves you for that other woman So many women in marriage are enduring shits Take charge of your emotions and take care of your children 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Making Me Feel Depressed by mrblessed(m): 5:12am On Mar 14 |
E be like say madam want start away match. Anyway, she say na gist friends. |
Re: My Husband Is Making Me Feel Depressed by SonofGod231: 1:40pm On Mar 18 |
Uzorbaby:Send me a message on Whatsapp 0*8*0*** I can no longer access this email. |
Re: My Husband Is Making Me Feel Depressed by Emmanuel30a2: 3:37pm On Mar 19 |
Bongadu:100000... How much did you want to gives me? |
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