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Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by HighChief4(m): 11:12pm On Nov 14, 2011
tpia@:

another characteristic of such people is they tend to reduce females to s.exual objects and find it very hard to have a non-s.exual online discussion with a woman.

many of them are heavily into p.orn and typically, post a lot of n.aked images of women online.

this doesnt necessarily mean they're straight however, but the p.orn is useful in ensnaring other men and keeping yet others addicted while they're being used for whatever they're supposed to be doing.

they also tend towards fatalism/nihilism when discussing relationships and/or the future, and often express fear or aggression in a knee jerk reaction when thinking or typing about females.

will also study their female counterparts as well.

Its ok, we have heard, dont bother again ok.
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by Nobody: 11:14pm On Nov 14, 2011
High_Chief:

Its ok, we have heard, dont bother again ok.

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190_@:

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Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by 195(f): 11:19pm On Nov 14, 2011
MsDarkSkin:

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Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by Nayah(f): 11:41pm On Nov 14, 2011
Poster, don' t forget some Africans are francophones are Portuguese speaking are you sure they don't complain abot their women?
Then I can tell you you're wrong go to Ivory Coast then you'll see how much they complain about their materialistic beahaviour, same thing for Cameroonian or Senegalese and Congolese so Nigerian are not the only case wink
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by Nobody: 12:08am On Nov 15, 2011
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Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by 195(f): 12:40am On Nov 15, 2011
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Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by tpia5: 12:50am On Nov 15, 2011
In addition, the posters in question are OVERWHELMINGLY from ONE PARTICULAR STATE in nigeria.

Various conclusions to be drawn from that.

They form the bulk, while other support staff from other tribes chip in occasionally, but usually at a lower frequency than the males from this one state.

Makes me wonder about the culture over there- i suppose its conducive to such because i cant really think of any other explanation though i'm open to any other suggestion that seems valid.
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by 195(f): 12:53am On Nov 15, 2011
^Tpia how far now smiley
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by tpia5: 1:38am On Nov 15, 2011
Although that doesnt necessarily mean the posters from the one particular state that i noticed, who are the most vocal, arent actually working under the direction of the quieter others who prefer to remain under the radar.
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by BCuZiMBlaCk(m): 2:08am On Nov 15, 2011
Ur way isnt pure again
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by nanidee(f): 2:25am On Nov 15, 2011
Men who constantly complain about their women are either:

1) Suffering from an extreme case of inferiority complex especially when tĦey are such broke-a*ss loosers, can't think of how to approach a chic or just way down there

2) Immature

3) Still squirming from having their a*ss dumped, and trying to make a come-back at ladies.
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by BCuZiMBlaCk(m): 2:33am On Nov 15, 2011
Mmm
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by silvertuke(m): 10:16am On Nov 15, 2011
Nayah:

Poster, don' t forget some Africans are francophones are Portuguese speaking are you sure they don't complain abot their women?
Then I can tell you you're wrong go to Ivory Coast then you'll see how much they complain about their materialistic beahaviour, same thing for Cameroonian or Senegalese and Congolese so Nigerian are not the only case wink

Ok I hear you but have you been to any of these countries you just mention?
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by chines4(m): 10:29am On Nov 15, 2011
nanidee:

Men who constantly complain about their women are either:

1) Suffering from an extreme case of inferiority complex especially when tĦey are such broke-a*ss loosers, can't think of how to approach a chic or just way down there

2) Immature

3) Still squirming from having their a*ss dumped, and trying to make a come-back at ladies.

And what about women that complain nag about their men.
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by londoner: 11:01am On Nov 15, 2011
Some Nigerian men have an insatiable need for self-flagellation that's all.

Whether it is talking down their country or their female counterparts, its an extension of how they tend to put themselves down.

It is not that other African men do not have the same complaints about their women, they do, but they hardly air their dirty linen in public and at the end of the day would defend their sisters, mothers and daughters. You have to be part of their inner circle to hear the negatives going on in their community.

Nigerian men of today would talk down their people and their country to anyone that will listen. Many have lost all pride and principles.

Some Nigerian men have in general eroded any bond or sense of responsibility to community or family.

When they look at Nigerian women who are all about money and material things at ANY cost,they don't like it.

Its their own reflection in the mirror that they are afraid of and they hate to see it up close.
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by Nobody: 11:34am On Nov 15, 2011
Other african men do complain about the their women the same way nigerian men complain about their women so its not just a nigerian thing.
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by emofine(f): 12:21pm On Nov 15, 2011
I completely agree with Londoner and Nj girl. I just don't understand why some do not understand that publicly disrespecting their women actually causes them to be a subject of shame - and it appears some even gain pleasure from such derision. I can never be with a man that disrespects the women that enabled his nurturing even for mere sport because he clearly does not respect himself and thus cannot respect me. After all if events turn serious I may carry his child and would such abuse follow his female child? his lineage? (smh).
If a Nigerian woman marries outside her child will not bear those taunts unlike the men in whom the lineage is continued, they are indirectly abusing their descendants.
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by Ruq: 1:12pm On Nov 15, 2011
It's everywhere man naija'S just gettin worst
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by BCuZiMBlaCk(m): 1:40pm On Nov 15, 2011
tom28:

Other african men do complain about the their women the same way nigerian men complain about their women so its not just a nigerian thing.
its worldwide
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by DaDoctor: 2:00pm On Nov 15, 2011
NOW U FUULS ARE REPLYING RIGHT?
TOT 190 POSTED SOMETHING SIMILA AND YOU ALL WERE BASHING HIM.
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Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by Nobody: 6:25pm On Nov 15, 2011
BCuZiMBlaCk:

its worldwide
true
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by forkadict(m): 6:58pm On Nov 15, 2011
Here we go again. Its always about naija babes on nairaland. But has anyone ever asked himself why naija chics do not complain about naija guys? Its because if they got anything to say at all it will be about our love for forking or that we are generally broke. The first allegation can not be regarded as one cos its a well known fact which aint common to naija guys only. It applies to men all over the world. As for the second allegation, we cann always use that as a counter to butress our point on how materialistic naija chics are.

I for one try as much as i can to avoid coming on here to bash naija chics but truth be told, naija chics too dey fork up. Kai!

As someone with field experience, i meet chics almost all the time with the intention of getting to screw them afterward. So i met one a few months ago. I took her out to an eatery on one occassion. Fork up number one was, until that time that i took her out, we were just friends. We never held hands, no touching each other, no nothing. But when we emerged from the eatery, she was already holding me by the waist.

After the outing, i asked whether she had a sweet tooth cos i intended buying her biscuits whenever i visited until whenever i forked her then she would lose the privilege, She confirmed that she had a sweet tooth and then her fork up number 2 occured shortly afterward. I visited her as usual with the pasteries and we smooched in the car under the cover of darkness. After the whole smoochy smoochy i went to drop her off. Can you all imagine that this stooopid, hungry beach forgot her purse which had some important documents in my car but she didnt forget the pasteries, To now add salt to injury, i didnt know that she left her purse in my car only for my steady chic to discover the purse in my car and then world war 3 broke out. I was so forking mad.

So you see naija chics no just dey try at all. Wetin my eye don see, nairaland no fit contain am.
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by runsgirl: 9:46pm On Nov 15, 2011
Some do
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by ijawgirl: 9:55pm On Nov 15, 2011
londoner:

Some Nigerian men have an insatiable need for self-flagellation that's all.

Whether it is talking down their country or their female counterparts, its an extension of how they tend to put themselves down.

It is not that other African men do not have the same complaints about their women, they do, but they hardly air their dirty linen in public and at the end of the day would defend their sisters, mothers and daughters. You have to be part of their inner circle to hear the negatives going on in their community.

Nigerian men of today would talk down their people and their country to anyone that will listen. Many have lost all pride and principles.


Some Nigerian men have in general eroded any bond or sense of responsibility to community or family.

When they look at Nigerian women who are all about money and material things at ANY cost,they don't like it.

Its their own reflection in the mirror that they are afraid of and they hate to see it up close.

Brilliant!
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by Nobody: 11:33pm On Nov 15, 2011
londoner:

Some Nigerian men have an insatiable need for self-flagellation that's all.

Whether it is talking down their country or their female counterparts, its an extension of how they tend to put themselves down
.


It is not that other African men do not have the same complaints about their women, they do, but they hardly air their dirty linen in public and at the end of the day would defend their sisters, mothers and daughters. You have to be part of their inner circle to hear the negatives going on in their community.

Nigerian men of today would talk down their people and their country to anyone that will listen. Many have lost all pride and principles.

Some Nigerian men have in general eroded any bond or sense of responsibility to community or family.

When they look at Nigerian women who are all about money and material things at ANY cost,they don't like it.

Its their own reflection in the mirror that they are afraid of and they hate to see it up close.

THANK YOU!!  cool
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by MrsChima1(f): 11:55pm On Nov 15, 2011
It is me or certain lost boys haven't responded on this thread? lipsrsealed Hmm.
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by tpia5: 4:51am On Nov 16, 2011
i meet chics almost all the time with the intention of getting to screw them afterward

you dont say.
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by Meristem: 7:04am On Nov 16, 2011
facebook and blackberry has transformed the society as we used to know it. i foresee danger mmm WAHALA DEY cool
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by cynthiafred67(f): 1:46pm On Nov 16, 2011
@op
I think they do complain but not as much as nija guys do. nija guys use the slightest opportunity they have 2 complain about women I think that is their own weakness
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by silvertuke(m): 5:18pm On Nov 16, 2011
cynthiafred67:

@op
I think they do complain but not as much as nija guys do. nija guys use the slightest opportunity they have 2 complain about women I think that is their own weakness

so who is to be blame the ladies or the men?
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by cynthiafred67(f): 7:40pm On Nov 16, 2011
silvertuke:

so who is to be blame the ladies or the men?


^^^both
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by Ybutterfly: 2:54am On Nov 30, 2011
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