Good evening everyone please I have a girlfriend that we love both each other.firstly she don’t have a phone before we start dating but once I bought phone for her she just have only guys on her phone.. I found out that she is dating me and 2 other guy.. one is married man and one is a guy and me too a guy making it 3..well I always watch and investigate through her phone but now I stopped it because I think the phone gives me heartburn whenever I check.. so normally I don’t have much money and I am planning for my future too and she also works so I only think maybe it’s because I don’t really have money that is why she get them maybe just to play game with them and collect money from them but this is going beyond that because she always call them..please what advice will you give me with that…

Do I need to bother on that or I should not worry about it but normally we plan on marrying each other in the future.. please don’t just read but reply with answers please

I need advice please

A girl who claims to love you will never allow other man see her unclothedness let alone go between her legs.

Oga I know the problem, it is your English. If you speak to a woman the way you compose this your write up, she will not be able to see you in a long term relationship...

But seriously you already know your fellow side niggas, and you are still with her, so why do you need advice ? As long as she is giving you the skruntus steady, don't complain, because the girl is trying to survive by leveraging what she has and you cant blame her ... Just be calm and wait your turn ....but don't forget to save up for STD test soon becasue you might need it.

Franzinni:
Oga I know the problem, it is your English. If you speak to a woman the way you compose this your write up, she will not be able to see you in a long term relationship...

But seriously you already know your fellow side niggas, and you are still with her, so why do you need advice ? As long as she is giving you the skruntus steady, don't complain, because the girl is trying to survive by leveraging what she has and you cant blame her ... Just be calm and wait your turn ....but don't forget to save up for STD test soon becasue you might need it.

ok

Franzinni:
Oga I know the problem, it is your English. If you speak to a woman the way you compose this your write up, she will not be able to see you in a long term relationship...

But seriously you already know your fellow side niggas, and you are still with her, so why do you need advice ? As long as she is giving you the skruntus steady, don't complain, because the girl is trying to survive by leveraging what she has and you cant blame her ... Just be calm and wait your turn ....but don't forget to save up for STD test soon becasue you might need it.

but I want you to know that this is a serious matter not a joking matter.. you are taking it as a joke but how I wish all your male children should experience this kind of situation and no way out for them

one thing you must know is that most of the guys that will be coming here to advice you also have cheating girlfriend. Some of them are aware some are not aware so dont expect a
perfect answers or solutions here.
The only solution i will give you is go home put off your phone take a glass of water then stand infront of the mirror and gaze at your self.as you sip the water.

Then you can now help me ask your self in the mirror this questions
1. Before you met this girl how was your life.
2. Do you deserve to be treated this way ie to be lied to, used as second option or played.

3. Can you marry such a girl who is not contended.
4. Will you die if you faced this girl with the truth of what you know.
5 if you leave her or if she leaves you will you die?
6 are you dat unlovable that yiu have become this trapped with this unloyal person.
7. If you employed a staff to work in your company will u allow her use the time she suppose to work for you for another and still expect follow pay and appraisal.
8. Does she deserve you.

madone:
one thing you must know is that most of the guys that will be coming here to advice you also have cheating girlfriend. Some of them are aware some are not aware so dont expect a
perfect answers or solutions here.
The only solution i will give you is go home put off your phone take a glass of water then stand infront of the mirror and gaze at your self.as you sip the water.

Then you can now help me ask your self in the mirror this questions
1. Before you met this girl how was your life.
2. Do you deserve to be treated this way ie to be lied to, used as second option or played.

3. Can you marry such a girl who is not contended.
4. Will you die if you faced this girl with the truth of what you know.
5 if you leave her or if she leaves you will you die?
6 are you dat unlovable that yiu have become this trapped with this unloyal person.
7. If you employed a staff to work in your company will u allow her use the time she suppose to work for you for another and still expect follow pay and appraisal.
8. Does she deserve you.

baba thank you so much..I appreciate that .. sounds matured

Armaniboywishes:
but I want you to know that this is a serious matter not a joking matter.. you are taking it as a joke but how I wish all your male children should experience this kind of situation and no way out for them

oga, you cant be serious nah, but if yoi are ... Oni bo ninue... No be swear baba! Lakai re ti bodo lo... You bought the phone for her that she is using to wine other men ...and you are looking for advice on what to do ? Ah orie ti daru walahisumabilahi!

Franzinni:
oga, you cant be serious nah, but if yoi are ... Oni bo ninue... No be swear baba! Lakai re ti bodo lo... You bought the phone for her that she is using to wine other men ...and you are looking for advice on what to do ? Ah orie ti daru walahisumabilahi!

Wa shofo ni o.. so you be Yoruba so you come here dey wine your fellow person.. o ni opolo .. let me tell you I basically asked this question because I don’t want to follow wrong decision.. I know what to do on my own but just want to here what people wey no get sense like you will say and also to here from matured people

Armaniboywishes:

Wa shofo ni o.. so you be Yoruba so you come here dey wine your fellow person.. o ni opolo .. let me tell you I basically asked this question because I don’t want to follow wrong decision.. I know what to do on my own but just want to here what people wey no get sense like you will say and also to here from matured people

at least you done hear werin I wan talk ... Eleribu you dey find mature advice for toto matter for midnight when one of your fellow after set dey push prick inside your girl intestine laidis laidis ... You go see mature advice shogbo. Anu e nshemi... Obo ti fe so e di okponu. Ah! Wetin pain me pass be say you even say you dey wan marry ashana... Walahi sumabilahi, won ti fun e ni Omi obo mu.. dey play ▶️

Namaster:

Bro
This your laugh made me laugh

Is your mama still alive

She needs to sincerely pray for you, make she touch your heart

Yes ,its normal.mugu

Most girlfriends cheat these days for economic reasons.
If you love her, just call her and speak frankly with her on how you distaste her whoring activities and see if she would change.
Do your best financially for her too.
If she doesn't change after making sacrifices for her sake, do just this....

DISH HER!

I don't want to talk about your English language so, I'll give you one advice: Take your life serious and focus on your future.