I was in a relationship with my (now ex I guess) girlfriend for 5 years. We didn't have sex until we were 4 years in because she wanted to wait until it felt right. I respected it wholeheartedly. Of course I wanted to but I loved her more than I wanted to have sex with her an I waited until she blatantly told me she was ready (and dragged me to the bedroom herself).

his mistake was commiting to a relationship where the other party told him she wanted to wait until it felt right to have sex with him. She didn't say until marriage, if na marriage we fit even excuse am, she wants to wait until it feels right to commit fornication with you. Even when she is at peace with commiting fornication, she no think say u worth am(at that point) BUT you probably kept commiting the things that are valuable to you to the relationship, ur state of mind, ur finances, everything.


Just in January, she told me she wanted to take a step back from our relationship and said she wasn't in the right mind space to be with me. I was hurt but she assured me that she loved me and would be with me again when she got her mind right. We remained friends and talked daily. I was excited for the day we could get back together
see am see finish dun finish u here na why she dey tell u this nonsense and as usual u take am too. U no rate yourself at all. when anyone tells u these things, "I'm not in the right frame of mind for our relationship", "I think you are too good for me and u deserve a better person" ..... oga dem just dey tell u in a nice way that they are not feeling you and they don't want u. Love and support from anyone u love when u are going through shit will have ONLY ONE IMPACT, and that is make u feel better and recover better. So if they ask for space, alaye u are not useful to them ni

What she did hurts but how she did it hurts most. How could she have done this with a guy she barely knew? Such a creepy one at that. How could she have done this so easily when she took her sweet time with me? I feel disgusted and angry. There's so much rage. A part of me feels guilty about how I feel since I know she didn't owe me sex and owns her own body, I'm not usually anywhere close to a misogynist but why is this such a slap in the face? I feel like my heart was bitch-slapped.
i think you are better-off as her brother or father, not as her husband/boyfriend. she took the right decision pushing him away

Am I wrong?
No you are not wrong, you are just SIMPing

Na you dey mind common woman

Xenry:
Nice guys always finish last.

Obidient Done break obidient heart,evil people

students listen up.

when vaginas react, they do so in volumes which bear simple nakings, and to the volumes of satisfaction, provided the right opportunity and price remain constant.

one person no dey get otu.
otu gbowakwa enyim nwanyi

Xenry:
Nice guys always finish last.

It this post really happened, I need to know few things before I comment.
1) How old are you??

2)We're you having sex throughout that 4 years, just be sincere to me.

3) Did she tell you she is a virgin??

Most times men/boys are the cause of this kind of useless attitude from these women.

izubext007:
She new you are such a useless weak simp, that's why she boldly call u to tell u she has just dished out her smelling kitten 😏😏😏😏😏😏

Not only that, do you know that girl has been fucking men steady but the fool refused to read the hand writing. If that does not value her a pet dog, she won't have the guts to call him and tell him, she wanted to teach him thru the hard way.
I love that .....he deserve more than that

Xenry:
Nice guys always finish last.

Guy you're a weak man oh. You waited 4 years? I would have left after three months. No be me you go use discover yourself

What's the big deal? Don't men mistakenly impregnate women outside? Don't men mistakenly sleep with admirers? House helps etc?Why are men sounding like this is something u heard of or impossible to happen?

Look4success:
Ahh. For four years?? So, they were just talking and doing nothing 🤔

No.

They were discussing Samson and Delilah. What an interesting topic.

Run for her.... Just have fun with her and look for someone else bcoz she is going to do it again and again even with the same guy or someone else

Punishment well deserved for a simple man like you. The girl no rate. Girl wey rate you can't boldly tell you she sucked another man's dickk.

So?

How a guy still gets disappointed in ladies is what baffles me.

This life, there is no balance

Na God go punish this OP sha, the kind rage I feel right now ehn, e dey do me as if make I see you make I deck you 2by4 for head. I still fit bet my life say if the girl still beg you, you go still take am back. Chai, God, I would rather not have a male child than to have an oloriburuku like you, mah you dey date girl, girl no dry date you, while you dey live up, girl dey collect steady knacking, take it or leave it, that guy no be the first person to Bleep am sef, she just say make you tell you that one to see how your were go react since you be mumu wet saliva dey drop fro him mouth 😡😡

Wetin I just read?

4year! I never knew there is course in the university like that ohh!

See girl wey people like us dey knack they day we met her, na him this one take 4year.

Oh my God, this thing pain me!

Nice guys finish last

Well as far as I know Nigeria women, and as far as I don't like their character either. But I strongly disbelieve that a Nigeria woman can go into relationship with you and deny you access to her, and to this long. Except you're not in a relationship but you thought you guys were. The only situation Nigeria women can deny one sex is in marriage, when they started giving birth. Which most of us here encounters in our homes. I dey among, I no go lie, my wife does that. But na men like us wey dey vex too much can stay 4years without touching their wives. Why? Because you deny me one night, without reason, I deny you 3months. No time. That's why God bless us with side chicks to save marriage

Fuckyoumod:
you are a big simp.... You deserve what you got. You are waiting for a girl for 4 years. Mehn.... Simple guys full this world ooh... I can't ask a lady out more than 2 weeks.

Asking a lady out for more than two weeks
Is pure stupidity.
Women don't waste their energy or make a man they like wait for too long, Because they equally like and want him too.

See the harder she is to you, the more she doesn't like you.

Na from Reddit I copy the post oo. No be me be the OP abeg

DavidEsq:

The 3rd meme dey off me😂😂😂😂😂😂

Baba...no go watch that thing ooooo

How and why should you be angry with an ex

Lover boy, you dated a sincere olosho


All these mumu stories sef, someone you didn't meet as virgin tell you she's not ready for sex and you ok it for 4yrs, someone a guy bleep within a week, held her body for 4years



Welcome to Lagos bro

It’s nothing. You met her when she was innocent. Then you eventually took her innocence after 4 years , and she saw no value in her chastity anymore. Basically you turned her into a ho

Don't understand the reason for you to be angry?

Format, not we'll granded, if the lamba solid, 3 days na long thing...

nairalanda1:
Reddit tales.

Anything on that site is to be taken with a pinch of salt

You're right. I got the tale from Reddit.

Xenry:
Nice guys always finish last.

Simps everywhere.

I always say this.. Ladies will break their rules for a guy they strongly desire but will make crazy rules for a guy they are not into.

Xenry:
Nice guys always finish last.

There is no heaven for a simp.

Once you know that “dem no dey die put, where you stop, another man will continue…” you will find peace.

A lady had sex with a man and said she didn’t know how it happened. And a fool of a man would even console her. You don’t know how it happened but you felt the penis in you and moaned?


Lol

Sirhush:


Last last na you go tire

..Either Na me or the babe person must die..Them must print obituary for one of us..

There's nothing new in any relationship. Anything you see you take... period!

Simps always learn the hard way

Nothing new

advanceDNA:
The epistle was very nauseating to read...

Simps always thinks "respecting" women, obeying, doing all they want and talking nice makes them Lovable.......

Most Women wey nor know wetin dem want....woman wey go tell u say she want God fearing, yahooboy, with badboy, small tattoo, 420 vibes.... See be combination?? No be juju be that?? ....

Lol but the combo really dey exist sha