One person said the husband is dressed like a bar tender

This is wrong. This gift has the potency to cause rift later on between the couples. Wisdom should have taught the brother to gift the car to both of them and not the bride alone. They are already one as a union and they are both going into marriage with the psychology that they are to share everything in love. At best, if the brother wanted to specially treat his baby sister, he should have done that before the wedding and not at the wedding or even after the wedding. My humble opinion though.

Glimpsetv:
A video circulating online shows the bride's brother presenting her with a car gift on her wedding day, which has sparked mixed reactions.

The brother of the bride stepped forward onto the stage where the bride and groom were seated, holding a microphone. He publicly announced, "On behalf of the bride's family and the boys," then handed her a car key. He further announced that the bride's mother had promised to fuel the car with N1.5 million, eliciting cheers and screams of joy from the crowd.

Well-wishers in attendance subsequently escorted the bride and groom outside to where the car was parked.

However, this kind gesture has sparked mixed reactions on social media platforms as many opined that the public presentation of the gift was unnecessary, expressing that it should have been kept low-key rather than publicized.

What are your thoughts on this? Feel free to share your thoughts in the comments section.




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HecD2rXXHKI

yahoo boys

All those negatives comments are from bad people,they are within us know them and run

How is this an issue?


When will they do it low key? During her honeymoon?

That's why I don't like camera/ media things

Iamicekid:
But how is this even a problem, all this poverty people mindset sha, her blood brother spoiling my wife so what’s there, as long as it ain’t no ex or bestie I’m good… if unna dey hate then go spoil ur own sis too now

Abi now I see nothing bad in this

benuejosh:
Na still the husband property.

Hehehehe.....d tin wey the whole world don know say e belong to d wife? #see finish

Well you have a point though, on d condition that the wife is humble. But if d wife has d mentality of the average woman, na to collect key from am everytime they have d slightest disagreement, bearing in mind the belief of the average woman that "her money/property is her money/property but his money/property is their money/property

If the clip we just saw is anything to go by, the woman is far from being humble. If she truly recognizes her husband as d head of the family, she should have given d key to d husband. The image of d wife being in d driver's seat whilst her 'head' is in d passenger's corner is pregnant with meanings.
Those who know, know.

All this talk of bruising male ego! Get over it! It's a blessing to have that simple car it is a wedding gift! In the states some people can afford to give the newly weds down payment for homes!!! Everybody doesn't want to smile, teeth teeth while suffering

All of these will not fit in your selfcon located at No.6 feet street, stop the showoff!!! Enjoy life privately

The husband be like I don enter one chance.

that's not our business, he should have handed her a key to a factory

Glimpsetv:
A video circulating online shows the bride's brother presenting her with a car gift on her wedding day, which has sparked mixed reactions.

The brother of the bride stepped forward onto the stage where the bride and groom were seated, holding a microphone. He publicly announced, "On behalf of the bride's family and the boys," then handed her a car key. He further announced that the bride's mother had promised to fuel the car with N1.5 million, eliciting cheers and screams of joy from the crowd.

Well-wishers in attendance subsequently escorted the bride and groom outside to where the car was parked.

However, this kind gesture has sparked mixed reactions on social media platforms as many opined that the public presentation of the gift was unnecessary, expressing that it should have been kept low-key rather than publicized.

What are your thoughts on this? Feel free to share your thoughts in the comments section.




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HecD2rXXHKI

That's their tradition.

So, there's no need hiding it.

benuejosh:
Na still the husband property.

The woman is the one who found love here.

The man will definitely find his own love in the woman later.

(He better not try outside.. he MAY regret it)

Many Nigerian men get problem sha.
Sounding like they were not loved in their childhood.

-Lord

In two months the girl will start taunting the guy.
"Wale you can't go out with that car. Sebi I told you me and girls have an outing,"

My guy will just drop key jeje and go club with his old ride.

Trophy12:
but on a serious note I love people who appreciates gifts even though they are small.

Buy me a GWagon Let me appreciate you

luminouz:

Mtchewwww.... Who wan marry this one ...
Continue dreaming ..lameass cook

I wish you know what happens in my real life kos you won't be saying this.

Have you tasted my meals before to call me lame cook? Thundafayayou

EreluRoz:
Buy me a GWagon Let me appreciate you

send me 5k let me appreciate

Trophy12:
send me 5k let me appreciate

It's a taboo to send money to a man where I come from

Y’all are not well

Fiscus105:
If I'm to be in position of brother in-laws and want go public.

I WILL PRESENT IT TO THE COUPLE BY HANDLING THE KEY TO THE GROOM, BUT THE PAPER WOULD CARRY BRIDE's NAME.

if I'm in position of bride.

IMMEDIATE THE BROTHERS HANDED OVER THE KEY TO ME, I WOULD HAND OVER IT TO MY HUSBAND.

all these are needed in other not to bruise egos and to fashion in peace in the marriage, I biliv the ultimate goal of parties involved is to have long lasting and peaceful marriage.

PEOPLE DO BLAMING MARRIAGE INSTITUTION WHEN IT FAILS, BUT NOT BLAMING THE ACTIONS AND INACTIONS THAT LED TO ITS FAILURE.

EreluRoz:
I wish you know what happens in my real life kos you won't be saying this.

Have you tasted my meals before to call me lame cook? Thundafayayou

Yen yen yen...real.life kee you dia

Ogunfayayourblokos

Make my wife to be don begin drive before I marry am or make her people do as this woman people do, Oluwa.

Because I can't imagine my wife and kids, entering danfo or her quarrelling with Uber driver.

If her family can run it, I will dance more than the bride. I will dance like David danced.

Because millions for wedding and millions to start family; I come see person wey help reduce expenses , which dirty ego I wan get to feel bad ?

I don't understand.

If the groom is the one to receive gifts from his family, the wife would be glad, and she can't oppose to it. It would look weird.

Why can't a husband too be happy that his wife is receiving gifts from her family? Why all this animosity from men towards gifts received by their wife from the wife's family?

Is it that the right thing is for the wife to have no support system? Nothing in her family should match yours, if your family are not caring for you, bringing you gifts, hers should also not attempt it? Men's families would abandon them, and the men will want the same misery to be visited upon their wives as well.

I really don't understand the bad belle. What your family didn't or cannot do, wife's family must not attempt it.

thanks you took the words outta my mouth

Iamicekid:
But how is this even a problem, all this poverty people mindset sha, her blood brother spoiling my wife so what’s there, as long as it ain’t no ex or bestie I’m good… if unna dey hate then go spoil ur own sis too now

Villa12:
go and make money and stop reasoning like a toddler. How can i be angry because my wife siblings or friends gift her a car? I be witch or i be enemy of progress? If a man feel intimidated by ordinary car gift given to his wife, tell me how that man will feel if his wife got multi-million dollar contract?

Those who have made money do not go about telling people to go and make money.

The husband knows he would continually remain a passenger, in that car....... The public presentation, was to alert everyone that cares to know (the real owner)....... 😜🤣

nothing wrong with that!
at least to let family of the husband be aware that their son does not own the car!!

cococandy:
Y’all are not well

COMMING FROM THE MOUTH OF PSYCHIATRY PATIENT.

The Groom's car subsequently, all those girls in town are in trouble



Africa magic

FalseProphet1:

The spirit of poverty has built duplex on your head, that's why you're reasoning this way. But I'll help you.

Go and buy a brand new bell, then lay your right hand on your head and use your left hand to ring the bell vigorously screaming poverty die die die poverty die.

Poverty die oooo poverty die.

Do it for at least 30 minutes and you'll be fine..

This I have seen.

Even falseprophet don see am too. Nigerians stupid sha o. So if my daughter is marrying a guy who is not financially buoyant and I have the means to provide I should be doing sneaky gifts? No wonder naija men are full of egotistical beggars too proud to accept the help they need